Satire at her mother-in-law's hypocritical sentences (some mothers-in-law are not worthy of pity)

Some people will say that the mother-in-law is not her own mother, and she is considerate to her daughter-in-law, just to get careful care from her daughter-in-law when she is old. It is meaningless to say that such a mother-in-law is hypocritical. But I don't think so. In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, if the mother-in-law can clearly realize that she will need her daughter-in-law in the future and help her daughter-in-law when she needs help, then she will generally be taken care of by her daughter-in-law in her later years. Text | Hu Xiaoguai, Figure | Network

In fact, there is nothing wrong with this sentence, "I haven't seen my grandmother for ten years, and I haven't seen my wife for ten years." I think such a mother-in-law is not hypocritical at all. Or I would rather have such a "hypocritical" mother-in-law, than pretend to be very reasonable, but actually force her mother-in-law. Because you are an elder, you say you have a son and a daughter, so you don't have to worry about your daughter-in-law. Anyway, you don't expect your daughter-in-law in the future.

My husband Li Kai and I met on a blind date. Generally speaking, the conditions of blind date are basically the same for both men and women, that is, suitable for each other. Therefore, my mother-in-law is not dissatisfied with my daughter-in-law. After I entered the door, she made things difficult for me in the early stage and ignored me in the later stage. What's more, she has no expectation for my future, so there is no need to be nice to me.

At first, my parents actually didn't agree to this marriage, because my mother-in-law once said that she would count on her son and daughter, not her daughter-in-law, so she wouldn't have anything to do with her daughter-in-law. My parents think it's too inexplicable and too strong. After all, they will be a family. How can they say such cold-blooded things? But my mother-in-law said it was a terrible story.

But Li Kai and I were very close at that time, so I insisted on getting married regardless of my parents' concerns. There are no moths in the bride price, dowry and wedding, but the decoration of our wedding room has been delayed, so the ventilation has been delayed. After I got married, I lived in my husband's house first. My mother-in-law was very unhappy and said that we had influenced her life.

In fact, she and her sister-in-law bought three meals a day while we were away. During the 1 year when we lived at home, Li Kai and I basically bought food and cooked. I also try to do all the housework, even my sister-in-law's clothes are washed by me. I think, as a daughter-in-law and a sister-in-law, I have had enough.

But my mother-in-law is beating about the bush, and there is no place to live to rent a house, and there is nothing to find living in her husband's house. In a word, my mother-in-law treated me badly this year. I can't say anything bad about Li Kai's son, but it's not much better. Li Kai also wondered and asked her mother-in-law. Mother-in-law said: My son married his daughter-in-law and forgot his mother. Of course, their daughters are all fine. I'm counting on my daughters in the future, and I don't need to be nice to you. I did my duty when I raised you. You are married, and you are not qualified to make me pay.

After our wedding room was ventilated, we moved out as soon as possible. Later, we kept the frequency of going home to see our mother-in-law once a week. Actually, my mother-in-law is not very happy to come back this time, but every time she goes back, she will bring something, and she will ask Li Kai for money from time to time, so her mother-in-law's dissatisfaction only stays on her expression and never says anything.

Such days passed day by day, and in the third year of marriage, I was pregnant. After the mother-in-law knew it, she only made a phone call, just like asking the tone of a stranger. After a few polite words, she never came back. But at first I didn't expect her to take care of me, so I didn't say much, but Li Kai began to be disappointed in his mother. My mother's family took care of the whole pregnancy, but my father fell ill in the late pregnancy, which was quite serious.

My mother can't take care of me anymore, and I'm pregnant with twins and in poor health, so someone must take care of me. Li Kai had no choice but to call her mother, hoping that she could come and help for a few days. At that time, there were actually not many days before I planned the palace. However, my mother-in-law pushed me from pillar to post, and I was on tenterhooks every day during this time, worried that there would be problems at home during the day and no one was around. Li Kai can't take such a long leave. After all, there is still a mortgage to pay, and the birth of a child is also the beginning of spending money.

So on the day of giving birth, I heard Li Kai and her mother-in-law say on the phone that your daughter-in-law gave birth today, and you should show up anyway. But later, my mother-in-law still didn't come, saying that if her family came out, her daughter would be left alone. I was so angry that Li Kaigang hung up the phone that my mother-in-law began to lose heart.

My mother-in-law came on the fourth day after I gave birth to the baby. After giving my twin granddaughter a reluctant look, she snorted from her nose. I think I hate that I didn't give her a grandson. Ironically, she likes her daughter. As soon as my mother-in-law arrived, she began to make a phone call with a loud voice. I really broke down. Besides, the maternity family next door also has different opinions. I told my mother-in-law that if you want to make a phone call, go outside, or keep your voice down and disturb others.

As a result, after yelling at me for a long time, she turned off the air conditioner in her room. The woman next door can't stand it, and she can't argue with my mother-in-law. She could have been discharged from the hospital, so she simply went through the discharge procedure. Great, just me. Because the heat was unbearable, the child began to cry. I couldn't hold the child yet, so I asked my mother-in-law to hold the child and coax her, saying that the child might be hot and turn on the air conditioner.

As a result, my mother-in-law said, you have so many things. Isn't it normal for children to cry? How can there be children who don't cry? Just tell me how to do it and turn on the air conditioner. You just gave birth to a baby, so it's not good to turn on the air conditioner. Later, I still held my body and my child. But a few hours later, she felt hot and turned on the air conditioner herself. I am really angry. I told her, mother-in-law, didn't you say that I just gave birth to a baby a few days ago and it was not good to turn on the air conditioner? Then why did it start again?

Great, she got angry and began to scold me again. The last sleeping child was scared to cry. I can't stand it any longer. I yelled at her, you asked your son to come back and take care of me, and then you went back. There's no need to force it here. Li Kai came soon after receiving the call. After listening to my complaints, he was also very angry. He said to his mother-in-law: Mom, we have never asked you to do anything. Since we are so difficult, why don't you give us a hand? You really can't count on your son and daughter-in-law in the future.

My mother-in-law smiled and said, I told you, I don't expect my wife. I didn't expect you either, but you are my son. If I had to count on you then, would you not support me? Neighbors can drown you if they spit everywhere. Besides, I'm just here to accompany your wife and expect me to wait on her. It's impossible. You think too much. Say that finish her mother-in-law went back, Li Kai red eyes directly.

Li Kai is the son of her mother-in-law. If she is angry now, maybe she will let it go later. But I can't. I am completely heartless to my mother-in-law. I want to take good care of her in the future. It's impossible. She'd better be filial to her, just as she said. Otherwise, if she finally counts on me, it is estimated that she can only eat three meals a day, and nothing else can be counted on. I really don't understand why some mothers-in-law are so confident that they don't need a daughter-in-law in the future.