Daughter doesn't get married early. Tell me.

Tell me about your friends. Generally, friends who marry late think so:

1, you can play for a few more years, there is no pressure to get married, and no one cares how you want to play;

2. Boyfriends must get along for a long time before they can get married, otherwise it is not practical;

3, the marriage partner should be picked slowly, and you can't just find one;

4. No money and no room to get married? !

5, get married in advance, that's just tying yourself in a circle, how can you not be free ~

And those friends who get married early think:

1, get married and settle down early, and life will be very stable;

2, get married early and have children early. When children grow up, they are still young and have children early, so they can work hard;

3, parents are urging, even if they get married and have children, they have to complete the task;

4, don't fall in love for the purpose of marriage, they are all hooligans, and they have talked about the object and don't get married quickly. What are you waiting for?

5, find a good one and book it quickly, so as not to be robbed by others;

These are the thoughts of my friends around me. I think whether it's early marriage or late marriage, the most important thing is the right time, the right place and the right people. If you meet the right one, you will naturally get married. Early marriage and late marriage have their own advantages and disadvantages, mainly depending on what you think. Don't regret making a decision ~

In my opinion, since I choose to get married, if conditions permit, it is better to get married early, because if I get married, I can share happiness and take responsibility together. The purpose of marriage is to achieve the goal of living together. I will finish it early, so I won't have to work so hard in my old age.

Nowadays, there are more and more young people who marry late and have children late. The legal age for marriage in the south is 22, and that for women is 20. In fact, we think it means getting married very early. There are many advantages to getting married late, and there are also many advantages to getting married early, mainly for young people aged 20-25. Honey pomelo mother will analyze it for everyone one by one:

1, get married before starting a business.

This sentence left by our ancestors is definitely not empty talk. Only when you have a family and children can you know how to be grateful and responsible, shoulder the burden for your family, children and parents, work hard for them, and be smooth and comprehensive in dealing with people. Before getting married, I was more dependent on my parents and had no sense of responsibility. After marriage, people who get married in the workplace will be more entrusted by the leaders.

2. Meet parents' wishes.

Parents don't care how much their children work and earn, as long as they can get married and have grandchildren as soon as possible. This is their greatest wish, and they can also enjoy family happiness. After all, it is "great without a future". With grandchildren, they will feel at ease, can help their children look after their children and work hard outside without any worries.

3. Children's growth.

When a child grows up, having a young and energetic parent will be of great benefit to the child's mental development, and which child likes his 40-to 50-year-old mother to meet him at the kindergarten gate? I hope my parents are young and energetic. When they are not old, children can grow up and be independent. If they are old and their children are young, it is also an invisible pressure for them.

1 can make both men and women mature as soon as possible.

It is often said that only married people are real adults, and this sentence is very reasonable. Before marriage, men and women have little pressure, live freely, do things without considering the consequences and have no responsibility. Nature is immature.

2. Social conflicts can be avoided.

At present, violence, rape and other incidents often occur in society, and a large part of them are committed by unmarried men and women. Because there is no family constraint, parents can't control it when they are old, so many gangs, fights and even straying into informal organizations are naturally a threat to social stability, and rape is a major cancer of society. Most of these are committed by unmarried people who have hatred and dissatisfaction with society.

3. Be able to appease the concerns of the previous generation of parents as soon as possible.

After all, if their children are unmarried at marriageable age, they are the parents who are most worried. In order to let them settle down and live, let's get married early without marriage. This is also filial piety.