Let's start with the attacks in A Dream of Red Mansions.

Your outlook on life is right, so is attacking people.

For xiren, we can actually look at her more calmly and piteously. Her mother and brother had no money, so they sold her to Jia Fu as a maid. The sadness and forbearance in her heart are naturally beyond our understanding. Plus, she lives well in Jiafu and eats much better than the average person. The book doesn't mention that a girl from a big family is much more expensive than a lady from an ordinary family, so naturally she doesn't want to come out. In addition, she also has attachment to Baoyu, which is enough for her not to get out.

So her servility is extreme.

She and Baochai are beyond reproach because of their personalities. They all occasionally sacrifice the interests of others for their own benefit. In front of everyone, but can win the favor of others, it should also belong to the festival. However, there is a hypocrisy in her human nature, which I don't deny. As for the informer, there are still differences. She did distort the facts.

Besides, I can't blame her for being unfaithful to her, which was her later sacrifice for Jia Fu and Baoyu. In view of this, let's forgive all her mistakes.

They are poor; Unfortunately, I fell into the unconscious trap of history and figures and made an unknown sacrifice. It suddenly occurred to me that this sentence of Mr. Lu Xun is just right for use here.

As for those who scold you, don't mind. Everyone has different appreciation and has the right to stick to what he likes. Liking her doesn't mean anything.