Children need to be hugged by adults after they learn to walk. What signal is being released?

And the baby is about to start walking at the age of one, but there are many baby mothers complaining. After the baby can walk, when taking the baby out, the child is often held by adults, and the child weighs about 20 kilograms. Every time he takes the baby out, he is always tired. The child can walk, but he keeps begging for a hug? After knowing the reason, I really want to hold him all the time

Why do children like to be held by adults after learning to walk? I was a little sad after reading it, so some parents raised questions. Baby likes walking very much when he just learns to walk, but why do adults often hold him after running?

In fact, psychologists have studied this and done experiments on rhesus monkeys. Rhesus monkeys have 94% genetic homology with humans. The newborn monkey was put in a big room, and there were two iron shelves in it. One was bare, but it could provide milk for the monkey, and the other was a disguised Muppet monkey mother, which could not provide milk.

Just entering this environment, the little monkey screamed a few times in fear, then climbed up the shelf of the female puppet monkey and hugged the puppet tightly. Only when the little monkey is hungry will he go to another iron shelf to drink some milk.

This experiment fully shows that although young animals need food, they need warm hugs, so children also need warm hugs.

Besides psychological attachment, there are some objective factors that can't see anything: for a baby, his height is very loving, so he may only see his legs and buttocks, and he may feel anxious and panic, but when he is held in his arms by an adult, his vision will become wider and he can see more things.

The baby is really tired: parents take their children out, and if they want adults to hold her after a while, it is probably because the child is tired, not because the child is melodramatic or disobedient. Because the child is small after all, so his physical strength is limited, walking for a while will consume too much, so he will feel tired. His mother should give him a hug in time and let him rest for a while.

On this issue, listen to an audience netizen's statement: this netizen walks with you in the rain: raising a child is a separation process, from the body, from the arms, from life, and finally from life and death ~ Whenever parents think about this, it makes people sad. In the child's life, when he feels tired, wronged, sad, and even loses his temper and is awkward ... in fact, it is expressed in another way: Mom and Dad hug me, I need you.

Netizens really love you: when my son was two years old, we lived on the sixth floor, with a bag of vegetables in our left hand and a watermelon in our right hand. My son walked behind and cried for a hug from his mother when he went up the stairs. At that time, he was too young to care about children, but he couldn't help hugging them. He reprimanded his son for leaving alone. The child went up the stairs crying. On the third floor, an aunt couldn't stand it any longer. She carried the child to the sixth floor and said that the child was pitiful! ..... Now that I think about it, it hurts. Every young parent's negligence and debt to their children during their hard work is their regret when they are old.

Netizen monitor 2: When my little granddaughter is with me, she always likes to say, Grandpa, I'm tired. Hug me and follow her parents. I rarely ask for anything. My daughter-in-law says I love my granddaughter. In fact, children also know who to look for. It doesn't matter if my granddaughter wants to hug, because I can still hug. Isn't my granddaughter's request also my demand? I will grow old and my granddaughter will grow up.