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Babies cry for many reasons. Let's talk about why the baby is crying and some simple solutions.

Hunger is the main reason why babies cry. This kind of crying is short and intense, relatively regular, and there is an interval of air exchange in the middle, which is gradually urgent. Generally speaking, mothers are sensitive to this kind of crying, especially lactating mothers, whose milk is almost full. When the baby feels hungry, feed him at the right time to eliminate his hunger and make the baby not cry.

Discomfort is a common cause of baby crying. What the baby obviously feels uncomfortable is the diaper. "Oh, really uncomfortable. Please change it for me! " "The baby cried and announced. The baby's skin is very sensitive. If the diaper is wet, he will feel uncomfortable and cry loudly. At this time, parents should change his diaper in time to make the baby feel comfortable and stop crying.

Too cold or too hot will also make the baby uncomfortable, and he will express it by crying. At this time, parents should touch the baby's abdomen with their hands. If the abdomen is cold, it means that the baby feels cold and needs to add clothes quickly. If the baby's face is red and irritable, it means that the baby is too hot, so we should take corresponding measures, such as bathing the baby with warm water.

The baby is crying and suffering, mostly due to indigestion, abdominal distension and other reasons. In the process of eating, the baby often swallows a lot of air, which is one of the reasons for his abdominal distension. This kind of crying often comes suddenly, the first sound is long and loud, followed by a long breath, and then a loud cry. At this time, parents should try to make their baby burp, and he will feel better. Burping is a common phenomenon, and you can help him in the following two ways: first, you can put the baby on your shoulder and pat him on the back; Secondly, you can put the baby on your knee, hold his head and pat him on the back. The baby stops crying when he is comfortable.

The baby cried because of his bad mood. Babies sometimes feel lonely and vent their emotions by crying. This kind of crying usually begins with silence, and is often led by several slow and long cries, which are low in voice and come from the throat. This is just to attract the attention of parents and let them pick him up. Parents should often play and communicate with their babies, sing and tell stories to him, and play with some plush toys to eliminate the crying caused by loneliness.

Babies groan before going to bed or just after waking up. At this time, the baby's crying is not too big, regular, lingering, and even a little uneasy. Older babies often rub their eyes and nose with their hands or stop crying, which is what people often say-doze off. If he is tired, let him do some slow or rhythmic exercise, or say something soothing to help him relax or let him sleep. If he wakes up, his parents should not hug him when he cries. They can pat him gently, hum him and comfort him, so that he will stop crying slowly.

Babies cry for love and communication. For the baby, material satisfaction is far from enough, but also spiritual nutrition is needed. The baby lies in bed all day, and the lack of warmth will also cause him to cry. At this time, parents should immediately put down their work and give their baby attention, kisses and caresses. They can pat him and hug him. Usually, the best way is to pick up the baby and put it on your left chest so that he can hear your heartbeat. You can also gently hum and touch your baby when bathing and oiling to give him spiritual satisfaction.

How often and how long the baby cries depends on the parents' understanding and accuracy of judgment, that is, whether adults understand the baby's "telling".

New parents, especially those careless young parents, often don't know why their baby is crying.

I tried everything, such as feeding, changing diapers, burping him and even holding him, but the baby still cried. This is really a depressing thing.

Most parents are afraid of their baby crying and regard it as an upset thing. Parenting experts warned:

You must remember that crying is the only way for babies to make demands and communicate with adults, which is normal.

* How often the baby cries depends on the accuracy of parents' understanding and judgment, that is, how you respond to the baby's request and how you understand the baby's crying.

From this perspective, the baby cries endlessly, but what should be asked is the parents themselves: Is it because I don't understand the baby's "telling" and why I can't understand the real reason why the baby is crying? Indeed, some babies will become "crying babies" because of their parents. The most common thing is—

* Can't control the amount of food, make the baby hungry, or eat too much;

* The baby wants to be alone, but the adults only care about their own happiness and hug him to tease him.

In fact, the constant crying of healthy babies can be avoided. Many details and methods of taking care of the baby help to control his crying. The most important thing is to establish a set of regular living habits, especially eating and sleeping habits. Adults meet all the basic needs of the baby, and crying can be controlled to a minimum.

What is normal crying and what is excessive crying?

No baby will become a "crying baby" if he develops regular living habits from childhood. When the basic needs are met, the baby will feel happy and satisfied. But even the happiest and most satisfied baby will cry from time to time, which is normal.

A study by the University of London shows that:

Newborn babies cry for an average of 2 hours a day; 6-week-old babies can cry the most, 25% babies cry for four hours a day, and 40% babies cry between 6 pm and midnight.

A researcher in the Netherlands has spent 20 years studying babies. He thinks:

The first year is a period of nerve growth and change for the baby, and he will cry very badly. Neurological changes usually occur in the 5th, 8th, 12, 15, 23rd, 34th and 42nd weeks of the baby's life. Careful mothers will find that babies often fidget and cry in these days.

Many mothers say:

Some babies get upset when they take off their clothes, some scream impatiently when they change diapers, and some babies have to hum for a long time before they fall asleep no matter how much you hug them. Almost all children will have a period of fidgeting at night, which requires special attention from adults to calm down.

Here, I want to talk about the various manifestations of parents' incorrect care methods that lead to children crying.

Newborns often cry because of hunger.

Hunger is the main cause of crying after birth 1 ~ 2 weeks. In fact, crying is the last "spy" that the baby sends to his parents because of hunger. At this stage, parents usually lack the experience of "getting the message" Parenting experts say that the simple way is to assume that all the crying of the baby is because of hunger, and feed him first when he cries.

Breast-fed babies can keep from crying for 2 to 3 hours after a full meal, and some children may last longer. However, keeping the newborn baby quiet for a long time is not the goal pursued by parents. If the baby doesn't cry for three hours, you have to feed it once. This can not only reduce the baby's crying, but also help the baby adjust the biological clock.

If your baby is 2 weeks old, but his weight hasn't recovered to his birth weight, or his weight gain is not obvious, then he may be crying because he is hungry.

By 3 weeks, insufficient breast milk is a common problem. The baby is likely to cry loudly because of hunger At this time, mothers can't give up breastfeeding easily and add formula milk to their babies. We must establish confidence in breastfeeding and insist on breastfeeding.

The American Academy of Pediatrics believes that:

The baby's sucking action will make the mother secrete milk. Every time I feed my baby, my mother's milk will come faster and more abundant.

For an artificially fed baby, it is easier for parents to judge whether he is hungry from the amount of milk he drinks.

About six months, fidgety with hunger.

Most babies often show a strong appetite when they are 4 to 5 months old. At this time, we should consider adding solid food. For the baby who is almost 6 months old, the nutrition of milk can no longer meet his nutritional needs, and he may become grumpy because of hunger. Parents need to give their children solid food in time and gradually stop feeding at midnight. Breastfeed 4 times a day to encourage children to get used to eating solid food.

Crying because of thirst is often ignored by adults.

Generally speaking, breast-fed children don't need to drink water. However, in a dry environment, such as staying indoors with adequate heating for a long time in winter and windy season in autumn, especially in hot summer, the baby is easily upset because of thirst, and there is nothing wrong with feeding the child a small amount of water. The water for children must be boiled warm water. If it is mineral water, it should be low in sodium.

It is enough for breast-fed children to feed water once a day. Be careful not to breast-feed your child 1 hour before breastfeeding, which will affect your child's appetite. Children who are artificially fed are more thirsty than those who are breastfed, and it may take 1 day to feed water several times.

Fatigue is the most common cause of baby crying.

Some babies are tired, and adults can easily see them yawning and showing sleepy expressions. Some children don't. They often just cry, hunch their backs or kick their legs. Many parents often regard the baby's tired crying as a sign of hunger. "You are hungry again. Would you like to breastfeed? "

If the baby less than 6 months old has the above performance after waking up 1.5 ~ 2 hours, it is mostly tired. Children can stay awake for longer after six months, but after waking up for 2.5 hours, they will definitely feel tired.

It should be emphasized that parents should always pay attention to whether the baby is tired. When the child cried to express his fatigue, he was already quite tired.

Even if your baby shows no signs of fatigue, you'd better give him 20 minutes to calm down before going to bed. Put the baby in his bed, dim the lights, hug him and hum a little song to relax him. Avoid too much conversation or too much eye contact. Once the child looks completely relaxed and wants to sleep, put him on the bed and give him 10 ~ 20 minutes to sleep by himself. Don't always hug him and coax him, don't want him to go. Too many hugs will only make children more tired and refuse to sleep.

Special reminder:

A child who is often overtired will eventually develop a bad habit that gives his parents a headache-he can only fall asleep when he is very tired; And it doesn't matter if you fall asleep. Usually, it may cause sleep problems.

Excessive crying

Many experts' articles emphasize how important appropriate incentives are to the growth of babies.

Parents are told to talk to their babies anytime and anywhere and read stories to them. Parents of older babies are also advised to let their children participate in various interest classes and give them many toys. All these can help children develop their potential and make them happier and smarter.

However, children should not be too active or too much. The most important activities and activities should be coordinated with the children's eating and sleeping time. If you can't find a balance, the child is likely to be too excited. Children who are too excited will cry because they are too tired and even refuse to sleep.

Pay attention to how long the baby wakes up. Leave at least 15 minutes before going to bed during the day and at least 30 minutes before going to bed at night to calm the children down. It's a good idea to prepare some toys in bed to help children wake up or fall asleep. Plush toys that children can hold can help them fall asleep quietly as soon as possible.

Boredom is also a reason to cry.

From the third week of birth, the baby has been awake for longer and longer, and began to be restless. Now, besides letting the baby eat well and sleep well, it is also important to meet his spiritual needs and communication needs.

Even very young children can get happiness from visual and social activities and know the world. When playing with your baby, realize that your baby's attention can only last for a short time. Don't overdo it. At the same time, it is also important to encourage children to entertain themselves. When the baby is 6 ~ 8 weeks old, they can play with toys happily 15 ~ 20 minutes. Of course, parents should always be present when children play by themselves.

Baby's favorite toy within 6 months:

* The music turntable hanging overhead can make children happy for hours. When the baby stares at the pendant, it promotes the development of the child's eye muscles.

* Animal toys or clown pendants are also the most popular. Remember to put away your toys when the children are sleeping.

* Soft and light rattle, children over 4 months will like it very much.

* Children also like pictures with bright colors and simple graphics.

Babies also like listening to different kinds of music, like adults dancing with them and so on.

Babies over 6 months are more likely to feel bored and irritable. They don't lie quietly in bed for more than 20 minutes.

Other reasons why the baby cries.

Nervousness and anxiety: mother separated from work, new nanny, dislike of strange environment and strangers, staying alone in the room, parents in a bad mood, etc.

Defecation: Many babies often cry when defecating. Parents will think that this is a sign of pain and constipation. It is believed that the reason why the baby is irritable when defecating is that the rectum is too soft to give enough pressure, which leads to difficulty in excretion. The crying stopped when the child ate solid food.

Various external discomforts: There are many reasons why babies cry because of discomfort. For example, the room temperature is too high and the nasal mucosa is dry; Bedding and pajamas are too thick and heavy, or they are not warm enough; Clothes and shoes are uncomfortable.

Crying before going to bed: exhausted children will cry loudly before going to bed, which may last 10 ~ 30 minutes. The more tired the child is, the louder the cry and the longer it takes. It is an effective way to set aside 20 minutes before going to bed every day to calm the child down and slowly extend the time to ignore the child's crying.

Why is the baby crying?

Young parents are often disturbed by the baby's crying. There's no need to panic. Crying is the most direct and effective way for babies to express their feelings. He sends a message to his parents by crying. Cry when you are hungry, cry when you are sleepy, cry when you are not wet, and cry when you are uncomfortable. The baby reminds adults of his needs and emotions by crying. As long as parents carefully observe and understand, they will soon get inspiration from the baby's crying tone and expression and understand his various crying.

Babies cry for many reasons. Let's talk about why the baby is crying and some simple solutions.

Hunger is the main reason why babies cry. This kind of crying is short and intense, relatively regular, and there is an interval of air exchange in the middle, which is gradually urgent. Generally speaking, mothers are sensitive to this kind of crying, especially lactating mothers, whose milk is almost full. When the baby feels hungry, feed him at the right time to eliminate his hunger and make the baby not cry.

Discomfort is a common cause of baby crying. What the baby obviously feels uncomfortable is the diaper. "Oh, really uncomfortable. Please change it for me! " "The baby cried and announced. The baby's skin is very sensitive. If the diaper is wet, he will feel uncomfortable and cry loudly. At this time, parents should change his diaper in time to make the baby feel comfortable and stop crying.

Too cold or too hot will also make the baby uncomfortable, and he will express it by crying. At this time, parents should touch the baby's abdomen with their hands. If the abdomen is cold, it means that the baby feels cold and needs to add clothes quickly. If the baby's face is red and irritable, it means that the baby is too hot, so we should take corresponding measures, such as bathing the baby with warm water.

The baby is crying and suffering, mostly due to indigestion, abdominal distension and other reasons. In the process of eating, the baby often swallows a lot of air, which is one of the reasons for his abdominal distension. This kind of crying often comes suddenly, the first sound is long and loud, followed by a long breath, and then a loud cry. At this time, parents should try to make their baby burp, and he will feel better. Burping is a common phenomenon, and you can help him in the following two ways: first, you can put the baby on your shoulder and pat him on the back; Secondly, you can put the baby on your knee, hold his head and pat him on the back. The baby stops crying when he is comfortable.

The baby cried because of his bad mood. Babies sometimes feel lonely and vent their emotions by crying. This kind of crying usually begins with silence, and is often led by several slow and long cries, which are low in voice and come from the throat. This is just to attract the attention of parents and let them pick him up. Parents should often play and communicate with their babies, sing and tell stories to him, and play with some plush toys to eliminate the crying caused by loneliness.

Babies groan before going to bed or just after waking up. At this time, the baby's crying is not too big, regular, lingering, and even a little uneasy. Older babies often rub their eyes and nose with their hands or stop crying, which is what people often say-doze off. If he is tired, let him do some slow or rhythmic exercise, or say something soothing to help him relax or let him sleep. If he wakes up, his parents should not hug him when he cries. They can pat him gently, hum him and comfort him, so that he will stop crying slowly.

Babies cry for love and communication. For the baby, material satisfaction is far from enough, but also spiritual nutrition is needed. The baby lies in bed all day, and the lack of warmth will also cause him to cry. At this time, parents should immediately put down their work and give their baby attention, kisses and caresses. They can pat him and hug him. Usually, the best way is to pick up the baby and put it on your left chest so that he can hear your heartbeat. You can also gently hum and touch your baby when bathing and oiling to give him spiritual satisfaction.

A crying baby sometimes makes people feel distressed and sometimes upset, which often puzzles parents. I can't wait for the baby to tell me what he is crying about.

hungry

Eating enough and wearing warm clothes is the most basic physiological need of people, and babies are no exception. Especially after more than 2 or 3 hours from the last feeding, the baby will gradually feel hungry and then try to let you know. Listen carefully, then his crying will be stronger and more rhythmic.

uncomfortable

There are many kinds of discomfort, such as wet diapers, too hot or too cold, and sometimes sweaty clothes are wrapped too tightly. At this time, his crying will be urgent but deep, which seems to have a slight impact. However, if you ignore him, the baby will also cry loudly.

ache

Babies are most afraid of physical discomfort. Sometimes it is difficult to breathe, sometimes a cold, fever or gastrointestinal discomfort will make your baby feel pain, itching and nausea. However, he has no ability to resist and treat himself. It is strange that the baby will cry for a long time, especially after eating a full meal or before going to bed, crying for dozens of minutes, sometimes breathing is not smooth, and even feeling that he can't cry. At this time, we should take him to check quickly.

be frightened of the dark

Many studies have pointed out that when people are in darkness and loneliness, their brains will send out messages, which will make people feel scared and worried, and instinctively want to seek support, especially for newborn babies. The baby will cry because of this, to test whether mom and dad are around and whether they are taken care of. At this time, your reaction is very important, even if you just whine, sing and make trouble, you can appease your baby.

Don't like this feeling.

Most experts say to give the baby enough, so many parents start to give it very hard. But don't forget, the baby also has the right to sayno. When the outside world is excessive, it becomes an unpleasant experience for the baby, such as strong smell, unaccustomed taste, holding too hard, pulling hands and feet too hard, touching too often, and the baby will. At this time, the baby's crying is gradual, and then turning his head, there will be a very wronged expression.

I want to change my position.

Sitting in the same position for too long, we all want to turn around and stretch. Babies need it, too However, he couldn't move himself, so he cried to remind his parents that I had lied for a long time. This kind of crying won't be too loud and won't last long. Just hum a voice. You can shake the baby a little, change his posture, calm him down and look at you with satisfaction again.

breathe

Babies can't skillfully use their own respiratory tract, and sometimes the coordination of mouth and nose is not so coordinated. Some babies will relax themselves and readjust their breathing by crying. That is, we will take a big breath on weekdays.

Crying is the language that babies communicate with the outside world. He may ask you for help, express it, or relieve his discomfort. Moreover, different babies will cry differently. Parents can tell the baby's crying, so it's easy to find an appropriate way to deal with it. In other words, you need to listen carefully and understand how the baby cries, and then you will know what the baby is crying about!

Some children are particularly fond of crying, and they are sensitive and easily excited, even crying at the slightest thing. Why?

This situation is a headache, especially for boys. Research shows that boys and girls cry in the same way before 12 years old. /kloc-After 0/2 years old, girls cry easily, which is related to puberty hormones. People often think that boys cry too ugly.

For babies, crying is one of social ways, because their language expression is not very clear, and they often express their frustration and emotions through crying. With the increase of children's vocabulary, the number of crying will gradually decrease. In fact, some children often cry because of their parents. They often overreact to children's physical injuries or emotional changes. For example, if their children sometimes scratch their skin, their parents will say sadly, "Oh, poor baby, why are you hurt again?" This attitude of parents will make children feel excessively wronged.

And a sensitive child. Sensitivity, like aggression, shyness and gregarious, is an innate characteristic of children. Usually sensitive children, like shy children, have weak adaptability to the new environment, need a long time to adapt to changes, and are also sensitive to sound, light and touch.

Some children can adapt and feel indifferent, while sensitive children feel serious. If you poke the skin of your knee a little, he will cry sensitively. If you snatch a toy from a sensitive child, he won't try to get it back at once, but he will fall to the ground and cry. Although a sensitive child cries easily, he is not an unhappy child. Highly sensitive children not only cry easily, but also laugh easily. Such children may be more sensitive to the feelings of others or animals and have more keen observation. We can care about him in many ways and help him grow.

Crying is not necessarily a bad thing. Children can feel relaxed after crying, and crying can relieve stress. Some scholars have found that people who cry are physically and psychologically healthier than those who don't cry, so don't over-restrain children from crying. Parents should-

(1) shows sympathy for children's sensitivity. Sensitive children have stronger pain threshold than other children. It is immoral and unfriendly not to allow children to cry. In order to make sensitive children cry less and shed less tears, we should encourage him to be a strong person, guide him to refrain from crying, and have understanding and sympathy for him, which can reduce his sense of loneliness and vulnerability.

(2) Cultivate children's self-esteem. Children who lack self-esteem are prone to cry, so improve their self-confidence and self-esteem, so that they can be good at self-cognition and have a sense of accomplishment. You shouldn't expect too much of your child and ask him to do things beyond his ability.

(3) Don't strengthen his crying. If he cries, he can't give praise, can't give privileges or cancel the rules, and can be exempted from punishment because he cries. Parents should take a neutral attitude towards their children's crying, so that children can be distracted and stop crying. You can give some comfort, but you can't give too much sympathy, otherwise you will cry even harder. A hug from his mother will cheer him up.

(4) Teach children to express their pain clearly and explain why they are crying. At this time, my mother can give some comfort and reduce the chance of crying.

(5) Because such children are particularly sensitive, they are easily influenced by adults' anxiety, tension, anger, depression and other emotions. Therefore, adults should relax and control their emotions without affecting their children. If the emotion has been revealed, it is best to give the child a simple explanation immediately, so as to prevent the child from constantly guessing and aggravating sensitivity. But don't bring emotions to children. There is no need to bear the emotions of parents.

(6) Less criticism and more praise for children, such as "It's amazing that you took off your vest yourself" and "Let's look at the puppy on the clothes, it would be better if it was transferred to the front". Children don't do what adults want to do, but as long as he tries his best, don't criticize him. If a child proudly tells his parents, "I washed my hands myself", parents should not rush to accuse him of "splashing water everywhere", but should encourage him to wash his hands first and then help him wipe the water off.

(7) For sensitive children, adults will react with glaring and disappointed expressions. Therefore, adults should have control and don't yell at children. It may be more effective to be gentle and humorous to children. However, when sensitive children do something wrong, don't stop criticizing because they are afraid of crying, but clearly explain where they are wrong. Neither reprimand nor principle.

(8) Don't label your child as sensitive and crying, otherwise it will be difficult to remove this label in the future. If you want to tell your teacher or nanny about your child's sensitivity, don't tell people that your child is "crying like a wolf" in front of him.

For new parents, the biggest fear is probably that the child is crying, the baby can't talk, and the parents are puzzled. Parents should master the law of children crying, and crying is one of the ways for children and parents to express their wishes.

Need caress. Sometimes children cry, but they don't cry when they hold them up. This is because he feels lonely and he needs his mother's caress. When he was fucking, he was always caressed by amniotic fluid and walls. When he first came to this world, he lay alone in his cot, and sometimes he felt scared. He felt comforted by holding him in his arms and touching the person he loved. At this time, the mother can hold the child on her chest, let him hear her heartbeat, and he will slowly calm down.

He is hungry. Hunger is the main reason why babies cry. When they are full, they stop crying. Sometimes children just take a few bites and stop cooking, and cry hard when they are not full. Children should be fed when they are hungry. Don't feed them on time, and don't use the timetable dogmatically. Newborns, in particular, should be breastfed in two or three hours.

Cold or hot. Baby's room should not be too cold or too hot, and children should not cover too many quilts. It was very cold indoors, and the child cried to see if his temperature had changed.

I have to pee. When a child is wet or defecates, he will cry hard, and his mother will change his diaper, otherwise he will feel uncomfortable.

Take off your clothes. Children don't like to take off their clothes, which makes them nervous. So mothers try to undress and change clothes as quickly as possible. Take off your clothes and talk to the child to distract him.

Tired. The baby sleeps for a long time and sleeps after eating. Adults should not tease and disturb him all the time. He cries when he is tired and bored.

Afraid. Children will cry when they suddenly feel unsafe by light, sound and objects. At this time, you should pick up the child and comfort him.

Pain. Pain makes children cry. Mother should hold the child tightly, find out the cause of the pain and take him to see it if necessary.

Gross. The child doesn't feel well, except crying and doesn't like eating. Don't be indifferent to the baby's illness. Take him as soon as possible.

The biggest headache for novice parents is the baby's crying-a minute ago, the quiet and clever little angel suddenly turned against her, crying and making trouble, which made it useless for parents to coax ... At this time, parents will inevitably get angry no matter how patient they are, and they don't know how to end it.

Usually, if the baby doesn't stop crying, parents should first see if the baby is hungry, tired, too cold, too hot or wet, and feel uncomfortable. If these reasons are not, then novice parents should not be helpless. The following 10 coup is to teach you how to deal with a crying baby.

1, click

Wrap the baby in the quilt and pat him or her on the back gently and rhythmically. The rhythm should be consistent with your heartbeat.

Step 2 take a walk

Let the baby sit or lie comfortably in the car and push him or her out for a walk.

show tender care for

Let the baby lie on your lap and gently touch his/her back or pat his/her feet.

Step 4 take a bath

Taking a comfortable hot bath with your baby is also very effective. You can add a few drops of lavender essential oil to the bathtub.

5、

After taking a bath, gently give it to the baby, and you can apply some special oil to the baby. If there is no oil, sesame oil (sesame oil) is also very effective, which can improve the baby's blood circulation and improve sleep.

Step 6 hug

Walking back and forth with the baby in their arms, the little guys like this kind of physical contact with adults.

7. Music

You can also try to put some music on your baby to adjust the atmosphere, preferably a lullaby or sing it to him or her yourself.

8. Go for a ride

Take the baby for a ride, but be sure to pay attention to the safety of the baby and put him in the car safety chair to avoid accidents.

9. Replace

If all the above methods fail, you can find someone to look after the baby for a while first, so that you can catch your breath and have a rest. But don't go too far, don't leave the baby's sight, lest the baby panic.

10, seeing a doctor

If you try your best, the baby is still ungrateful. Keep crying. Maybe the baby is ill. You'd better take the baby to work.