What things can make a man happy in marriage?

For some men, marriage is like a flame that gradually dims over the years. Love is like sand in your hand, the tighter you hold it, the faster it slips away.

A good marriage is like bamboo, with a hidden tenacity that can withstand the test of wind and rain. At the same time, the smell of love is permeated, like the faint fragrance of jasmine, floating in life, making people feel happy.

Women’s need to pursue love is often more passionate than men’s. Men are accustomed to using silence instead of inner speech, hiding their emotions, anger, sorrow and joy in their hearts. Love is like drinking water, knowing whether it is hot or cold.

Today, let’s talk about the ten signs that a man is happy in marriage. Listen to the inner voices of the following ten readers:

@南Vietnam, 36 years old, Guangzhou

I currently work in a company with an annual salary of 200,000. Having my wife and daughter by my side, I think is the greatest happiness. I think the sign of a man's happiness is having a stable career. Being able to protect his lover and family is a manifestation of self-worth.

@陈飞公, 46 years old, Henan

Life is not easy. In the past, I did too many wrong things when I was young and hurt the hearts of my wife and children. I feel very guilty and sorry for them. Now I am remarried to my wife, have a complete family, and have a destination in life. This is my greatest happiness now.

@ I am your little monster, 24 years old, Zhengzhou

Although I have only been married for a year, I feel that I am very happy. It is a kind of happiness for a man to have money in his pocket, unlimited data on his mobile phone, friends when he goes out, and a bowl of hot rice when he comes home. I am very grateful, I met a good woman, my wife, I love you! Thank you for your continued care of me, your attentiveness to my children, and your filial piety to my parents. I can see all the good things about you, and I will definitely love you well in this life.

@zan是 ZenFei, 50 years old, Hengyang

I have spent the past few years in the hospital, taking medicine, surgery, and even chemotherapy and chemotherapy, and I have seen all kinds of life. , I don’t know how far I can go in the future. For a man, the sign of happiness should be a healthy body. As long as you are healthy, you can enjoy life. Without a healthy body, there is nothing and no hope for the future. Therefore, I hope everyone will cherish their bodies.

@王川之河, 30 years old, Tibet

I am a backpacker, and so is my wife. Although we got married, our lifestyle has not changed. I think that a man's unhappiness should be determined by whether his lifestyle needs are met. If a person cannot live according to his own preferences, then life should have little meaning. Marriage should not be a rope that binds men, I need freedom and respect.

@小北, 28 years old, Shantou

It has been several years since I started my business. Although I have not succeeded yet, I feel that all my persistence is meaningful. Having faith, ambition, and hope should be a man's happiness. I want to give my family the best life through my own efforts. If a man lives without hope, I think life is too boring. Only those who have dreams have a future.

@黄小平, 42 years old, Suzhou

Maybe it’s because of my special life experience. I was trafficked and my adoptive parents died young. I started working in a factory when I was 16. I met A bunch of brothers. Without them, I wouldn’t be where I am today. Having a few brothers who have been through life and death and a few caring friends is a huge wealth. To me, this is my happiness.

@杨波, 39 years old, Xiangtan

I have been married to my wife for more than ten years. Since we had children, we have lived in two places. I know it's hard for her. It's not easy to raise two children alone in her hometown. I worked hard for this family, and I also thought about bringing them all around, but she said she didn't want to put too much pressure on me. For me, having a considerate wife is a blessing.

@ Counting Sheep’s Baby, 35 years old, Ningbo

I have been working here for more than ten years, and my wife takes care of the children at home. Both sons have excellent grades and are very handsome. They are the greatest pride of my life. My child will be successful in the future. No matter how hard or tired I am, it will always be a blessing.

@冰草草, 27 years old, Xi’an

I don’t know when my wife betrayed me, but she refused to divorce for the sake of her children. Now every day is like a year. I can no longer trust her, and I can't forgive her at all. Sometimes, when she picks up her phone to send text messages, I wonder if she is cheating on me again? When she comes home late, I will be suspicious of her. This kind of life is really tiring. I envy those families where couples have harmonious relationships. For men, having a harmonious and beautiful home and loving each other with their wives is a kind of happiness. However, such a simple life has become a luxury for me.

Marriage requires a man and a woman to work together. Without either party, it cannot continue smoothly. Happiness in marriage comes from the transmission of love on the one hand, and from the giving of oneself on the other hand.

Every lifestyle has its difficulties. No matter how many pits there are in life, no matter how many thorns there are in marriage, I hope you can take steps and move forward confidently.

Although there are pains and sorrows in life, there are also joys and interests. There will be light and warmth in the future, as well as happiness and sweetness. May you be able to harvest them all.