Are you strangers because borrowing money will lose your best friend? The better the relationship, the less.

Friends are indispensable in our human society. Besides affection, love is friendship.

In a word, a lifetime, a lifetime of love, a glass of wine ... this is the purest description of a good friend.

However, around us, there are many brothers who were originally brothers. Because of various trivial matters, they broke off their relationship and ignored each other!

So what principles should good friends adhere to when borrowing money?

First, it is understandable that friends help each other.

Borrowing money is something that many people will face. In most cases, borrowing money is not a problem, but many people finally turn it into a problem. It is not impossible for a friend to borrow money. Borrowing money between real good friends is not called borrowing money, it is called emergency. Although there is no behavioral difference between borrowing money and emergency, there is a big difference in essence. Borrowing money may cause problems, and emergency is based on full trust and absolute integrity. An emergency can last for several days or ten years.

1. A friend who suddenly appeared after a long time without contacting you.

If a long-lost friend suddenly appears in your life, you must not trust him too much. Because you haven't contacted for a long time, you don't know him at all, and you don't know what kind of person he has become now.

If you trust him blindly and lend him money, you may not even know where he spends it. If he does something bad, who will be responsible?

Also, if he is different from what you used to know, you can't judge whether he will return the money to you. If he doesn't pay back, you can't ask him to pay back from a friend's point of view, but if he doesn't, it's your own loss.

2. Friends who don't have deep friendship and borrow money from you.

When people reach middle age, sometimes it is easy to be "confused". It's hard for you to judge a thing clearly. You don't even know what to do and what not to do. Sometimes with friends, you can't even see who is sincere and who is hypocritical.

However, in the face of money, we must keep a clear head and must not let ourselves be deceived. For example, don't get too close to a friend who hasn't made close friends, or even meet him once. If he asks you for money, don't say yes easily, okay? It is very likely that the money you lent will never come back.

When people reach middle age, your heart should clearly understand who should help and who can't. Sure, it's okay to help a little, but be careful when borrowing money.

3. Friends you don't know very well

When you reach middle age, don't trust a friend you don't know very well. You can keep a friendly relationship with him. For example, if you have any small help, you can care about each other, greet each other and help each other, but when it comes to money, you must not be careless.

You should know clearly that if you don't know him, you won't know what he is borrowing money for, whether he wants to "blackmail" you or use your kindness to spend money for nothing. You don't even know. In case he is a bad guy, your money will be wasted. You have to understand, be sincere to your friend, he will never borrow money from you unless absolutely necessary, because he doesn't want your friendship for many years to be destroyed by money. Only friends who don't know much about it will easily tell you about borrowing money.

Second, it is easy to borrow, and it is not difficult to borrow again. We need to trust each other.

Once there is a problem of borrowing money between friends, even if the borrowed money is not much and the money is not paid back in time, this friend can basically be blacked out. It can even be asserted that even if this friend only borrowed money once, he would be blacked out at the first time. Because if not handled in time, he will bring you more trouble in the future. People who don't value or know how to treat their friends are not worth socializing with.

Although money is an external thing, it occupies a very important position in our life.

As the saying goes: people die for money, birds die for food, which shows how much effort a person can make to get money.

We worked hard to save some money as a buffer, just to live a better life in the future and cope with unexpected needs.

But some people in life aim at this money and want to lend it out for themselves to eat, drink and have fun. Under such circumstances, we must stick to our bottom line and resolutely refuse to lend us money that we shouldn't.

Many experiences tell us that kindly lending money to friends will not make your relationship closer, but may turn you from friends to enemies.

Some people are so-called "friends". If you lend him money, he will be very happy. If you don't lend him, turn your face at once; Don't ask him for money, still friends. If you ask him for money, you become a bad person.

Countless examples in life tell us: raise rice to raise benefactors, fight rice to raise enemies! Don't lend money to others easily. The more you borrow, the worse your relationship may get.

Third, don't speak, keep your dignity and cherish priceless friendship.

Not everyone can borrow money, nor can everyone borrow money. If you can't handle the relationship between money and friends well, it will only be yourself who will hurt feelings and money in the end.

1. You can't borrow money to gamble. As the saying goes, small gambling is good for your health. It is understandable that friends play mahjong and cards for entertainment. But if it develops to the point where you want to make money by gambling, it is a very dangerous thing. Many families were ruined because gambling loans could not be repaid.

If a friend asks you to borrow money for gambling, please don't borrow it, no matter how much brotherhood you talk about. Why? First, if you borrow money, he will get deeper and deeper; Second, you lent it to him, and his family still blames you and won't recognize it; Third, if he loses all his money, he can't pay you back, so you have to pay for it. Fourth, if you collect debts, it will affect your friends' feelings. Therefore, no matter for him or for himself, gambling money must not be borrowed.

2. The money used for stock trading can't be borrowed. There is a hint in the lobby of the securities company: "The stock market is risky and you need to be cautious when entering the market." Stock is a great invention, which enables all people to share the fruits of the development of listed companies. However, the stock market is risky after all. If you use your own money to buy stocks, you will lose money and you can barely bear it. If you buy stocks with borrowed money, the pressure is very great. If you fail, you can jump off a building seriously.

Your friends are often very confident when they make money from stock trading. They think that they have excellent skills and will want to increase their principal and get the first bucket of gold quickly. Then, they will start raising money and may borrow money from you. He will show you his account, see his profits and tell you how good he is. He can make a lot of money in a short time by lending him money.

Should I lend him money at this time? It must be remembered that there will be no pie in the sky. Money is so easy to earn, do you still need everyone to work nine to five? Once the money is lent, what about the loss? He is under a lot of pressure, and you don't know when your money will come back. Either you put up with it yourself or your relationship has gone sour again. You can't borrow money from stock trading.

You can't borrow money without explaining the purpose clearly. Friends can borrow money, but if you can't explain why or give money to your family, try not to borrow it. A friend asked you to borrow money, saying that if the amount is large, you'd better let his family know about it. First, if even family members don't give loans they know, the use of loans is questionable; Second, unless there are very special circumstances, if the family can't tell him, it means that the family doesn't support him to borrow money. If you borrow it, it may affect the other party's family relationship. Third, once the borrower has an accident, the family can be irresponsible. In particular, the amount of loans between businessmen is relatively large, and it is best for both husband and wife to know, otherwise the bitter fruit of wrangling can only be swallowed by themselves.

Conclusion: Borrowing money from friends is an emotional consumption after all. The so-called "talking about money hurts feelings", whether you can borrow money from others. Friends, as borrowers, should try their best to help if they really have difficulties. Once you borrow it, you may hurt each other and yourself, not to mention the good friendship between two people.

Credit is the foundation of a person's life, and a person with good credit is a friend worthy of deep friendship.

Everyone will give credit points to people around him, and it is self-evident that a person's credit is good or not.

People who often break their promises can't lend her money. People with very good credit say nothing, ask nothing, and borrow whatever they can. He will definitely pay you back on time.

This society is becoming more and more a credit society. People without credit will become unable to move, and people with good credit will be like a duck to water.

In life, we should keep our word to our friends or colleagues, and we should keep our word and do it.

A trustworthy person is more likely to get everyone's help when he is in trouble.