Why do you understand the truth but can’t comfort others?

Sometimes people are so strange. They won’t say a word even after being greatly wronged, but they burst into tears when they hear words of comfort. Those tears that are forced back are often lost to a simple comfort.

The invulnerable heart is often defeated by a simple comfort. The disguise of invulnerability often completely surrenders in front of people who understand you.

At that moment, you really wanted him to know that you were in a terrible mood. You really wanted to cry on him and listen to him say some comforting words, but he didn't see your depression at all. I didn't ask you what happened. At that moment, you swallowed your words back. When he asked again later, you no longer wanted to say that.

When you go through all the suffering alone, when loneliness becomes a habit, you will no longer expect untimely comfort and consideration. When I was extremely disappointed, I wanted to say a long list of words of proof, but the words turned into a bitter smile on my lips, and even a single word felt redundant.

No consolation is as effective as seeing things through yourself, so don’t be sad anymore, girl. Obviously there is still a lot of road to go, a lot of hurdles to pass, a lot of hurdles to overcome, a lot of photos to take, a lot of clothes to buy, a lot of delicious food to eat, a lot of places to play, and a lot of time to count. So close your eyes and take a nap, and you will be a good man again tomorrow.

No one will truly empathize with your pain, and no one will truly care about the ups and downs and injuries you have encountered along the way.

So stop telling others about your suffering in order to seek comfort, because others only see and care about the results. Growth is an isolated process, and you must learn to be on your own.

Maybe others can comfort you and give you advice and warnings, but they never know how hurtful you are. So no matter how many grievances you have, how uncomfortable you are, remember that you are the one who can heal yourself in the end.

Like cutting off permed hair, comfort is just an afterthought of warmth. As for what the future will bring, we will only know if we continue to work hard. Remember to become the person you like more first and then meet someone you don’t need to please. Anyway, the road is still long and the day will dawn.