Why do women generally dislike "honest people"?

Why don't women like "honest people"? The following answers have been summed up very comprehensively. Honest people have the advantages of being honest, down-to-earth, not philandering, not eating, drinking, whoring and gambling, but they also have the disadvantages that women don't like it, don't understand amorous feelings, and are not romantic enough. I just want to say three fundamental reasons:

1. Mashan was ridden and others were bullied.

It is not a blessing for an honest man to suffer.

There must be something hateful about honest people.

First, honest people are easily bullied. Women often tell men that they don't care about your money or your appearance, as long as you shelter me from the wind and rain. Women's greatest need for men is security. It is not only a sense of emotional security, but also a sense of security for the interests of the whole family. Honest people who are bullied can't take advantage of it, which is a great loss to the overall interests of the family. Women are very sensitive to security, much higher than men. Women like men: honest with themselves and dishonest with others. Be honest with the outside world, it is the family who suffers, and the wife who suffers first.

Second, honest people suffer. From the Zen language, losing is a blessing. But for family members, especially wives and children, what is lost is the loss of the overall interests of the family. How can it be a blessing? For an honest man, you can regard loss as cultivation, but for the whole family, especially for the wife, this loss is a real loss, especially for women. Women's hearts are actually clearer than men's. Women can suffer with men, but they don't want to suffer with men. There are objective reasons for poverty, but there are psychological grievances besides actual losses.

Third, honest people also have their own hateful places. Some men are honest outside, but not necessarily honest and simple with their wives. Honest people always have personal vendettas. Some honest people are particularly stubborn, and women can't beat him; Some honest people are careless. An honest man is like a gourd outside. If they are not noticed, they will not be slovenly. Some women look down on sloppy men. Some honest people are inconsiderate, round and uncomfortable to communicate with. Some honest people love money like life. The more honest people are, the more stingy they are, which makes their wives unbearable.

Once, I chatted with several female workers. I asked, "Girls, what are you going to do with boyfriends in the future?" Will you find someone as honest as me? "A female worker replied,"No. "

I asked why? She replied, "It is foolish to be too honest. Do you know? " I said, "Honest people are not stupid?" She replied, "Honest man, not normal." I asked again, "Why is it abnormal?" She said, "Are you really stupid or playing dumb? I won't talk to you. It's really difficult to talk to an honest man. Such simple questions have been asked. " After a while, she started chatting with a male net friend. "Ha leak. Miss me? I haven't seen you for several days. Do you miss me crazy? " Reply with a message. "Give a kiss. This horse is a bug. Come one. " The female workers are chatting, and the speaker is on. Not afraid of being heard. I went to work. After a while, the work was finished. I asked, "What do you mean by bugs on horses?" She said, "You don't even know this? Also known as genius? Sao Sao Sao. Horses, and one more thing, bugs. Isn't that a slut? What a sexy word. " This time I understand that coquettish and sexy are both commendatory words. Honest man, can you say these words? Women like to chat. Talking and laughing. I like funny, humorous and dishonest men. The more honest and earnest men are, the less talkative they are, and the more annoying women are.

Women like down-to-earth men, but this is completely different from honesty. Honest people often follow the rules, have no scheming, don't understand women's hearts, and can't give women the romance and heartache they want. Of course, women don't like honest people.

I have a friend who drives a taxi. He is 40 years old and not married. He went through countless blind dates, but all ended in vain because he was too honest. When dating, friends can't even breathe, let alone chat. The woman asked, which woman can stand such a man?

How old is the woman with big friends? She was with women for a few days. Once, a woman invited him to dinner at home to let her family know her. He asked his girlfriend what she wanted to buy, and she said she could just buy something casually. Who knows that her friend bought it too casually.

When I went to my girlfriend's house, my friend bought half a watermelon, saying it was too big and wasted, so I bought half a watermelon. The result is predictable. I told my friend that you deserve to be single all your life. What woman would like an honest man like you?

Why do women generally dislike "honest people"?

My cousin has suffered from this "honest man". At first, many people introduced her to an object, and finally my aunt helped her find a so-called "honest man". The young man looks ok, but he is a little depressed. After graduation, he worked as a manager in his father's factory, which is said to be owned by him in the future.

My aunt thinks this young man is a potential stock. It's rare that he has so much wealth and looks so honest, so she tries her best to rub it. My cousin didn't know much about marriage and family then. She thought that her mother was an experienced person and would certainly not harm herself, so she agreed to this marriage.

I didn't know that after getting married, my father-in-law's factory closed down in less than three years, and she was still heavily in debt. At this time, her honest husband was scared to hide first, leaving his cousin at home to face many creditors who come to your door every day.

After the divorce, my cousin told me not to trust any "honest man". As a result, I was cheated by "honest man".

When I was in college, there was a recognized "honest man" in our class named Wang Zhiyong, and all the girls liked to play tricks on him. Actually, Wang Zhiyong looks good, but her EQ is too low. We pretend to introduce Wang Zhiyong to someone and ask him to invite him to dinner. He will take it seriously and then treat him sincerely.

After several times like this, we felt very sorry and really introduced him to a junior. Don't say, the two really hit it off.

Once, my junior asked him, what do you like about me? You must tell the truth.

Wang Zhiyong answered honestly: Because you are fat, your breasts look plump.

Ah ah ah! My junior broke up with him screaming.

Wang Zhiyong also foolishly asked us, but I just told the truth, as for it?

There is a young man in our office who is not very talkative. When others joke and fight, he always listens silently, and he always completes the tasks assigned to him silently, making contributions and not taking the lead. We all consider him an "honest man".

Sister Xiao Wu, a freshman, fell in love with this "honest man", but they broke up in less than a month.

Xiao Wu later privately said that this person was terrible and secretly tipped off the leader. Who speaks ill of the leader in the office during the day, who leaves his job secretly, who is going to get pregnant, who is going to jump ship, everything is recorded in the notebook. Once I accidentally opened his mobile phone, only to find that this is not an "honest man", but clearly an "infiltrator"!

In the past, honesty was a simple synonym. Marry a good man, and this good man also includes an honest man. To say who is "honest" now is tantamount to saying that this person is a bit stupid in disguise. In fact, people who are stupid, incompetent and have low emotional intelligence often look honest. The most terrible thing is to meet someone who is duplicitous and pretends to be honest with you. Therefore, women generally don't like honest people.

From girls to big girls to young women to women, it is the same, expecting someone to spoil someone and coax someone to love them.

An honest man is: the girl said to eat something simple today, so let's eat some mala Tang. He stupidly ordered two mala Tang, but the girl didn't say anything, so angry! You have to find a coffee shop anyway. Small hotels and private rooms are really not good. A man who can coax will order a spicy hotpot, spend two yuan on the roadside to buy her a flower, put two straws in the bowl, and watch his lovely' kitten' sucking the clear ln soup affectionately, but the girl feels extremely happy.

One of my brothers, his wife tries on clothes, shoes and hats every time she comes back and asks him if he is beautiful. Does it look nice? He foolishly said that the color was too dark, too tender and the size was wrong. His wife complained to my wife that he was really bored. The more he does, the more he spends money on this and that. The two brothers were so worried about money that they said with a straight face that they were ugly. The husband and wife met almost without talking!

I told him that you should be good at praising her, make her feel that you care about her and change your attitude. Now that she has spent money on new clothes, try to appreciate and praise her, and the effect will definitely be different.

He finally figured it out. His wife bought a cheap dress that day. When she put it on, he looked straight at wait for a while and boasted? Wife, it feels good for you to wear this dress. I feel like we are back to the age when we were unmarried ... After a burst of admiration, that girl wore that dress almost every day. Unexpectedly, she changed it all summer and her face was radiant. She looks more like an innocent girl in front of her husband. That brother made a face at me with satisfaction and really wanted to give him a beating. It's no exaggeration for him to treat us to a big meal with the money saved from buying clothes for his wife.

Therefore, women should be coaxed and spoiled, but don't cheat! Sometimes men will say things they don't want to say in good faith. Don't be too honest!

I think the honest man in question has three obvious characteristics that women dislike:

1. boring

Some people are really down-to-earth and sincere, but he is easy to be one-sided, and women don't feel fun in their dealings with him.

Why do girls like love rat more easily? Because they know what women like to listen to, what kind of jokes can make people laugh and what kind of words can make people happy.

And the honest man is probably the one who is flushed and passively communicates. For this example, it is not that love rat is better than an honest man, but that an honest man suffers more than trying to please a woman. After all, people like interesting souls.

mediocre

Honest people are relatively well-behaved, and people with outstanding ability dare to think and do things and break through conventional thinking. They are often successful and more capable.

Honest people prefer to do things within the framework of principles, which also restricts their imagination and influence, and it is difficult to make great achievements.

3. The supporting role of the comedian

Honest people are honest because they can say whatever they want and don't know how to detour.

Talking men are always very popular with women.

For example, if a girl is fat, honest people will say that you are a little fat, and people who can talk will say: You are plump.

Girls are short, honest people will tell the truth without hiding it, and talking men will say: you are petite and exquisite.

Sometimes it's tiring to get along with honest people, and sometimes it's easy. It depends on what a woman wants. Just make the right choice.

I hope my answer is helpful to you (end)

My husband is a famous honest man!

1, "honesty" has a good meaning, but it is often misinterpreted as "incompetence" by many people, which naturally becomes derogatory.

2. Reading the North American Times, I learned that smart and capable people are honest people, and they are willing to do it because they are honest; You can do it because you are willing to do it; Smart because you can do it!

3, misinterpretation, for example: a parent asked the second child to go to the mall to change a pair of running shoes, and the child said, "Let my brother go." Parents: "Your brother is honest and can't do it." The second child said angrily, "Mom, do you mean that I should change it because I am cunning?" !

In fact, the second child has done things well, that is, honest, practical, willing, capable and smart!

There is nothing absolute in the world, and there is no reason or data to show that women generally don't like honest people.

I am introverted and don't like words. But my wife just likes my style. She and I have been together since we met, and she is both active and passive. I remember when we first met, we didn't say anything and didn't know what to say. My daughter-in-law found the topic, and I gradually relaxed. I hate to ask me to sing. I don't like crowded occasions, so I can't let it go. I am so fat that my wife says I am a fool sometimes. Later, I gradually became familiar with it and talked more than before. Although I am honest, I am only free in front of strangers and my wife. Although I am very quiet, I always sweet talk to her and prepare gifts for her every holiday. She also prepares gifts for me every holiday.

It's not that women don't like honest people, but that men are dull and clumsy and don't understand romance.

Because women are used to coax, you don't know any sweet words. How can I coax a woman, coax you every day and be serious about you every day? After a long time, I'm afraid you will choose to deceive people! Life is not just daily necessities, but also emotional appeal and sense of ceremony. Do you think Huang Rong would like Guo Jing if he weren't a martial artist? I'm afraid it's hard to get a wife! Although women don't like honest people, they don't like people who are full of rhetoric. Women prefer to pretend to be honest people, such as Wang

This honest man is a bit vague. I'm afraid there are countless images of what an honest man looks like. I have a classmate in high school. I haven't seen him for years. Everyone else went out to work. He stayed at home. I invited him to dinner and gave him 200 yuan. He left happily. Not long after, he found it again and said that his wife had been abducted by others. He wanted to report it as soon as he heard it, but he wouldn't let him. Ask carefully, it turned out that his wife ran away with someone, not far away, in the city, so I accompanied him to find his wife, who was cooking for others in a lotus root coal processing workshop and was the boss's lover. No one was found when we went, his wife was hiding, and no one said anything in the workshop. No way, I said, you'd better come out and find something to do. He didn't speak and left the next day. Yesterday at the class reunion, it was inconvenient for me to ask this question, so I left without saying hello. I always feel that a man, who can't bear suffering and can't let his wife live a good life, shouldn't delay others.