After remarriage, my ex-husband and I became good neighbors. what do you think?

"After the divorce, my ex-husband and I remarried separately."

It is easy to start a relationship, but when two people choose to end it, it takes a lot of courage.

Female reader Hui Hui (pseudonym) ended her eight-year marriage with her husband two years ago. The reason for the divorce is not extramarital affairs or domestic violence, but both of them feel that they can't go on.

Hui Hui and her husband are both "people who pursue romance and perfection". If they don't feel love in their marriage, it will be a kind of torture for both sides.

In the first few years of marriage, they were very sweet. After giving birth to the child, the two still maintain a very close and passionate relationship. They have to hug each other every day to fall asleep, and they have to kiss each other and say good morning every day when they wake up.

For Huihui, she married her husband because she saw a romantic love in him that was particularly similar to herself. The reason for the divorce is only because she feels that the distance from her husband is getting farther and farther.

In the first few years of marriage, two people have endless topics every day; But near the time of divorce, the two people basically have "zero communication" every day.

Her husband comes home from work late every day, while Hui Hui is already asleep. Her husband often works at night when he is busy at work, and Hui Hui just plays the role of a full-time wife.

For those who pursue the ultimate in love, they can't stand the dullness in marriage.

In the eighth year of marriage, female reader Hui Hui and her husband had a choice: they discussed whether to end their marriage.

Because the days together are really a kind of torture, there is no communication, no communication, and finally even the desire to communicate with each other disappears.

Two people decided to divorce, or live upstairs and downstairs after divorce; When I first bought a house, my husband bought me a set. My husband bought a set himself, upstairs and downstairs. I decided to leave a set for my in-laws, but my in-laws don't want to live.

In the second year after the divorce, Hui Hui remarried her husband and attended each other's wedding.

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After remarriage, my ex-husband and I became good neighbors.

After the divorce, Hui Hui lived upstairs with his son and started a new marriage with him. My husband has also started a new marriage and lives downstairs.

Some people say that after breaking up and divorcing, the relationship with the predecessor is like an "enemy", and it is difficult to see the predecessor; But there is no such thing between Hui Hui and her ex-husband.

Although there is no love, there is still affection between two people; Not to mention the parents of the child.

When they remarried, the two expressed their current demands: If you care about my children and I meet my ex-husband to raise them, then we won't get married.

Now Hui Hui keeps a distance from her ex-husband, but still retains the feelings of her relatives.

Occasionally, two families will have dinner together. When Hui Hui and her ex-husband go out with their children, they will also explain the reasons to each other's current employees.

Sometimes divorce doesn't mean anything. Without feelings, there will still be affection.

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What kind of relationship did you maintain with your ex after the divorce?

I talked to some divorced readers about the relationship with my ex after divorce.

Ms. Hu, 35, divorced for 3 years and remarried.

"If it weren't for the children, I wouldn't have met him."

After the divorce, the children live with me, and my ex-husband has paid off all the child support and compensation for me. When we got married, the house was ready for the children.

After the divorce, I have hardly communicated with my ex-husband. I will contact him except when he asks to see the children. The rest of the time, I will not and will not allow him to appear in my new life.

I divorced because he abandoned us, so I won't give him any chance. Love and hate are clear. This is my life principle.

Ms. Chen, aged 27, divorced 1 year, single.

"My ex-husband is a scum man, and I don't want to hear from him again."

Long-distance love, regardless of parents' opposition to marrying her ex-husband, but only two years after marriage, his love rat nature was exposed; Domestic violence, extramarital affairs, before marriage, he was really good at pretending, acting, pretending to be a warm man and being responsible.

But after marriage, his nature was completely exposed; I don't work at home, but I work to support my family.

After the divorce, I went back to my mother's house, and Lahei deleted all his contact information. Marrying such a scum man is a pain I will never forget.

Mr. Liu, 37, divorced for three years, has remarried.

"One day my ex-wife left and never came back."

Married 10 years, my ex-wife left with someone else and never came back. Even our child, she doesn't want to take another look.

Later, she only sent a divorce agreement home for me to sign. I didn't think too much. At the moment of signing, I felt that this 10 year marriage was really absurd, just like a dream.

It took me three years to get out of the shadow of my last marriage and live happily with my present job. Probably because the incumbent is also a person who has failed in marriage, we two people who have failed in marriage hold together and know how to cherish our present life.

The marriage has come to an end, which only shows that the fate of husband and wife is over. No matter what reason you divorce, you can't erase the memory of living together for so many years.

Even if you remarry after divorce, don't slander your predecessor. After all, you should raise your children together, give them a good education, and let them form a healthy outlook on life.