What do you say when chatting with girls by voice?

What do you say when chatting with girls by voice?

What will you say when chatting with girls by voice? In real life, most of us will meet the girl we like at the right time, but there are also many introverted boys who don't know how to chat with girls. So let's see what we should say when chatting with girls!

What will you say when chatting with girls by voice? 1

Voice chat with girls:

1, the coming weekend. The weekend is a good conversation. There are always things to do on weekends. You can ask a girl what she is doing at the weekend. If she doesn't have any plans, you can also invite her to have tea, chat and watch movies on weekends.

It will be more convenient to study (or work) if you are a classmate or colleague. Some interesting things in your school and the new tasks assigned by the boss can be used to start a conversation, so it is not easy to feel distant, so it is easy to narrow the distance between two people.

3. Friends around you. If you two know friends, or through blind date, you might as well discuss the friends around you. They have done some interesting things recently, and the chat atmosphere will become more pleasant.

4. Interesting things that happened in one day. If your chat takes place at night, especially before going to bed, you might as well talk about some interesting things that happened during the day, whether in life or at work, it is best to happen to you. Girls like boys with a little humor.

Voice chat skills with girls

First of all, your voice chat is a more difficult way of communication than writing. It requires us to have stronger social intuition, language organization and the ability to improvise. It can better reflect a man's comprehensive quality. My principle is that 20% talk seriously and 80% don't talk seriously. Why? Because serious words are so boring, such as eating. What are you doing? When do you go to bed? This way of chatting in a straight line is boring to everyone.

Second, there are still some discrepancies between the phonetic symbols and your written information. You should pay attention to the tone of your words and sentences. Then collect more information about each other's circle of friends, such as each other's status.

I saw it taken by your circle of friends today. Where is this? Sounds like fun. You can try to make a vague invitation.

Third, you obviously belong to the situation of insufficient chat resources, so you should watch more variety shows or travel programs at ordinary times, because this is the favorite topic of girls, and of course you will after the food enriches your talk resources. It's nothing. An embarrassing situation.

What to say in voice chat with girls 2

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At the same time, my circle of friends updates many girls' chatting skills and skills to get along correctly every day, and can also add learning (if you can't add it, you can also click on my avatar to chat with me privately and send your number directly to our consultant, and I will add you). Now get down to business, let Sister yoki lead you, and slowly feel that chatting can help you find a girlfriend.

Teaching dry goods

After many brothers joined me, the most frequently asked question was how to talk to-! Yoki deliberately picked out the following two questions from the brothers consulted last week:

Question 1: I asked for a girl at the party the day before yesterday. I found that she likes me very much. When chatting with her, she deliberately delayed the reply time. Sometimes, she chats at night and even comes back for her the next day. A few days later, I found that the girl had deleted me.

Sister yoki's comment: This is deliberately reducing the sense of demand.

Question 2: I joined her through the group of the company, and occasionally chatted through work, but talking about other topics was perfunctory.

Sister yoki's comment: This is a topic that deliberately creates a chat topic. Obviously, in the process of interacting with girls, "how to chat with girls" still hurts some brothers! Sister yoki summed it up on purpose. In fact, they all made the same mistake: "Pay attention to chat skills when chatting, and use inappropriate skills at the wrong time, that is, they didn't master the chat rhythm." Click on the number to get the number, and the lecturer will teach you the chat skills by hand. Today, we will explain how to master the rhythm of chatting from several stages of knowing girls.

First, the initial stage

Rhythm Tags: Time and Frequency

What is the first meeting stage? You just met a girl, just added a girl, just said hello, this is the first meeting stage. At this stage, there are two common situations:

As long as you don't contact her actively, she won't contact you. (Chat frequency)

Even if you take the initiative to contact her, she may come back slowly or even not. (Selectivity of chat time)

Faced with these situations, many boys will make wrong choices, such as chatting with girls all the time every day, waiting in front of their mobile phones to reply, and gradually grow into top bombers and licking dogs. In fact, this is a wrong chat rhythm: you have no chat skills and can't find the right time to chat. At this stage, the appropriate chat time is the first step to master the chat rhythm.

For example, you may join a girl at midnight 1 1, 12. Have you ever thought: "Is it appropriate to continue chatting at 1 1 or 12?" You all have to go to work, so you can only end the conversation by chatting. Visit her another day and you will find it difficult to "get into the theme" and girls' interest level is not high. (Chat time error)

The appropriate chat time is: around 6 pm, most girls just get off work, and the whole person will enter a relaxed state; At 7 or 8 o'clock, the state is the best; Then talk until 10 or so, and your relationship will warm up to a safe stage. (Correct time rhythm)

Also, the frequency of chatting also determines the rhythm of chatting. For example, "You keep sending messages to each other in the morning and evening" and "Every message she sends you is the second reply", girls will judge your sense of need, so there is a "spoony" chat mode, which makes you very cheap and unattractive. The result of this behavior is that the chat state is tilted, which leads to the outdated chat rhythm! Therefore, in order to control their chat frequency, we must create a sense of "gap" for women. What is the feeling of "gap"?

1, make him feel that you are busy, and it may take three or four minutes to reply to a text message at a time;

No matter how long the world is, it will take 10 minutes or even half an hour to recover.

If, during the operation, girls respond to your "intermission" rhythm, the operation will be very stable, and you can firmly control the chat rhythm. When chatting, find the right opportunity through simple topics and quickly promote the relationship between two people! This is an effective chat! You will only care about each other every day and never catch up with her! Think more about the wonderful chat records with women, you can add me directly, and I will send some wonderful chat records with beautiful women in the circle of friends, which contains many chat topics and topics that girls are interested in! Show me how masters chat with girls and study hard.

Second, the favorable stage

Rhythm label: skill explosion

After making preparations in the early stage of the first meeting, it will enter a sweet period for both sides, which is also a favorable period. If a brother says, "We talked for a long time, it seems very dull and has no good feelings." Sorry, maybe you didn't do it well in the early stage, so you won't consider it at this stage. Please go back and rebuild it.

The way to master the rhythm of chatting is to seize the opportunity to improve the relationship and break out skills! Because at this time, on the basis of mutual affection, in the eyes of girls, the release of chat skills is no longer a blunt and cunning routine, but some sweet and natural behaviors. So maintaining the chat rhythm at this stage can be divided into three steps:

The first step is to strengthen goodwill.

There is a good saying: "snubbing a person is the best way to arouse strong feelings." Similarly, in chatting, to strengthen a person's goodwill towards you, we must learn to be cold to her at an appropriate time, that is, to make good use of the "push-pull" method to bring her into your chatting rhythm. We can look at some examples:

Also, push and pull constantly to deepen your goodwill: obviously, at the right time, after some "push and pull" skills, girls will enter your dominant chat rhythm, and their goodwill for you will continue to rise. The problem of not being able to chat bothers 90% of male friends, and they often chat? Don't know what to say. Can't find a topic? I don't know how to chat with girls. With the addition of Sister yoki, all these problems can be solved. I will help you analyze your growth experience in detail, find out your weak links, and guide you to learn the correct way to chat with girls. Add mine if you want to learn. Click on three words for yoki's sister:-I want to learn!

The second step is to create a new theme.

Girls hate two kinds of boys: one is a boy who is talkative, self-expanding, interrupting others and only talking about himself from beginning to end; The other is that boys have no freshness when they run out of old topics, and unconsciously start the "full chat" mode. (At first, chatting with girls, talking about the past and the present, and going to astronomy and geography will inevitably be out of stock. When entering the favorable stage and grasping the chat rhythm, we need to create new topics. To explore new topics, we can start with girls' hobbies:

For example. Girls like fitness and outdoor sports. You can learn about these contents online, including some security issues that need attention. Usually chatting can take the initiative to bring these topics, and girls will feel your concern; Also, learn and participate in these activities, accumulate experience, share your experience, create more exchange opportunities and so on …

Also, from the beginning of work, if a girl is enterprising, you can appropriately praise her as a "strong woman" and "independent woman" and keep her work attitude, which shows that she is also an enterprising person. If the other person is not a career-oriented woman, then your topic should focus on whether her work content is tired, whether the company atmosphere is good, and how colleagues get along.

The third step is to pave the way for the invitation.

After talking about the first and second steps, you can pave the way for the invitation. The invitation to pave the way for the important trilogy is:

1, create opportunities

Step 2 find the invitation point

3. Attractive dating content

In this trilogy, the circle of friends is a place that can be used: starting from the circle of friends, guiding girls to comment through their own circle of friends. For example, you can usually take delicious photos, you can take them yourself, or you can go to a local restaurant. There are instructions in Peiwen, "Who wants to try their own XXX", "XX store looks great, I really want to find someone to go with" and so on.

Girls leave comments, and once they reply, they can smoothly transfer the chat to private messages after two or three rounds. Through step-by-step chat promotion, you can determine the time and place of your appointment and form a foreshadowing for your appointment. Use the other person's circle of friends to guide comments: For example, common examples are:

Girls send friends circle: Is there a great god who can take me off? You can reply: come out on weekends, find a well-connected coffee shop and take you away. Or: Girl: The hot pot in this shop is delicious. You must make it next time. You can reply: I know a hot pot restaurant, which tastes good, but it is remote. I can take you there. (Guide the chat rhythm of the appointment)

Third, the formal invitation stage.

Grasp the rhythm of chatting, establish deep feelings under the good rhythm of the first meeting stage and the goodwill stage, and pave the way for an invitation step by step. With attractive dating content, it is natural to send invitations naturally, and it is natural for girls to promise you! Here, yoki reminds everyone that the effective shortcut to love is to copy other people's successful experiences and methods, rather than trying to hit the wall. Finally, time was wasted, money was spent, and there was no result!

Of course, about chatting more, how to improve your emotional intelligence and make yourself more attractive, please add our professional consultants directly, and we will tell you how to do it one by one. Of course, I can also learn the chat skills updated every day in my circle of friends and the correct way to get along with girls, so as to improve the level of chatting with girls!

These skills and methods are just some of the most commonly used skills in our Huairou team internal courses, and they are just the tip of the iceberg. Maybe you haven't heard of it or seen it. But none of this matters. Do you want to learn to change? This paper completed its mission here. If you want to learn a faster and more effective way to catch up with the goddess, you can join my internal course. But you should know by now that you have to study systematically if you can't chat. If, brother, you can't chat, you are determined to learn to chat. Go directly to the professional consultant of our Huairou team and click to send three words directly to our professional consultant-I want to study.

how to improve

Brother, you can always see this place from the beginning, so the teacher believes that you must be the kind of person who wants to change the status quo quickly and improve the level of love quickly. Maybe you don't want to go out with a girl every time without results. Maybe you want to improve yourself and make yourself better. These questions may be difficult for you who have no love experience.

But the teacher told you responsibly that everything is not a problem. What matters is whether you meet the following three conditions:

1, you must make up your mind to change yourself and make yourself better.

2. Willing to invest in yourself, not just spending money on women.

3, can cooperate with the tutor, have execution and action, rather than just saying that it can't be done.

If you have made up your mind to learn to change, are willing to invest in yourself and are an activist, then read on: chatting with girls is actually very simple, because our Huairou team has taught more than 10 thousand students, and I can teach them or you. As long as you study hard behind me, you can stay with the girl you like and learn to chat.

Want to change? The teacher tells you that change is painful, but the result of not changing will be more painful. Now you don't have a girlfriend. You will never know how to get along with girls until you change. If you don't study, you will never! I hope you will never find an ordinary girl. Get the number

1, is it useful to be ugly?

The method is wrong, and the efforts are in vain! A man, don't always give yourself reasons and excuses. Only lazy men, no ugly men. But as long as you can master the right methods and skills. Women's hearts are understandable. Just like our students, neither handsome nor short. But they can still be with the girls they like. They can find girlfriends. What about you? Still like that, I am still alone in a big room, thinking about why the girl I like is not around!

2. Is poor economic conditions useful?

In fact, you know, brother, you just need to invest the money you spend on women in yourself. You know, women buy cosmetics and bags. What is less is 1-2 thousand, and what is more is tens of thousands. They know how to invest in themselves, let men spend money on him and invite him to dinner and movies. Then, as a man, I think I should be willing to invest in myself! After all, the most important thing for men is career, marriage and love!

I feel stupid. Can I learn?

One must have confidence in oneself. I have taught thousands of students. They can study, and I believe you can study, too. After all, there are no stupid people in the world, but whether you will study hard. In fact, what we provide you is a scientific learning method: not only theoretical teaching, but also professional consultants to answer them one by one. Point out your problem. And tell you the solution! At the same time, we also provide a perfect learning method: as long as we have a computer or WiFi, we can learn to watch all our services. Don't use busyness as an excuse. If you like, you can study our service quietly, even if you are crowded on the bus and wearing headphones.

Began to change

In fact, brothers, it is not difficult to get along with women, whether it is chatting or dating! As long as you master the right method and have the help of a professional tutor, you can do whatever you want. Don't worry about chatting with girls, girls suddenly ignore you; I don't know how to reply; Go out with girls and don't know where to play; And I don't know how to improve the relationship with girls, because you haven't studied systematically at all. I hope we met because of the topic of love, but we will eventually become good friends, even good brothers!

Do you know the skills of chatting with girls? If you want to improve your chat level quickly, you can study our course directly, click Add and send it directly-I want to change it. Our Huairou consulting team will give you all-round emotional analysis, recommend suitable courses for you, teach you to catch up with your favorite women and sisters through chat, and solve your emotional problems quickly. Brothers, I am a professional consulting team in Huairou, and I am waiting for you! I'll wait for you in the internal medicine department!