A few exchanges and dialogues will teach excellent children.

Grow up with children and children every day.

There are no "bear" children who can't teach well, only "poor" parents who can't communicate.

7 communication and dialogue teach excellent children.

1, when the child doesn't want to sleep

Let's put it this way: it's 10 minutes before bed. Do you want to wash or tell a story first?

Never say: don't go back to your room, it's so late, stop playing. Hurry up! I've told you several times!

Children's voice: Mom and Dad, maybe I want to watch TV, maybe I want to do something interesting. As long as you ask me when to sleep and let me sleep with you, I will set my biological clock, and I will gradually form the habit of sleeping on time. When you "say that" to me, I will choose what I like to do and then go to bed naturally.

2. When a child is loitering.

Let's put it this way: there are five minutes left. Do you want to get dressed now or take your clothes?

Never say: Are you still fooling around there? We're going to be late, you hear me?

Children's voice: Mom and Dad, I didn't realize I was grinding, especially when playing with my favorite toys. I have no concept of time. If you talk it over with me, I will make a choice according to your urging.

3. When the child says "No"

Say this: You can say "no", but I need to know the reason why you said "no" so that I can understand you.

Never say that: What do children know? Why are you so plastic? I am very kind to you.

Child's voice: Mom and Dad, when I say "no", I am trying to be independent and trying to prove that I am growing up. Maybe I just can't teach you. Maybe, when you communicate with me well, I can learn how to express my true thoughts bravely without being afraid of others.

4. When children don't want to talk to us.

Let's put it this way: Mom feels that you have something on your mind today. Can I help you? Talk to mom and you'll feel better.

Never say: I'm talking to you! What's the matter? How can you ignore people?

Child's voice: Actually, mother Cang, there is nothing in my heart. Sometimes I want to be alone. Perhaps, I am thinking about the secret in my heart. Maybe, I'm thinking about what I think is important. When you ask me, I realize that you care about me, so I may tell you what I think.

5. When a child accidentally breaks something.

Just say: Never mind, with this experience, it won't be bad in the future. Everyone makes mistakes, so do I. Let's try to correct it.

Never say, you child, you ruined such an expensive thing. Can I buy it for you next time?

Children's voices: Mom and Dad, when I broke something, I was very nervous and scared. When you comfort me, I will feel that you really understand me, and I will pay attention to it later.

6. When children don't let others play with toys.

Let's put it this way: Think about it. Do you want to play for 5 minutes and then give him 10 minutes, or give him 5 minutes and then you play for 10 minutes, or give him another toy to play with?

Never say that: you should learn to share. Let him play for a while.

Children's voice: Mom and Dad, I like my toys very much, and I really don't want others to play with them. I'm afraid he broke it. When you ask my opinion, I may let him play and give him another chance.

7. When children cry to achieve their goals.

Say this: don't cry, let's see what to do together. Be quiet. What do you want to say to me?

Never say that: cry, cry, and you will know that crying is useful. How can I have a child like you?

Child's voice: Mom and Dad, crying is a useful tool for me. I have succeeded before, and I want what I want. So, I will try your reaction by crying: maybe crying is my instinctive expression, and I haven't learned how to talk to adults yet. You must be patient with me.