Women are made of concrete. Tell me.

I thought women were made of water, but I didn't expect women who became mothers to be made of reinforced concrete, which really realized that sentence, motherhood is just right!

I think being a mother is the coolest thing a girl has ever done #

Light and shadow glass, romantic and beautiful, the joy of pregnancy, deserves the greatest commemorative ceremony! The baby came quietly, and I have a special liking since then, and I also have armor. But I was tortured by life and was black and blue!

Yes, I am the one who gave everything for my life and my children. As this question says, I have children and wronged myself. I am different from other precious mothers. I have three babies, three gold-swallowing beasts, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and milk powder diapers, which make our life unbearable. My husband makes money to support his family, and I can only wronged myself step by step to provide a better life for my baby.

When I was young: It was the most relaxing time. I take my baby to the playground and go shopping every day. In addition to playing, I also bought it at buy buy, and (in this case, I mean some small things) I also participated in girlfriends' parties. [Smiles]

When two babies were born, they were similar to other people's second-child families. The two babies play together and buy them in buy buy. Obviously, the frequency is not so high, but the two little sisters are still very harmonious. Attend girlfriends' parties occasionally. [pitiful]

When I was three babies, I almost bid farewell to the buy buy model in Buy Buy. First, no one takes care of my children. Second, my wallet is overwhelmed. All those idle chicken ribs have disappeared in my life, only milk powder is necessary to make you diaper, and I don't attend girlfriends parties at all. And I haven't bought clothes for several months, and the consumption of skin care products is too low [sobbing].

Personally, I think Ma Ma's life has fallen to a low point, and the living standards of the three babies have been seriously reduced [sobbing], but I don't regret it. I have two daughters and a son.

To sum up, I hope everyone is happy. Happiness lies in contentment, and life will get better and better!

Of course, having children is child-oriented, and I am willing to suffer more grievances for my children. This is the essence of maternal love. Tell me about the grievances I have suffered.

1, pregnant

During my pregnancy, I had a serious pregnancy reaction. I throw up as soon as I eat until my bile runs out. I went to the hospital to see a doctor. The doctor said there was no good way, but I had to eat less and eat more. Maybe I will get better in the future. But it didn't get better. I feel queasy after eating a few mouthfuls, which may also be related to my stomach trouble. As a result, my stomach is smaller than that of other pregnant women. My husband said that I should eat even if I throw up, otherwise the child will be in trouble if it is stunted, so I try to eat and throw up before pregnancy. I am not hot or unhappy. After pregnancy, I am afraid that my baby will be angry. My husband forbids me to eat spicy food. Not only that, snacks such as instant noodles have also been blacklisted, and I can only eat light food. I was so wronged that I almost cried. Later, I only gained 10 Jin, and my husband complained that I didn't eat. I ate bitter, but I vomited. what can I do? Fortunately, the baby weighed 6 kg when he was born, otherwise I would be scolded by my husband and mother-in-law. Being a woman is not easy.

2, postpartum

My mother-in-law blamed me for not giving milk after giving birth. She said: "You see, the girl in your ward came to milk the next day, and the children couldn't finish it. You didn't drink any milk, and the child was starving. " When the milk came, she began to criticize again: "You are a thin milk, even if you have no nutrition, you don't raise a baby." Look at the milk next door. " In order to let the baby drink high-quality breast milk, I desperately eat 10 eggs a day until I vomit, forcing myself into a cow. Uncontrolled diet brings more and more bloated figure and husband's disgusting eyes. He complained all day: "Why are others getting thinner after giving birth, but you are getting fatter?" It is wrong to eat too much, and it is even more wrong not to eat. Everything seems to be wrong. It requires babies to have enough food and not be deformed. When you are a woman, you are a robot.

Step 3 work

With children, I have more responsibilities, and the burden of raising children is suddenly overwhelmed. In order to provide a better life for my children, I resolutely left my baby for more than six months and left my hometown to work in Shenzhen. Every time I see the baby's photo, I can't help but shed tears of missing.

Women are weak, but mothers are strong. Every mother is the incarnation of an angel and deserves our respect.

If you have a responsibility, you have to pay.

A colleague, married and divorced in his twenties, is 50 years old, unmarried and has a child. This is a kind of life.

Having a daughter, working and taking care of it is also a kind of life. Of course, if you want your children to grow up healthily and happily, you must spend a lot of time with them, because Ma Bao thinks that children need company, which is also a kind of life.

Give birth to one or two or even three precious mothers brought up by their mother-in-law, and you can play games at will. There are also such happy women, but there are also such women around me, both children have them, but neither of them has slept with Bao Ma. This precious mother doesn't have to worry about having many children, because her grandmother used to be a doctor, but her family is still restless and her daughter-in-law is often drunk.

In a word, attitude towards life is very important. How to make mom happy? Don't envy or complain, because the mother is happy and the child will be happy [Come on].

I have no children, and I can't imagine what the future will be like. Husband and sister-in-law quarreled. She cried very sadly and told me that she missed her children every day and finally stayed with her brother for the sake of them. I guess I will bear it for my children, too, because I have a kitten and I can't stand it being wronged. If I go back to my hometown for a few days, I will miss it!

Will you be wronged by a woman who has given birth to a child? This problem is all in a certain scene, but the grievances must be limited. When you get married together, whether you are happy or not, you will definitely think about your children, because you don't know what will happen to your other half in the future, what will happen to your family relationship, and whether it will be out of step with this. The key is whether you will be good to your children. I have also seen many abuses, harshness and even beatings of children. Maybe this phenomenon is not much, but it must exist! Then the child is not too pitiful! I believe that under the association of this scene, many treasure mothers must be trying to change and compromise in order to give their children a complete home! But only if he is a good father.

Many times, if the other person is a very strong person, then the girl in life is doomed to be a wronged person, because she definitely wants family harmony and happiness! Bear everything by yourself and swallow all the grievances by yourself! So such a woman is great, but it also makes people feel very distressed!

Women are weak, but mothers are strong. I believe that most women are like this, but there are also differences. Some only consider themselves, not their children.

This is not to say that I wronged myself. I can only say that maternal love is great. Every time I eat, I always feed the baby first. I must have eaten and drunk myself before eating. Now he feels that he has no appetite without eating. My mother always urges me to eat. She breastfeeds the baby. Therefore, parents will always love him the most.

How come? The mother has no regrets about her child's contribution, and strangely, she is still enjoying this grievance and contribution. In order to give birth to a baby and gain 60 pounds, I can't bear to look directly at the stretch marks on my body, even on my calf, but now I think these stretch marks are the most beautiful things in the world and my implicit love for children.

I think not only women will be wronged for their children, but also men. Children are a godsend. How many people have been married for several years without one, and some have miscarried. It is not easy to be a mother, nor is it easy to have children. It's not easy for a father to earn money to support his family and worry about his wife and children getting pregnant. It is not easy to be scared after birth.

I can't say that every woman can only represent the mentality of a large part of women in China. After marriage, as long as women have the happiness of children, most of them will choose to bear it. However, there is a limit to forbearance. Everyone has their own bottom line. Compared with the old society, women have the ability to survive even if they work. Choosing forbearance is to give children a complete home and a complete love. Even if they are too forbearing each other, they will choose to leave smartly. But some women choose to divorce and take care of their children. This is the mother's nature, right?