What is the turbulent period of youth?

First of all, the emergence of teenagers' "sense of independence" and "sense of adulthood" makes them go to extremes. With the gradual maturity of physiology, teenagers are eager to get rid of the control of adults, urgently demand independence, like self-expression and express their views. However, in the semi-naive and semi-mature period, the physiological and psychological characteristics of teenagers determine that their understanding and evaluation of themselves, others and things are not profound, comprehensive and thorough, and often take the whole thing as the only thing. Secondly, teenagers' sensitivity is obviously improved, and they are often easily excited, their interests are easily transferred, their will is easily shaken, and they are suspicious of everything. Their inner dissatisfaction makes them always want to sing against the people around them, and they always have rebellious psychology. Finally, there is a general contradiction of self-awareness among teenagers. "ideal me" and "real me" often collide, often aiming too high and ambitious; "Subject me" and "social me" will also conflict, and sometimes they can't be understood and recognized by classmates and teachers.

Teenagers should correctly understand this feature of adolescence and treat others and themselves correctly when their emotions are shaken violently. Be generous to others, be moderate in self-expression, don't force others to do things according to their own ideas, and don't look at real problems from their own emotions. Take the initiative to approach parents and teachers, strengthen communication, be less nagging and be more considerate; Less criticism and more understanding. We should learn to correctly handle the relationship with our classmates, treat each classmate with appreciation, pay less attention to perfection and pay more praise. Only in this way can we get rid of the influence of bad emotions, face our study and life correctly, make our energetic youth more energetic and make our beautiful high school life more enjoyable.