The child was bullied by his classmates at school. What should we do?

This has happened to my children. At first, he was anxious. Later he tried some methods, which were not bad. The arrangement is as follows:

First of all, equality and peace-talk more about school life with children.

Develop the habit of chatting with children, such as chatting with children during meals and before going to bed. Talk about your work and life, and guide your child to talk about his.

Of course, this time can't be the feeling of "confessing leniency and resisting strictness", but trying to create an equal, peaceful and interesting chat atmosphere.

In this case, we can hear children's sincere response. Even if they hide something, they can relax and gradually build trust in their parents.

Second, be careful and considerate-pay attention to children's daily performance

In adolescence, children are different from primary school children in extroversion and liveliness, and are willing to play and travel with their parents. They become more self-enclosed and stay in their rooms even when they come back from school. Listen to songs, play games or study.

At this time, we need to be parents, be more careful and caring, and observe the daily performance of our children.

If you are autistic, depressed and lack of communication, you need to pay more attention.

Perhaps, seemingly calm children are experiencing inner storms and mutilation.

Third, beat about the bush, beat about the bush-you can know the real situation by getting familiar with his good friends.

Friends, deskmates, classmates and parents who usually have a good relationship with their children should also try to keep contact information. Sometimes, children who are bullied will tell their friends instead of their parents. Even, many times, his friends will witness all this, but they don't know how to deal with it.

Talk to them naturally on a regular basis and listen to their opinions.

The child's abnormality can sometimes be answered.

Fourth, communication, contact-if there is any abnormality, contact the class teacher immediately.

If the situation is serious, or we have some clues or evidence, we should contact the class teacher immediately and communicate this situation with the class teacher.

Generally speaking, the head teacher is the person who knows the situation best, but there is no denying that sometimes they are negligent, but when they receive the signal from their parents, they will be very concerned.

The head teacher, in the process of dealing with things, also has advantages that parents don't have, which is more suitable.

Five, in-depth, comprehensive-let the class teacher find students to understand privately.

At this stage, we should communicate with the class teacher and provide more clues. The class teacher will know the situation privately first, and then communicate with the parents in depth.

In this way, the whole picture of children being bullied at school will gradually emerge, and the class teacher and parents will have appropriate ways to intervene in this incident, so that things can be properly solved.

In this way, children will feel that this kind of thing is no big deal and can be solved, and at the same time enhance their self-confidence and counterattack ability in the face of bullying.

To sum up, when children don't tell their parents that they are being bullied, parents don't worry, settle down and everything will be fine.