How to politely refuse when you know that the other person is a liar and cheated you of your money and valuables?

First, learn to cheat. Generally speaking, there are the following four kinds of cheating methods for swindlers:

(1) Take advantage of some social reputation and status. Because some people care about people's rank, it is natural to worship fame and status. Liars are well aware of this, so they openly pretend to be some high-level people, such as leaders, experts, actors and celebrities, or pretend to be relatives and close friends of some high-level people and pretend to be their own identities. Unfortunately, many people respected it and were cheated as a result.

(2) use money and materials. Some people are greedy for money and are easily confused in the fog of money. Liars always use two methods to "teach students according to their aptitude", one is empty promises, and the other is petty profits. Therefore, many people are willing to take the bait.

(3) Use female colors. Some female swindlers often show off their prostitutes, sell their sexiness, capture the souls of some playboy men, and then defraud them of money, goods, information and so on.

(4) Take advantage of intimate interpersonal relationships. Some swindlers like to pull relatives and climb fellow villagers, so as to break the vigilance of the deceived and achieve the purpose of cheating.

Second, learn preventive skills. "No matter how cunning the fox is, it is no match for a good hunter." In view of the characteristics and diverse means of premeditated fraud, on the one hand, public security organs should use various investigation measures and means to expose and crack down on it in time; On the other hand, the masses should always be vigilant, learn to see through the tricks of swindlers and prevent problems before they happen.

(1) Preventing cheating in public security situations. A. The road is the main activity place for swindlers. Many people are cheated when exchanging tickets and articles on the road. So, don't blindly be greedy and fall into the trap. B, there are always some mysterious magic shows in front of the park. Liars use magic to cause people's visual errors, while some people are too confident and always think that seeing is believing. As a result, they lost money and regretted it. In this regard, it is best not to have the idea of getting rich, and in any case not to participate in any gambling or opportunistic activities. C. There are often some unknown details on both sides of the street. Liars are not smart, they often cheat people's trust by shoddy and fake, and then cheat money through unequal exchange. The best way to deal with this kind of sales fraud is not to believe, not to buy.

(2) prevent "door-to-door" fraud. Family is an important place for people to live, live and study. Some fraudsters use the situation and characteristics of some families to cheat at home. First, guard against "deposits and mortgages". Such swindlers use various excuses to deposit or mortgage people, things and certificates with "things" in order to gain the trust of the other party. Cheated people often feel that there are people and things that are stored or mortgaged, overestimate their value, and thus feel guilty, so they meet their requirements or provide them with conditions for committing crimes. As a result, good people were taken in by foreigners. In this regard, don't leave strangers' belongings at home casually. If there are special circumstances, you should check or keep the depositor's reliable documents and ask about the situation. You shouldn't barter things or barter things for money. If suspicious behavior is found, it should also be reported to public security organs, joint defense teams and other public security organizations in a timely manner. B, prevent impersonating guests to cheat. For strangers who call themselves colleagues, fellow villagers, friends, etc. If there are people at home, we should pay attention to detailed inquiries, check the documents to distinguish authenticity, refuse strangers to "come to help", and don't let strangers stay at home to prevent accidents. Some swindlers imitate someone's jokes and don't believe handwriting, letters and messages. Single men and women are at home alone, so they should keep a certain distance from strangers of the opposite sex to avoid being tempted. If there are improper words and deeds, we should stop them decisively and tactfully, and try our best to seek help from external forces such as neighbors.

(3) prevent pretending to be a beggar. Fake beggars cheat by fabricating facts and creating false appearances to tell their so-called sufferings and show their disabled bodies to gain people's sympathy and pity, so as to achieve the purpose of defrauding money. Don't let people who pretend to beg at the door into the house. When? Quot Beggars "steal things, prevent them from prying into the truth and waiting for opportunities to steal. Pay more attention to those who are strong and eloquent, and don't believe them."

The best way to deal with a liar is to say "no"!

Author: This article Source: Browse: 253 Date of accession: July 2005-18

In my opinion, the best way to deal with a liar is to learn to use the word "no", which is actually very simple. Here are some examples I have encountered:

The first case:

One day in June 5438 +2002 10, I received an inquiry from Guangxi * * Import and Export Corporation, specifically asking about the price of a radio pen (* the swindler sent a fax directly without calling first). For customers who send faxes directly, I usually reply at a high price. Actually, the ex-factory price of this product is 10/PCS within 100KPCS.

On the third day, the swindler called again and said that the leader had approved the purchase of our products, and during the conversation, he said that if the list was finalized, how much rebate would he give, and I readily promised. In the afternoon, the swindler sent another fax, specifically, the price was acceptable, the quantity was 100K, and asked me to go to his company to sign a contract and collect the deposit with relevant materials and samples within three days. What's more, he can accept my offer, so how can I sign a contract with his company? "No"), I immediately said euphemistically: "The company has been busy recently, and it really can't be arranged. If possible, you can arrange someone to come over, and our company will reimburse me for my round-trip air ticket and accommodation. " As a result, the liar said that he would give me a 30% deposit after signing the contract, so I had to go by myself (alas, he also wanted to attract me with this trick. Hey ... don't lie to me.

Attention, who has the same experience? Let's talk about it What will happen if you really go?

The second case:

In August this year, I received a phone call with a Henan accent, saying that he was from a railway bureau and came to Shenzhen to purchase small commodities sold on trains. He said he was interested in seeing some of my products and asked me to talk at the Shanghai Hotel (* I think it was a scam, too, because my friend was kidnapped after being cheated in this way and was finally rescued with 15000 yuan). I told the other party that if I wanted to talk, I would talk. If it were you, would you go?

The third situation:

In the middle of June this year 165438+ 10, I received a phone call from Shenzhen * * * International Trade Group Co., Ltd., and the other party said that it was Lu * from the second department of international resources of the company, saying that the company had received an order from an American guest, and it was a laser pen. I felt urgent on the phone and asked me to go before this afternoon. When I went, I was asked to bring a copy of my business license and tell me his company address:No.< enters the integrity channel >

I thought to myself, now I can find a big client. So, I concentrated on preparation after work in the morning, and arrived at his company and Union Square on time in the afternoon. If you can't find Block B, ask the security guard in the building. As a result, several people were asking when I asked. I didn't notice that they also went to this company at that time. We got into the elevator together and entered the same company. Several people are also checking in at the front desk. After we registered, we were led into different exhibition halls by the front desk. I looked around and saw guests everywhere. The huge exhibition hall is filled with all kinds of samples, just like a supermarket, and it is also equipped with a monitor (presumably to monitor whether the guests know or have doubts, alas, the background is watching you). After a while, Mr. Lu came over, exchanged business cards and chatted for a while. Mr. Lu took out the sample (plastic pen and fluorescent lamp). I don't know where I got the sample. It seems to be different from what I said this morning. Gave me a lightning detector pen and said it was a laser pen. I asked if it could be produced. I said it wasn't a laser pen, it was a money detector pen. At this time, he seems a little embarrassed (* will show some flaws. If there is an order, at least I should know what the product name is. If I really want to find a laser pointer, there is no need to move out so many irrelevant products.

Oh, you can't fool me) and explain that he just arrived here and is not familiar with the products. Then he got up and said he was going to talk to his manager. After a while, his manager came, in his fifties, and sat down to introduce himself. After the introduction, he directly asked me if I had a copy of my business license. I said no, and explained that the boss had to agree to stamp to get the copy, but now the boss is on a business trip. I'll make it up then (* Actually, I want a copy, so I can show it to other guests after collection, and lie that the company has it ... so other guests are more likely to be fooled). After getting the license, I immediately asked: If we want to visit the factory then, you can pick it up by train (* In fact, the purpose of asking this question is to test the strength of the company. If it is a leather bag company or a fraud company, isn't it boring for fraudsters to cheat fraudsters? I said no problem.

The third question is, ask me what is the lowest price of the product. I said it depends on the specific product. If you want to check dollar bills, the price will be very high. If you check the local currency, the price will be lower. As a result, he didn't respond (* He is an expert, how can he know this? ). Later, he asked Xiao Lu to record it (* Liars have to learn, how can they cheat others? Finally, he said he would contact the guests and let me know. In the afternoon, Lu called and said that the guest asked to check the US dollar bill and asked me to fax the quotation, but I didn't send it in time (because I didn't want to continue the game). The next day, Lu called again and told me to hurry. The guests are already in a hurry. If the price is right, he will visit our company in the next few days. I impatiently passed on the price to him. In the afternoon, Lu said that the order was settled and the quantity was 100. Later, I ignored him because the result of the game was to ask for money.

How to Deal with Liars Submission: Water Lily Date: 2005-4- 12

No matter in real life or in games, what we hate most is the liar, the hard-earned money you have worked so hard to open a shop, running darts and running around, and so on.

But he washed it all in a few minutes.

Why not be annoying? So come up with countermeasures to deal with ~ ~ ~

Please leave your valuable advice on how to deal with swindlers.

According to reporter Murong PianXian report:

Deception 1: Wolf in sheep's clothing

This kind of liar will mainly target married players. When your title is "xxx's wife" or "xx's husband", you may become the object of being cheated. Liars will call their spouses by their first names, M you, and then say, "Madam, I am your husband xx, and this is my newly practiced trumpet." After your conversation, you gradually relaxed your vigilance. At this time, he will ask for your account number and password as a husband, double-open your account number to take you to by going up one flight of stairs, practice friendship, or ask you for finance. I have experienced such a scam twice myself, but my husband and I are lovers in life and will not be cheated. However, players of some games may not know much about "husband and wife", which gives cheaters an opportunity.

If someone tells you this, I think the best way is to ignore it, if

If you are afraid that it is really your husband or wife, you can ask him some questions that belong to both of you, or ask him to take a shit to explain the situation to you. I think that way, you won't be trapped by wolves in sheep's clothing!

Deception 2: a pig with green onions in its nose

Such swindlers often dress themselves up as martial arts masters, tailors and construction workers. When you need a plot, build equipment, and seek talents in the world chat, he will make you feel excited at a low price. When you put money, books, iron and other items in his hand, he really disappeared without a trace, which made the players breathe a sigh of relief.

It is suggested to solve this trick by not trusting strangers easily and collecting more information on weekdays. When you need to find a master, you'd better find a player with a high reputation in this service. I don't think they will destroy their wisdom in a few manufacturing books.

Trick 3: Fish is used to mix pearls.

This kind of swindler is good at deceiving players by tricks, which is common in people who set up stalls to sell goods. With the signboard of 8000, the actual price is marked as 80000. Careless players buy without looking carefully and give their hard-earned money away to others; Another is to arrange an item, the first two items are marked as the market price, and the latter are changed to the sky-high price, so players generally don't check one by one when they buy a lot of drugs.

There is only one good way to treat such a liar, and that is to ask players to polish their eyes. When buying goods, you must carefully look at the price, and don't be taken in by swindlers who get rich illegally.

Deception 4: chameleon with changeable colors

In the world chat, you can always see such a shout: "N-class large size for sale, complete information, only for a certain area." In order to avoid the pain of leveling, many players like to play with the number of finished products purchased in RMB, which is very common now. However, this phenomenon has many sequelae. When you are addicted to the high-level finished product number, the original player retrieves the number in the form of retrieving the security code. I think it's undoubtedly a blow to you. They don't know how much black-hearted money they have earned by marrying more than one woman!

In view of this kind of deception, it is best to persuade players to practice patiently from the low level, so that they can rest assured and let you feel the pleasure brought by the upgrade! "Self-reliance and hard struggle" is China's line in the primary stage of socialism. It is better to * * encourage. Hmm. How interesting

Deception 5: A charming fox

As the name implies, this kind of liar cheats in the name of love, registers a female number, and lays a pink trap for male players with tenderness. The characteristic is that this kind of liar is good at fighting a protracted war and will not show the fox's tail prematurely. After spending some time with you or getting married, he will ask you for money to buy beautiful clothes and powerful equipment. He may even sweep away your love nest, be cheated by the woman you love, and find that his purpose of approaching you is only for your pocket.

What I want to say is that there are many such people in real life, not to mention that games are illusory things. Everything is based on entertainment. Don't confuse it with true feelings. If you want to establish true feelings, you must find a gentle and virtuous woman in your life!

Deception 6: amazing shrimp customers

In fact, this last category should not be called a liar. After all, he is a computer expert. Using some high-tech means, you can pay for your long-term hard work with a little finger. I haven't mastered the ability to crack shrimp customers, I can only marvel. Remind players to protect their accounts and passwords on weekdays and use the security measures provided by Netease to prevent this tragedy!

Dealing with a liar is like a mouse crossing the street, and everyone shouts!

Table of Contents: Talking about Anti-cheating

Liars are short-sighted and can cheat once. Liars are smart and stupid. Dealing with a stupid liar is to report his personal information to the relevant departments, making it difficult for him to move in the future. These scammers have one thing in common, that is, they don't answer the phone after cheating (I am most afraid of such scammers).