Some men are not willing to work or start a business, so they just mess around. What do these people think?

This group of people should be referred to as people in the 1980s and 1990s. People in this era have experienced reform and opening up, family planning, the rise of the Internet, and the current era of real estate speculation.

Reform and opening up has allowed their parents to become wealthy. Family planning has resulted in them having few brothers and sisters. Their parents are somewhat doting on them. The rise of the Internet has allowed them to play with more things than in previous generations. Much. With wealth at their fingertips, and having been discouraged by playing with things since childhood, they had little time to study and even lost their ambitions. They had no intention to start a business or work, because their parents had already prepared money for them. Their parents are both 50-60 years old and still have financial income, and their income is considerable. In addition to the house, incompetent young people can't earn even if they die, and parents who are capable have already prepared it for them. Instead of working hard to make money, it’s better to stay at home and grow old.

This is how I am now. I don’t do any work, do nothing, just hang around every day. Last year, I lost dozens of dollars in business. Wan, when I go to work and get a salary of several thousand yuan, I naturally don’t want to do anything after a long time. I feel like I’m useless. Anyway, I don’t want to do anything. I sleep during the day and play with my mobile phone until dawn at night

I’ll be honest about this. I’m one of those men you mentioned. I lost all my money in business and owe hundreds of thousands in foreign debt. Fortunately, my wife supports the family’s daily living expenses. Her own salary is enough. I wanted to find a job and make money slowly. I first paid off the money I owed people, and then went to a big city to open Didi in early 2019. After three months of driving, I found that making money is really slow, 14 hours a day. Around 200 yuan, the net profit is only about 200 yuan. When can the money owed be paid off? The key point is that it's really hard for a person to earn such a small amount of money while leaving his hometown. Now that you're back home, what are you doing? Maybe in the eyes of many people, it's just not doing your job properly. You can go around the stock market, hang out in the currency circle, and then go to Xianyu to sell some second-hand things. You can earn a few hundred yuan in a day, but it's a bit unstable. But it’s more comfortable than living alone outside. Take your time, and business opportunities may appear as you mix around. Comfort yourself! The helpless voice of an old man who doesn’t want to go to work or start a business. (I really don’t have that condition)

Some things are easier said than done. I didn’t expect that starting a business would be so easy. Where can a person start a business if he doesn’t have any skills? Don't say you don't have the business experience. Even if you have the business experience, where can you raise startup funds? What can you do without money? There is a saying that you can’t give up three hundred and three, but you can’t get six hundred and six, but where can you get these three hundred and three? Who lent it to you? What should I do if I lose? How much risk needs to be taken? Do you think part-time work is easy? In fact, working part-time is not an easy task. It is easier said than done. The competition is also fierce. If you are not the material, you will not be required to move bricks. It is like someone moving 5,000 bricks in one day and you don’t even have 1,000 bricks. Move on, who will use you? In other words, part-time work also requires skills. Even if you go to the dock to carry big bags, you still need skills. Even if you don’t have skills, you still need to have a lot of brute strength. You must be strong and able to endure hardships. When it comes to hardships, you have to admit that there are some. How can people, especially young people, endure hardships after being pampered since childhood? Even if you eat, you can't eat as much as people in the past, and your appetite is also declining. This means that the living environment is getting worse and worse, the competition is getting more and more fierce, and the children are becoming more and more pampered, so it is not proportional in this area. The flowers in the greenhouse cannot adapt to the harsh environment, cannot withstand wind and rain, and will even die if exposed to wind when leaving the greenhouse.

There is another reason, that is, people are lazy. The more they sit, the lazier they become, and the more they eat, the greedier they become. Anyway, I don’t go out to work, and my parents can’t force me to go out, so I’ll just stay at home and muddle along. , at least my parents have to take care of my food and not starve me to death. Since they raised me, they should be responsible for me. So it is not ruled out that some men have this idea. They would rather lower their living standards to the lowest level than be able to adapt to the constraints of part-time work. They can't even endure grievances or accept criticism.

Of course, some young people may not necessarily plan to sit at home for the rest of their lives. They all have brains and can analyze, and realize that staying at home for a long time is not a long-term solution. They can only sit and eat in vain, and their parents are getting older and older, so when the time comes, I am anxious, but I also know that if I go out to work, I will learn slowly and learn while doing it. And while I am staying at home, I am constantly inquiring and analyzing what kind of work is more suitable for me? Suitable for your personality? Except for a few people who have suffered a bit of a mental blow, who are disheartened and disillusioned with the world, living idle all day does not mean that they have completely given up on life. Maybe they are looking for opportunities. They will spend time at home first and wait and see what life will do to them. No matter how hard you push yourself, you will naturally get out if you push yourself to score. Of course, there are also married men who stay at home for a long time. The reason is that as for starting a business or working part-time, we have thought of the same people, so some families may have some savings, which means they have enough food. Don’t panic, life can still go on, more than enough, but when you go out to work, you feel that you earn too little, and some even feel that the price has dropped. If you are not good enough, you can’t live with a low life, so you can just hang around at home day by day, and your wife goes to work. Earning a little more would be enough. There is another situation where although you don’t have a job now, you worked hard when you were young and caught up with the opportunity to make a fortune. You can still afford to sit at home even if you don’t work, and you have pension insurance, so you have no worries. Most of these people are middle-aged. .

Aren’t you talking about my classmates again? My classmate has been starting a business since he graduated from school, setting up a street stall and then opening a shop. He has not worked a job in more than 20 years. Last year, he opened a joint venture with someone to open a shop and spent all the money he earned in half his life. The hot pot restaurant barely stayed open for a year. It’s not making any money. It’s closed and transferred this year. The partners have also disbanded. I’m doing nothing at home this year. The eldest son is in college and the younger son is in junior high school. My wife works as a cleaner in the community. The whole family has to spend money, but my classmates just don’t want to make progress. I just muddle along and don't listen to my advice several times. Now I don't answer my phone calls. Who knows what I think?

Some men don't want to work or start a business, so they just hang around. Days, I wonder what they think? Let me tell you, they have three kinds of thoughts: The first type is that their business failed, they are depressed, and they don’t know what to do. If I go to work again, I feel that there is no future, and I hope that I will have the opportunity to start a business again. This kind of people hang out at home all day long, waiting for the next opportunity to start a business.

The second category is that some people stay at home for a period of time after leaving the company and feel that leisure time is not bad. Usually, I can earn a few hundred yuan a day from doing small business on Xianyu and Taobao, but the income from such a small business is also unstable. They are thinking that if I find new entrepreneurial opportunities or good investment opportunities online, I can go overseas to start a business.

The third category, due to long-term unemployment at home, has become accustomed to the current life. They feel that starting a business is too hard, working must be managed by the boss, they pay too much, and their income is not high. They might as well rest at home and hang out. Just days will do. Relatives and friends look down on such people, thinking that staying at home like this is a waste of precious youth and that men should go out and start a career, but these people don't listen at all.

Some men stay at home because after the business fails, they adjust and then fight again. Some men have just left the enterprise, want to start a business but are timid, hoping that opportunities will come to them. And more men stay at home, idle and muddle along. As time goes by, the bad habit of being lazy develops, and they no longer want to go to work.

Different outlooks on life are also the right of everyone to choose their own life

The reasons for high pressure, lack of hope, low mood, and demoralization.

After World War II, humans ruthlessly drained the blood of the earth, and natural and man-made disasters were all caused by humans. We are here to maintain world peace, so we don’t go to work. Fortunately, you are still cultural people, and it is you who have caused the disappearance of so many lives. You are the first to complain to the evil ones. If you look down on us, you look down on the earth. Human disasters will only increase.

I feel like I can’t get over the hurdle of working part-time, and my entrepreneurial strength doesn’t allow it, so that’s what I think.