In what way do you feel you cannot surpass your parents?

I feel that I cannot surpass my parents in many ways. My parents are relatively filial, kind and very enthusiastic. When I was a child, I lived in a compound. At that time, distant relatives were not as good as close neighbors, and the relationship between neighbors was particularly good. If someone makes pumpkin cake, the whole compound can eat it, and if there is something new, the whole compound can taste it. My aunt works in a foreign company and often goes abroad to discuss trade. I am the only girl in our family, so my aunt will bring me a lot of delicious and fun things every time she comes back. And these are all foreign goods, all new gadgets.

Because those things are new, many children in the compound have never seen them. And my mother is very generous every time. She takes out all these things and shares them with them. Although the people in our compound are relatively simple, there are old people and young people in every house, and they live a good life. Tight. So I live my life on a budget every day, and I am not so generous to my neighbors. There are almost no such things as my mother does in our compound. So at that time, my friends loved coming to our house to play. But I can't do such a thing.

It’s not that I’m not willing to give them toys and food. The key is that I definitely won’t take out all the imported fresh toys to entertain them. Maybe it's because my parents were too generous to their friends, but when I went to their house to play, I didn't receive the same treatment. So I felt very unbalanced, and I was unwilling to share my best with them. And my parents are also very kind and don't care about anything. There was an old man in the compound who was scolded by my grandmother for saying something bad about his wife and son, and they had a quarrel.

This incident made my grandma go home so angry that she talked to my mother for a long time. Later, the old man dumped him at the gate of the community because it was raining and the ground was slippery. My parents just came back from get off work and sent him to the hospital. Logically speaking, sending him to the hospital was enough, but they also paid the old man advance. I paid for the medical expenses and later bought fruit to see him. The two of them didn't care at all that the old man made my grandma so angry that she almost died, and even ran to see him. If this matter were left to me, I would definitely send him to the hospital instead of buying fruit to see him.

My parents are very kind to my grandparents. My grandma is sick and bedridden and cannot take care of herself. My mother does everything for her, such as bathing. When my grandpa suffered a stroke, my father took care of him. If it were me, I probably wouldn't treat the other person's parents as my parents.