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Life is like a company. To achieve sustainable management, we must establish our own core advantages and build a moat. -"The moat of life? How to build your own real advantage "

How to manage Life Co., Ltd. well, keep competitors out of the city and realize the sustainable management of life? This book will find the core competitiveness from the four-dimensional concept and the practice through the concept, so as to run your own life limited company well.

First, from beginning to end, thinking and doing are integrated.

Compare each of us to a limited company, just like the company we work for. If we want to achieve sustainable management and long-term profit, we must establish our own core advantages and build our own moat.

Stand in the future and look at today.

Look at yourself now from the perspective of the future, and then look at yourself 30 years later, when we are no longer young, have you ever thought about what kind of life you want to live in your 60 s? If we look at today from a higher dimension, there will inevitably be some anxiety, even fear, instead of fear, accept it. Looking back on the past 30 years, I have stumbled and been busy, but I have done nothing.

Living in hindsight, I am satisfied with my present state of life, but I have never thought about changing it, and I have never thought deeply about why I have lived a miserable life for more than 30 years, day after day, year after year (at this point, it refers to the spiritual level). The lack of internal feedback and the bondage of traditional thinking, I think, are not the same for most people's lives? Complaining about others, feeling sorry for myself, blindly asking for it, but never thinking about changing, and walking through this life in chaos.

Success, a few people, depends on whether you have the courage to take the first step and take the road that a few people have taken.

I am afraid of change, including myself, because the process of change will bring you unprecedented challenges. In fact, it is these unknowns and challenges that let us find the "right thing" that belongs to us and is worth doing for a lifetime through constant trial and error.

The past is unbearable, and life is stormy. On the way to find the right thing, I met a "broken head". It is no exaggeration to say that this is the case. As a financial professional, I have been engaged in financial related work and financial management 10 for many years, just to survive.

I still remember when I first entered the workplace, I set my future goal-certified public accountant, taking accounting as my lifelong career. As we all know, talent is not here, but I resisted from the bottom of my heart. I have to take the exam because of the situation. Sign up countless times and give up countless times. I struggled back and forth and finally got nothing.

Looking back on the road I have taken, the reason is that the road of finance is not the "right thing" I have done, even if I try my best, it will not help. This is not what I really like to do. Textual research is driven by external interests. The salary of a professional title is higher than that of an ordinary post. That's all. This is not what I really think. So it will lead me to go back and forth on the way to the accounting exam, go further and further, and finally come back in vain.

The so-called "right thing" is your talent, your interest and your destiny. When you do what you are gifted with, you devote yourself wholeheartedly, effortlessly and enjoy the whole process. It is difficult for others to finish it, but you can finish it easily. On the other hand, I have been looking for my own destiny until something I experienced in my life, someone I met and a book I read aroused my inner ripples and found something I could understand with my heart. Whenever he draws a mind map while recording keywords, writes words alone, or shares them, the whole person is completely immersed in his own state, which is an experience he has never experienced in financial work.

Everyone has his own real "right thing". Let your heart calm down, listen to your inner voice, seize it and be yourself. Think about today's topic with a vision for the future. I believe that in the future, you will believe what you did today and have no regrets in the future.

Success: Doing the right thing in the right way. -Li Xiaolai's The Road to Wealth Freedom.

Second, the unity of thought and action.

The biggest difference between people is thinking and creating. Everyone belongs to his own unique mind. Through learning and accumulation, he established his own knowledge structure, and continued to grow and practice, with similarities but differences.

Experience is the best teacher.

"No scholar is the key to apply what he has learned" and "man is invincible in practice", which shows the importance of practice. The purpose of learning is to apply the knowledge that suits you to your work and life, so as to change yourself and your life.

The book mentions the practical viewpoint of "one soldier and one pawn in the solar arch". In different learning courses, I often hear teachers or other mothers talking about it, but I have never understood its deep meaning, nor have I gone to various base areas to find out what a soldier in the sun arch is. While reading this book, I mentioned the concept of practice.

The so-called "one footprint a day" simply means doing one thing every day. For example, exercise every day 10 minute, 1 month, 1 year, or even 10 year. Don't ignore the effect of 10 minutes over time, which is a very big change. Compared with running 1 hour when you are interested, or exercising excessively, and staying still for days or weeks when you are not interested, the effect achieved is obvious.

Another example is reading. Some people finish reading a book in a day, some people finish reading a book in two hours, some people finish reading a book in a week, and so on. If we compare them, we will inevitably have anxiety. Because everyone's life experience, knowledge background and available time are different, the natural reading speed and absorbed knowledge points will be different. As long as you can keep reading every day, you can read 10, 20, 30 pages every day according to your own time and needs ... In the long run, if you lengthen the dimension of time, the accumulation of the whole knowledge will be infinite, and you will be the person who surpasses the most.

Third, high transparency.

In the past life, when encountering problems, we will not look for the root of the problem, but will choose to escape and escape from reality, leaving ourselves alone in a narrow self-space and in a relatively safe state of self-comfort. Instead of solving the problem, it is getting worse.

Life, reading, growth and experience are all ways to find solutions to problems. Dare to face up to the existence of problems, face up to your own failures, anxiety and every ups and downs of life.

Talking to him in the best way, or close to the physical distance, even if you can't have too much contact with them, you can see excellent people, just like neurons in self-stimulation, which naturally produces stronger driving force. The logic behind it is: no longer think "that has nothing to do with me". These are the best ways to get in touch with cattle people. Li Xiaolai

Just like me, because I am a full-time mother, I don't have many opportunities to get in touch with the outside world. Unlike working mothers, I can get in touch with the world outside of work except my colleagues in my workplace. So, what, are you just going to do nothing? The first few years of full-time are like this. Returning home from the busy workplace has disrupted all the life order, which is hard to face for a while and has experienced many changes and tastes that have never been seen before. As a result, I was confused for several years and repeated the same life. The whole person is like a half-dead baby, with an empty shell and no breath of life.

I have asked myself more than once, do you really want to finish this life like this? Are you sure this is the life you want? Do you have any regrets when you look back on your life when you are old and white? Lament yourself that "if you don't work hard when you are young, you will be sad when you are old"? The inner answer is no, refusing to see a hopeless life and refusing to live a life that has not been tossed. Learn from a painful experience and go out, which hurts both body and mind. Success or failure, how do you know the result without trying? Live each day with awareness.

There are more than one way to exchange energy with the outside world, such as reading, traveling, joining a book club, communicating on the same frequency, etc ... In your spare time, it is a good choice to have coffee and chat together and wander aimlessly.

Fourth, more support.

More support, simple understanding, is to build our own different track, increase income through multiple channels, pursue financial and spiritual freedom, and make the road of life more comfortable and broader.

In this book, the author mentioned that in addition to fixed income, we can also create other income channels, at least there can be more than three ways of income: fixed salary for our own work, more than 8 hours, and multiple sales at one time. ...

Finding your own interests after work seems to be doing nothing and can't guarantee business opportunities. Some couples will provide psychological counseling, teach painting, do book club, write, etc. after work, increase various income channels, and finally realize financial freedom and spiritual freedom.

Of course, increasing income is not achieved overnight, and it needs to adhere to the accumulation process for a long time. This process is stable, income is not the first, and ability growth is the first.

As the intrinsic value rises, so does the extrinsic value. -"Richness belongs to those whose pockets are full of happiness".

We often talk about slash youth and multiple identities now. As far as the current form is concerned, the information age is actually an era in which each of us can better develop ourselves, give play to our strengths, give play to our advantages, output through different platforms, and do what we are best at.

If you like video editing, improve your skills in this field, output on different video platforms, get feedback and find your own platform, you will create your own world.

I wrote some shared words on Zhihu before, and the response was mediocre. Maybe it's really my lack of writing skills that I can't be sung. One of the reasons why I want to write a column is that I am not professional enough and may not be suitable for that platform. And then I've been outputting. When I first started writing, few people read it, and sometimes even many articles were not read. This is also reasonable. No one becomes an expert and a master from the beginning. Everything will go through the process of accumulation, and it is also the process of our growth. We can put up with loneliness, put aside our desire for more income and focus on our own growth.

In this book, I will see a lot of my former self, some shadows at work, and the shadows of my full-time status. That's the state I was in at work. I don't want to change, I'm afraid of tossing, blx, and I'm afraid of failure. In fact, I don't like financial management at all, but I have done financial and financial-related work by mistake for more than ten years. I once wanted to die on that road, but in the end it was just a road trip.

Later, through constant exploration, constant trial and error, constant tossing. Crossing the pit and stepping on the thunder, I never understood. In others' eyes, it would be great to have a good full-time wife. How many women want and envy a life, but I am not happy. Thanks to my family's understanding and support, I can do what I like.

Through continuous exploration, I found that I prefer reading books, drawing inspiration and drawing with mind maps, which should have been beyond my imagination in the past. Dare I try a white painter? Isn't this a joke and a shame? Facts have proved that as long as I dare to break through psychological barriers and believe in myself, I can, I really can, and I believe in the power of faith.

Change comes from jumping out of the comfort zone, changing the inherent thinking, and standing in a higher dimension to see if the life you are living now is the life you want to live in the next ten, twenty or even twenty years. If not, then sit down and think quietly, see if what we are doing is what I like, have the courage to jump out of this framework, spend eight hours exploring a career that belongs to you and you love, and continue to do it.

Bravely jump out of the frame and bravely satisfy your inner self. After you invest enough time and energy, your interest will create wealth for you, even if you have no income, it can nourish your spirit and soul.

Zimu often shares in book clubs, creates wealth with talents and likes to do it with dedication. Personally, I started studying, researching and buying books in the university from 20 17, and I haven't made any money yet. I spent more money on my own investment than on clothes, but I never regretted it and enjoyed growing up.

Breaking through yourself is the biggest gain. Find yourself again after years of being lost. Looking back after many years, you will thank yourself now, dare to clean up your previous life, start from scratch and be curious about everything like a child.

Live as if it were your last day. For my childhood dream of college, I went back to school at the age of 36 and took my children to class together on weekends. In order to learn a skill, I came to Shenzhen thousands of miles away, which is a life I never thought of before.

In the past, I put my family in the most important position, and all my energy was put on them, beside my husband, beside my family and beside my children. Full of trivial housework, children's study, parents' short stature, and problems in parent-child relationship always think that children are disobedient and daydream all day, and finally push them to the edge of depression.

Someone, something or an experience will give you an instant epiphany and tell yourself to bravely realize your college dream that you have been trying to realize for many years. With ideas and actions, it takes more than a year to complete the exams in all subjects. That's a self-study exam. Before, I had already backed out and kept giving myself psychological hints. It's too difficult. What if I fail the exam? I didn't even take the exam. How do I know I can't? First of all, affirm yourself. If I can, I really can. Give up the weekend, give up the time to brush your mobile phone, and pay for it. Now looking back on the road, it's worth it!

Dream boldly, as long as you have an idea in your heart, pursue it boldly and satisfy yourself. I have had enough. Only by learning to love yourself can you have the energy to love people around you, family and friends. All energy comes from your heart, and asking for it from the outside world is like a flash in the pan.

Satisfy yourself, not live selfishly. When I want to do something, draw pictures or read books, I will tell my husband and children that I want a space of my own now. After an hour or two, I will accompany you and tell you what I think, and they will naturally understand.

Traditionally, in our career, it would be nice to have a stable job and a stable income for both parents and friends around us. Why bother? I think life is about tossing. How can it be so colorful if there is no tossing life? Because in the process of tossing, you will meet many interesting people, you can learn a lot of energy from them, and you can also learn their beautiful qualities, such as fraternity, helpfulness, sharing beautiful things and so on.

The most important difference between us and others is to find our own long board, foster strengths and avoid weaknesses rather than complement each other, give full play to our own advantages, build our own knowledge structure, establish our own core competitiveness and build our own "moat" of life.

The process of growth is a process of continuous exploration, trial and error, adjustment, acceptance of oneself and acceptance of everything.

I am Zilan, a practitioner of lifelong learning!