Problems, I'm used to them.

I made an appointment with Watermelon to go shopping on Sunday, but I was dragged directly to McDonald's and ordered a coke with ice. I became the object of her talk.

Watermelon complained to me about her boyfriend's bad behavior and her disappointment with him.

Watermelon said angrily, "He is playing games except eating now. He hasn't even left home, and he hasn't found a job. It's been almost a month. I am the one who bears the lives of both of us. He didn't eat until I got home. After I finished eating, he didn't even help me get the bowl to the kitchen, and I had to collect it myself. " Shower told me to take clothes; Wearing shoes requires me to hold socks; Even brushing his teeth requires me to help him squeeze toothpaste. "

Not surprisingly, I said, "All his questions are not habitual."

Watermelon and her boyfriend Xiaoshuai began to fall in love in college. They love each other to death, but watermelon loves Xiao Shuai more.

Later, after graduating from college, watermelon and Xiaoshuai worked together.

At first, Xiao Shuai will buy his own medicine when he is sick. Watermelon is hungry, and he will cook noodles for it. Watermelon has reached his period, and he won't let it touch cold water. He can wash clothes and do housework by himself.

But the watermelon said, "It will be embarrassing for a big man to wash clothes for others." Watermelon doesn't matter if I return it. My aunt caught it and washed it herself.

Seeing Xiao Shuai cooking watermelon, he said, "The kitchen is not the place for men." Roll up your sleeves and do it three or five times.

Handsome just sneezed with a runny nose. Watermelon exclaimed, "Why did you catch a cold? Stay at home instead of going to work. When the wind blows, it gets worse. I'll buy you medicine. " When you come back from buying medicine, bring all the medicine, put it in Xiao Shuai's hand and pour boiling water into Xiao Shuai's hand.

Xiao Shuai is playing a game. Watermelon is doing PPT. Handsome said I was hungry. Watermelon said nothing. He left work and went into the kitchen. Soon Xiao Shuai will be able to play games and eat hot rice made of watermelon.

Xiao Shuai criticized the leader in the unit, and he was depressed and returned home in a bad mood. Watermelon saw it and said sadly, "Then let's quit this job and find a better one."

In this way, Xiao Shuai resigned and couldn't find a suitable one. He just plays games at home every day, waits for watermelon to get off work, cooks for him, washes clothes and does housework.

If people don't have to pay for their lack of progress and idleness, will they still have concerns and worries? No, because someone will pay for his irresponsibility, and he doesn't have to worry at all.

Is Xiao Shuai worried that he can't get over a cold without buying medicine?

Of course not. Watermelon put medicine and boiled water in his hand.

Are you afraid of being hungry if you don't cook?

Of course not. As long as you shout hungry, watermelon will make delicious meals.

Does Xiao Shuai worry about not having clean clothes to change clothes if he doesn't wash clothes?

Of course not, because as long as he takes a shower, his clothes will be clean and tidy for him to wear.

Handsome doesn't have to work. Will he worry about not having a job source?

Of course not, because he knows watermelon will support him.

Later it developed. Xiaoshuai quit his job and plays games at home every day. He didn't do any housework. Watermelon raised Xiao Shuai like a mother raised a disappointing son.

Sometimes it's not that some people are born with no progress, do nothing, don't understand life, regardless of good or bad, but that some people are willing to indulge their thoughts and behaviors and pay the price for it.

They won't pay any price for their irresponsible attitude towards life, so they get used to it.

These bad habits of Xiaoshuai are all used by watermelons. Am I wrong?

The second aunt and the second uncle have been married for more than 20 years, and the children are all in college. However, since she entered my second uncle's house, she hasn't cooked once and washed clothes once, and she doesn't know that her fields are all there, so she can't tell the difference between oil, salt, sauce and vinegar.

The only thing my second aunt is familiar with is the mahjong hall in the east of the village. She knows that the paint on the table in the mahjong room has fallen off, that the stool hurts when sitting on it, that the owner of the mahjong room is making 8 yuan a catty of jasmine tea or 35 kilograms of Tieguanyin today, that Mrs. Li, who is playing mahjong with her, has lost her front teeth, that Mrs. Wang has a cold injection and won't play mahjong, and that Uncle Li's cow has a head.

Because she has been married for so many years, she has never been in the kitchen, and all the meals are cooked by her mother-in-law; She doesn't know who the child's head teacher is. She has never been to the children's school. She doesn't know where the detergent is. Her second uncle washed all the dishes after work. She has never been to the ground or worked, and Uncle works in the field alone. She plays mahjong every day, rain or shine. It's true that her fingers don't touch water. She only has mahjong friends in her heart.

When I came home for the Spring Festival last year, I asked my second uncle, "Are you angry that my second aunt has been doing nothing for so many years, and has no children, only playing mahjong?" Do you hate her? "

My second uncle took a sip of tea, took a deep look with a smile and played mahjong around her relatives. She smiled brightly and was as excited as a child. The second uncle said, "It's good that she is happy."

Later, my second uncle told me that his leg was injured once and it was diagnosed as a comminuted fracture. The doctor said that he must be hospitalized. During my second uncle's half a month in hospital, my second aunt stayed in the hospital every day, delivering water and meals, because I couldn't get out of bed. My second uncle is in charge of defecation in bed, and she does her best.

And my second uncle also has scapulohumeral periarthritis. For this reason, my second aunt went to an old Chinese doctor to learn massage. I will massage my second uncle for an hour every morning and evening. Whenever this time, the second uncle is as headstrong as a child, clamoring for pain and unwilling to massage, and the second uncle will coax her like a child.

My second aunt loves my second uncle, too. In fact, she doesn't like to do anything except trivial things in life, and she is still measured in other things.

From my uncle's words "as long as she is happy", I feel my uncle's childlike love for my second aunt.

My second uncle is used to my second aunt. My second uncle is used to these "bad" questions, but my second uncle is willing.

My second uncle loves my second aunt, so he is willing to spoil her and pay the price for all the bad habits he has developed for her.

When a person is willing to spoil you, give you a bad habit, tolerate your bad habit, and be willing to pay the price for it, that is, he really loves you.

We will meet many people in our life, but there is only one person who is willing to spoil you, so cherish and be kind to the person who is willing to spoil your problems.

On Sunday, when I went to the children's toy section of the supermarket to choose toys for my nephew, I saw a young couple with a three-year-old boy. The boy pointed to a red remote-controlled car and said, "I want this, Dad."

The little boy's father said, "I already have a blue one at home, so I can't buy it any more." Mom and dad are tired of making money and can't waste it. "

The little boy looked at his mother again and said in a pleading tone, "Mom, I want a red remote control car, okay?"

Mother said sternly, "didn't you hear what your father said?" Can't waste. "The little boy nodded puzzled, reluctantly looked at the red remote control car and walked behind his parents step by step.

I feel that young parents have a tacit understanding and know how to restrain and reason with their children. I won't get used to children's temper. Such a child will understand everything in the future.

In the Barbie exclusive area next door, a little girl was lying on the ground, crying hysterically. It turned out that the little girl wanted a Barbie doll with yellow hair, but her mother refused to buy it for you, saying that there were already several at home and the little girl didn't want to roll on the ground. The little girl's father saw it and said, "The baby will get up soon. Dad will buy it for you."

As soon as the little girl heard this, she stopped crying. She immediately got up from the ground and ran to her father's side. She hugged her father's neck and said, "My father loves me, and my mother is good or bad."

I don't approve of parents doting on their children so much.

You don't give the child anything, as long as she cries, you give it. At this time, a conditioned reflex will be formed. If I don't want it, just lie on the ground and cry, and I will get it.

It is difficult for such children to adapt to society when they grow up. At home, your parents spoil you. Who will spoil your bad habits outside the society?

The person who loves you is willing to spoil your shortcomings, and the person you love is willing to spoil his shortcomings.

I hope you can find the person who is used to your problems and cherish him.