The old man said, "You can't bend your bow with your mouth closed, but you can bend your cheeks without meat." What is the truth behind it?

There is a saying that makes sense. It's called: You can't judge a book by its cover, but the sea can't be measured.

I believe everyone is familiar with this sentence, and many people know the meaning of this sentence, but sometimes we bypass this sentence to measure a person. In real life, appearance is very important.

People will start with looks at first sight, which will leave a certain impression on others.

In ancient society, what people value most is a person's face, and people always start from this face. Do you think this is correct?

Common sayings are the most common language in our lives. Why are proverbs still in use today? Because proverbs are life experiences summed up by people who have experienced them, they are not only very useful for things in life, but also suitable for use in various places to simply summarize complex things for later use.

We can't just collect the superficial meaning of proverbs. In fact, if we deeply interpret proverbs, you will find that the truth is far beyond your imagination.

First, shut your mouth and pull your bow.

You can see from this sentence that you can't make friends. Failure to make friends means that this person can't play well with him or can't make friends with him. Why? According to the old saying, can you know who can make friends and who can't? A closed bow means that a person closes his mouth and the line bends like an inverted bow.

That is, the bitter gourd face mentioned in our daily life.

In reality, we can often see such people. Generally, such people will not deal with and communicate with others. No matter how you provoke him, he won't react.

It means that if you can't blend in with the crowd, you will often feel lonely.

Although a person's appearance is very important, if the appearance is so ugly, then this person's heart must be equally sour.

No matter how much this person knows how to be a man, it is useless. People don't like to see an ugly face. They are depressed and keep a straight face every day.

They tend to write their emotions on their faces. After a long time, casual people will slowly leave. After all, such people have no fun at all.

Keeping this state for a long time is bad for yourself and others, and others are unwilling to get close to you, which is also a blow to your heart and a deep injury.

Therefore, we should learn to control our expressions and not always put on a bitter gourd face, which also has certain restrictions on our social interaction.

Second, there is no meat on the cheeks, bend over.

Besides this proverb, there is no meat in both cheeks, bend over. Maybe you don't understand. Cheeks refer to the flesh on our faces. Looking at a person's exterior will inevitably look at this person's face. People with small faces and no sensuality will think they are bad people.

Why do you say that? In fact, in ancient times, people agreed that bad people had bad looks, while good people were more refined and had better facial features, which left us with a difficult problem.

A person's looks are given by his parents. How to judge a person can't just draw conclusions from his appearance, which is too hasty and unfair to people and will bring him great mistakes and troubles.

It is inevitable that a person has no meat on his face because of poor living conditions and insufficient food, especially in ancient times.

What about the big bend? Everyone has seen a snake. It is S-shaped, and a woman's figure is also expressed by going forward and backward. Just like this snake, it will keep twisting when walking.

Many women like to wriggle when they walk. Some people are born perfect, but others just want to attract men's attention.

In ancient times, such people would be laughed at by others. Ancient women generally didn't go out at will, and they were good at everything. If they learn some crooked ways and walk badly, they won't get married, which still has a great image for them.

Summary:

Appearance is very important, and it is not necessarily bad for some ugly people, because everyone has a good side, and we should be good at finding it.

Nowadays, people are more open-minded, and for some careful people, they will twist when walking. We shouldn't deliberately laugh at such people.

Proverbs are proverbs after all, and should be judged in combination with reality.

Your own destiny is in your own hands, don't give up on yourself because of a word from others. It is very unworthy to do so. We want to look like a live broadcast.