What do you mean by straight male cancer? What do girls mean by saying I'm straight?

I don't know when "straight man" changed from a heterosexual who is different from homosexuality to a derogatory term for girls who can't talk and are disliked, especially those boys with "straight man cancer" who are anathema to girls, so what does it mean for girls to call me straight? Let's follow me to find the answer. By the way, I'll teach you some chatting skills with girls and how to deal with girls with high emotional intelligence. 1. What do girls mean when they say I'm straight?

Straight thinking, speaking too bluntly

Straight men's way of thinking is rational, paying special attention to results and practicality, so their demands for material things are relatively low. All material requirements are mainly practical and comfortable, lacking aesthetics, and girls are required to be obedient and beautiful, and even think that girls are used to carry on the family line. This way of thinking makes straight men speak and do things directly and will not beat around the bush. I like to use problem-solving thinking. For example, if a girl is sick and uncomfortable, straight men will let her take medicine to see a doctor, ignoring her emotions and feelings, and she will be disgusted and hated by her.

poor aesthetic ability and low taste

plaid shirts, shoulder bags, thick glasses, old coats of unknown styles, untidiness and house are all associated with straight men, and straight men are backward and old-fashioned because they don't socialize, have too many interests and hobbies and can't dress themselves up, regardless of their aesthetic ability or dress taste, and are rejected by girls.

Love thinking is old

Many straight men are easily influenced by some mistakes or old love ideas on the Internet because of their lack of love experience. They think that girls like handsome and rich men, habitually pursue girls in a flattering way, care about girls in every possible way, and like to reason with girls, or have no brains to show their love, lacking interaction with girls, and finally become girls' licking dogs and spare tires.

I don't understand amorous feelings and girls' minds

When chatting with girls, straight men can only understand the literal meaning of girls, but ignore the subtext behind the girls' words. For example, when girls say that they are bored, they will reply to girls with problem-solving thinking and recommend movies to help girls alleviate their boredom, but they don't know that girls want to chat with her, leaving girls with a feeling of incomprehension.

Male chauvinism, ignoring girls' feelings

Many straight men, influenced by traditional ideas since childhood, have a sense of possessiveness and arrogance towards girls. They think that when girls are with themselves, they have to listen to themselves and make their own decisions. When girls don't agree with their wishes, they are in a hurry to explain and defend them, and even get angry with girls, self-centered, completely ignoring girls' feelings, and are labeled as "straight men" by girls. Second, is it good or bad to be called straight by girls?

When we are called straight men by girls, many people are concerned that this shadow will not affect our communication with girls. In fact, being called straight men by girls has two sides. The good side is that girls think you are still alive, or they are interested in you. Maybe some of your behaviors and language are too straightforward and your emotional intelligence is low, which is a reminder to you, while the bad side shows that girls are beginning to show dissatisfaction with you. If you don't notice and.

Also, if a girl says you have "straight male cancer", it means that the girl is extremely disappointed with you, and your words and even actions make the girl feel bored or even disgusted, which is a kind of degradation to you. Third, how to deal with being called straight by girls?

Admit generously and make changes

When a girl says that she is straight, it means that she really has some shortcomings and left a bad impression on the girl. At this time, if you are in a hurry to prove yourself, you will only be straight, and you will appear to be small, which will make the girl feel that your emotional intelligence is low.

The correct way is to generously admit my identity as a straight man and tell girls, "I am really a straight man with low emotional intelligence, so I will pay more attention in the future.".

Be bold, humorous and self-deprecating

Being called a straight man by a girl can actually be regarded as a harmless thing, and being bold in humor and self-deprecating can better show your generosity and manly charm, so that girls can make a difference to you because of your optimistic attitude and tell them, "Yes, I am really a straight man, or a big straight man. What is a straight man? Can I eat it?"