What if I'm afraid of my husband? He made a hullabaloo about at me yesterday, so fierce that I was afraid he would kill me. He has never been bad to me, but now he doesn't love me.

Cold violence is more common in marriage, and both husband and wife ignore each other for some reasons for a long time. Although there is no sword and shadow, cold violence is very harmful to people's spirit. So how to deal with cold violence?

1, think calmly

When the contradiction between two people escalates and ignores each other, we must think calmly. Where is the reason for the contradiction, we must reflect on ourselves. Is it really that we have no responsibility at all? Find out your own contradictions, and think about each other's starting point from each other's point of view, why each other or yourself should do this. People quarrel because everyone thinks from their own perspective. After all, everyone has their own ideas. When the other party can't understand their own ideas, there will naturally be contradictions.

2. Keep a low profile and ignore face.

There is no so-called face between husband and wife. When you can make the other person happy, this is your ability and your face. So when you find the starting point of your contradiction, please put down your posture, put aside your face and have a good talk with each other. I believe that the other party will not still ignore you.

Step 3 learn to hug

Hugging is not only an action when you love me deeply, sometimes the other person knows that he is guilty, because he is embarrassed to ignore the other person, but if a person extends a harmonious hug, the other person's mood will immediately shine, and a hug will give each other a chance to communicate.

Cold violence is not terrible. It's terrible for people who don't want to get rid of cold violence. As long as one side lowers its posture first, I believe that the problem can be solved perfectly soon.