What to say when inviting a girl to dinner?

People tend not to cherish things that are easily obtained. Instead, they cherish things that can only be obtained after hard work. In the process of picking up girls, many boys will fall into the same misunderstanding and actively provide value to girls, such as inviting girls to dinner or watching movies and participating in various entertainment activities, etc., instead of using reverse thinking and asking girls to treat you. Have a meal or treat you to a movie. The editor below will teach you how to guide girls to invest, find a balance in the relationship, and slowly get used to letting girls pay for you.

In the invitation process, try to ask the girl to treat you to dinner, a movie or a drink.

Routine 1:

Boy: "Why don't you treat me to dinner tomorrow?"

Girl: "Why?" (Waste test)

Boy: "There is no reason. What's the problem? You can't be so stingy, right?" (Tips for chasing girls: Ignore the girl's rubbish test, then ask the girl back in the rubbish test, and then give her a "generous" framework, Most girls are not willing to admit that they are a stingy person, because girls are most afraid of being called stingy)

Girl: "I am not that stingy anymore. Please just treat me."

Boy: "Are you just going to talk casually, or are you really serious about asking?" (push-pull method, based on the principle of consistency to get girls to accept your ladder of obedience)

Girl: "Of course It’s true, it’s not a big deal.”

Boy: “Time and place”

Girl: “So-and-so gourmet restaurant”

Boy: “Okay. See you then."

Routine 2:

Boy: "Why don't you treat me to dinner tomorrow?"

Girl: "Okay, no problem."

Boy: "Are you just talking casually, or do you really mean it?" (Push-pull method, based on the principle of consistency to get girls to accept your ladder of obedience)

Girl: " It’s not a big deal to treat you to dinner, okay.”

Boy: “Time and place” (further details to make things more specific and real)

Girl: “ A certain gourmet restaurant."

Boy: "Okay, see you then."

Many times girls will be willing to treat you to a meal. However, many times a woman's words cannot be trusted. Even if she agrees to treat you to dinner, she cannot take her seriously because the next interaction has no connection with this one. Dating skills remind you that you need to change your traditional values. You can no longer focus on investment. You should change from "paid is king" to "free is king."