Talk to someone.

No one has seven disasters and eight difficulties. If you are in trouble, you might as well rely on yourself. No one asks if you are poor in downtown, but if you have money in mountainous areas, you have distant relatives. So when you are in trouble, don't think about those seven aunts and eight aunts. Since ancient times, there have been thousands of fair-weather friends and a few real friends. No matter what disasters or difficulties there are, we must find a way to solve them ourselves. If you talk to others about the disaster, they will go in one ear and out the other. You still have to solve the problem yourself. With this time, it is better to find a way to solve the problem quickly.

If there is a peach blossom garden in my heart, there is no water.

As long as people are alive, they are not afraid of all kinds of dangers. Minor disasters are just crossing the ditch, and the bright road lies ahead. A sunny tomorrow is your new beginning. If you fall, get up and stand up straight, and any difficulty will fall at others' feet. When the refueling man is in trouble, his relatives and friends are alienated and it is difficult to find someone to talk to. I feel the same way about your situation. It's really hard.

But then again, people's distress is only temporary. Don't get emotional. You must have confidence in yourself and keep working hard. No matter what others say, don't look at others' faces, and always remain humble. There's always a time when the clouds clear.

Now you feel isolated because your relatives and friends have alienated you. You said you wanted to talk to someone, which was the best? I think, since relatives and friends have alienated you, let's talk to some people who are not related to you. Maybe they will sympathize with you for a while.

When talking to these people, don't get to the point, don't be too straightforward. You can tell it as a story. When the story is finished, it is over. There is no need to repeat it. I used to be repetitive, and I was tired of listening to it too much. After that, I patted my ass and left. I don't need sympathy or jokes. It's not terrible to be in trouble. The terrible thing is not to lose your dignity as a human being.

In the face of difficulties, you should forge ahead, look for opportunities and make new breakthroughs. Remember to live a negative life, and don't be afraid of others talking about you behind your back. When you are in trouble, it is inevitable that someone will talk behind your back. You can forget these things, do what you should do and work hard. Only in this way can we finally get out of the predicament. On the contrary, it is not.

Also, in dealing with people, we still need constant exercise and study to be neither arrogant nor impetuous. People should know how to be low-key, easy-going and polite. Only in this way can we be in an invincible position.

After reading your description, I have a general understanding of your situation. Although I don't know what you have experienced, I know that now you are in trouble and your life is forced. At this time, relatives and friends have alienated you, without the frequent exchanges and usual enthusiasm in the past. Compared with before, the gap is too big for you to accept the reality. As the saying goes, "The poor don't ask by the roadside, but the rich have distant relatives in the mountains." This is a very real social phenomenon. There is so much human nature that we can only sigh that the world is cold. Although there are many fair-weather friends, how many can a friend in need have? So let's take it lightly. Paying too much attention to these things will only increase sadness. It's really unnecessary! People live for themselves, not for others, why care about their own vision?

When you get along with each other in harmony and the scenery is infinite, the flattery or enthusiasm of friends and relatives around you is nothing more than wanting to make friends with you and get your care, hoping to get some benefits from you. Even if you don't get any benefits, it doesn't matter It is vain to have a friend or relative with status.

In addition to sympathizing with your situation and understanding your mood, I really want to tell you that according to your psychological feelings and suicidal thoughts, you should have depression, and it is not light, so you must take it seriously! Here are my suggestions:

Finally, I wish you a speedy recovery, cheer up as soon as possible, and never commit suicide! Living is the best hope!