How do parents choose to let their children eat at school or go home?

It is another school season. As freshmen and parents, there are too many things to prepare and adapt to. If nothing else, the problem of children's lunch every day is enough for parents to struggle and worry about. Let children go home for dinner, school meals or small tables, which is safer, more secure and more effective in ensuring children's diet and rest? Today we will talk about this topic together.

On this issue, the first thing we should consider is time. Children in grade one usually leave school before 1 1 in the morning, go to school at 1 half past 0/in the afternoon, and leave school around 3: 40. If you are a dual-employee family and your working hours are not flexible, then the matter of children going home for dinner at noon is basically not considered. Objective conditions are not allowed. You can only choose school meals or small tables.

If you have enough time and energy, or there are elderly people at home who can take care of the children, and the school is not far from home, it is a good choice to let the children go home at noon. The safety and hygiene of diet are guaranteed, and family members are more aware of their children's eating habits, making it easier to eat.

But going home for dinner is not all advantages. For example, adults' time basically revolves around children. They deliver it for a while in the morning and pick it up after more than two hours. They have lunch when they come back, then deliver it at one o'clock and pick it up at three o'clock. Basically, adults at home 1-2 revolve around children. Now many families still have two treasures. Besides taking care of Dabao, there are two treasures to take care of, which is hectic enough.

Compared with school catering, small dining table and children eating at home, eating habits will continue. They eat whatever they like and don't eat what they don't like. It is difficult for family members to make corrections in this regard. In the long run, children's diet and nutrition will form family prejudice, which is not conducive to children's physical development. On the other hand, rest is sometimes difficult to guarantee. When seven or eight-year-old children can't sit still, they already have self-awareness, but the rules have not yet been formed. If you ask him to take a good lunch break after dinner, it is sometimes difficult to do so, especially for the elderly who take care of their children, and the discipline of the next generation is often more relaxed. For children of this age, lunch break is still very important for them.

After chatting, go home for dinner. Let's talk about school catering. With the increasing investment of governments at all levels in education, many school districts have unified school catering services. Catering is generally provided by professional catering service companies, which can meet children's living needs in terms of food safety and nutrition. At the same time, children eat meals, mostly organized by class teachers and class teachers. Safe and orderly management is also conducive to the development of children's collective life norms. For children with strong self-care ability and good self-discipline, eating at school can also adapt quickly.

The disadvantage of accompanying meals is that the taste of accompanying meals is difficult to satisfy all children, which may be inconsistent with children's eating habits and needs to be adapted. In addition, because of the service level and supply chain guarantee, sometimes, when children go to eat, the food may be cold, which is an inevitable defect of big pot rice, but it is gratifying that this aspect has improved year by year in recent years, and children's diet is more and more guaranteed.

The second disadvantage of accompanying meals is lunch break. At present, most primary schools cannot provide independent beds for children to take a nap. Children who eat at school can only lie on the desk in the classroom for a while after lunch, have a simple rest, and then start the afternoon class. For example, my child's school does not provide lunch beds at present. Compared with going home or taking a lunch break at a small table, the quality of rest will be affected to some extent.

Finally, let's talk about the small dining table that makes parents happy and worried.

The small dining table we are talking about here refers to a small dining table with a formal business license and formal approval from the competent departments of industry and commerce, food and drug supervision, education, etc., except for private households. So when you choose a small dining table, the first thing you should pay attention to is qualification. If it is unqualified, it is not recommended to choose.

Second, when choosing a small dining table, you must go to the field to have a look, focusing on the dining environment, kitchen hygiene and children's lunch break environment, whether there are obvious fire hazards and child safety hazards. Try to avoid small dining tables and high-rise dining tables near the road. Once, there was a case report that a child fell from the railing of the corridor on the second floor while sitting at a small table for lunch break. Children in grade one are still weak in safety awareness and cannot effectively identify dangers.

In addition to fully liberating parents' time and energy and allowing parents to concentrate on their work, the benefits of hosting children at a small dining table mainly include the following points. For example, parents can communicate with their tutors at any time, and some of their children's personalities and eating habits can be fully taken care of; For children in lower grades, the small dining table will generally arrange a unified work and rest, and the lunch break is guaranteed; After class in the afternoon, there is usually a special tutor at the small table to urge and help the children with their homework.

My children, the first grade, and the aunt at the small table are very responsible. Children basically finish all their homework at the small dining table, and form good study habits in the collective environment, which is very important for their growth and even benefits them for life. Another point is that there are some seniors at the small dining table, and the influence of these seniors on the children is also subtle, which makes her yearn for the life of the senior class.

Let children participate in small table hosting. Personally, it is also the harvest of growth. Now the growth mode of children is very different from that of our childhood. Some are only children, even if there are two children at home, childhood playmates are brothers and sisters. Nowadays, it is difficult for children to put away their schoolbags after school, just like when we were young, they ran around the street playing wildly.

They lack the ability to get along with friends too much. Therefore, children can have many playmates of the same age besides their classmates at the small dining table, which is an important window for them to communicate with others. They will learn how to get along with their aunts and children older and younger than themselves in the custody class, which is a foundation of social life and can also enrich their social circle. Like my children, she said, she likes small tables, that is, aunts and classmates who like these small tables.

Everything has two sides, and the level of small table hosting classes is also uneven. In some cases, parents will also be worried and uneasy. For example, some small dining tables have just been renovated and are worried about formaldehyde pollution; Some small dining tables have small space, but too many children are recruited, sleeping rooms and closed air circulation; Some small dining tables taste bad and children don't like them; Some small dining tables are often replaced by snacks and sweets in the afternoon, which is not good for children's health. ...

For these, when choosing a small dining table, parents should pay more attention to it, make field trips, inquire about word of mouth, and try to choose a safe, assured, warm and intimate small dining table for their children. In addition, if you have any questions, communicate with the management of the small table in time, put forward your opinions and suggestions, and maintain a benign interaction.

Regarding a family, whether the first-grade children eat at home or at school, it is not necessary but certain to choose a small table hosting class. Each has its advantages and disadvantages. Choose according to the actual situation of your family and children. Parents are advised to spend more time, compare and screen before making a decision. Don't make decisions, complain or make new choices in a hurry before you find many problems, which is not conducive to your child's growth.

For parents of children of this age, their careers are generally on the rise, and the mainstay of the workplace is still a minority who can take care of their children in person. No matter whether you entrust your child to the elderly at home, the school teacher or the custodian of the small table, you can't be the shopkeeper. No one's concern can replace parents' responsibility for their children, and parents will always be the first responsible person for their children's growth.

The first grade is the starting point of a new stage of a child's life. As parents, we should always pay attention to the growth of our children, communicate with them frequently, and learn about their living conditions in schools and custody classes. When you encounter problems, sort them out with your child and help him solve them. This is not only to help children establish a new life order, but also to build self-confidence and cultivate their ability to live independently. Parents are the best teachers for children.