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If I don't want to be with my parents, is it treason? What should I do?

Rebellious psychology refers to a state and psychology of blind opposition. The implied meaning is that no matter what the other party says is right or wrong, he will not be "taught", and even misinterpret the other party's meaning and blindly "stand up" against it.

Rebellious psychology is the most common in adolescence, that is, junior high school. During this period, children's self-awareness is enhanced and they begin to have a strong sense of independence. Therefore, they are inconsistent with their parents in concepts and values, and feel that their parents can't understand themselves, so they have a certain degree of rebellious psychology.

Since you haven't described the situation in detail, I think there may be several possibilities:

First, you are in adolescence, so it is probably a kind of rebellious psychology, but don't worry too much. This is a normal phenomenon and a stage we have to go through in the process of growing up. First of all, don't blame yourself or criticize yourself too much, allow yourself to get out of control occasionally, and secondly, understand the pains of your parents. Although their views or educational methods may be inappropriate, their starting point is for our own good, and we should try our best to communicate when there are contradictions.

Second, you have passed puberty, and when you reach the age of stepping into society or even getting married, you are basically not rebellious. As an adult, you need an independent space both psychologically and in life. You may be very different from your parents in life or thought, or you want to be separated because of work and family needs. This is a normal demand. First of all, we should think rationally about the necessity and feasibility. Is it because the actual conditions must be separated? Can you take the responsibility of living independently after leaving your parents? You can't "run away from home" because of a moment of anger. Secondly, you should communicate well with your parents and express your desire for independence to them. Ordinary parents can understand. Your parents will be very, very sad if you leave without saying a word.

If you are willing to talk about the specific situation, maybe we can discuss it more deeply and see why there is such a mentality and how to do it. I hope I can help you!