What it's like to have a pair of garbage parents.

The experience of having a pair of garbage parents is very painful, and it feels like a hell on earth. Dump it. I can't get rid of it And I feel that they treat themselves like outsiders, with no affection at all.

Many parents who are rubbish tend to take care of themselves. They treat their children like outsiders, without any parents, as if they were born a slave.

For such parents, my idea is to make myself independent and self-reliant as soon as possible. After I can support myself, I should stay away from them as much as possible and not participate in some of their things.

Although your own parents may be wonderful, you should try your best not to be influenced by them, be a person with correct values, be kind to your children, and don't let your next generation be treated like this.

In fact, the scariest thing is not the parents who have disgusting people, but when you say that your parents' behavior has an impact on your later life, a group of unrelated people are saying that you don't understand your parents.

It seems that no matter what unfair treatment you encounter, they can lightly say, "What parents don't love their children?" "Parents just have a bad temper." "She's your mother. She can do whatever she wants to you."

in their narrow cognitive environment, this seems to be an absolutely correct wisdom, and then stand on the moral high ground and accuse others. But I don't know that it is this sentence that makes many people fall into repeated self-doubt, even self-blame and self-abuse.

but this is probably not the pain of one person, but the sorrow caused by this era. Most of our parents have experienced the initial stage of social development in China. They have no normal growth environment, most of them have no formal education, and most of their marriages have no real emotional cooperation. They are the first generation with personality defects, and we just met such parents in this impetuous era.

I want to say that we can not forgive our parents, but we must make peace with ourselves and try to be good parents.