When my brother got married, my parents asked my sister for a wedding room. What are the distressing responses of my sister?

In the traditional concept of China people, there are three kinds of unfilial, and the last one is the biggest. Among the descendants of the family, many elders feel that their daughters always have to get married and go to other families to continue the incense. Men are the blood of the family. The concept of raising children for old age and carrying on the family line has been passed down from generation to generation in quite a few families in China. Giving birth to a daughter in such a family is an unfortunate beginning in itself, and Xiao Jing is one of many unfortunate girls. What is her life like?

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Xiao Jing was born in an ordinary rural family. More unfortunately, from the first day of birth, she did not get the joy of her parents being a mother for the first time, but lamented that she was a female doll. When she was 2 years old, her parents gave birth to a younger brother. The birth of his younger brother gave his parents a reason to be proud, and Xiao Jing also took care of his younger brother from an early age.

It was not until his younger brother Xiao Fei reached the age of primary school that Xiao Jing was able to take care of Xiao Fei and walk into school with his schoolbag on his back. Even if Xiao Jing's grades are much better than Xiao Fei's, even if Xiao Jing tries to share all the housework at home after studying, Xiao Jing, who graduated from junior high school, can't escape the nightmare of dropping out of school. Because Xiao Fei is still a few points away from key high schools. My mother refused to let Xiaojing study on the grounds that her daughter was useless. Instead, she took out all the money at home and let Xiao Fei continue her studies.

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After Xiao Jing was forced to leave the campus, she began to work in the city with her neighbors. At the end of each month, her parents will call and ask Xiao Jing to send her salary back. She never asked Xiao Jing if she had enough money. Slowly, Xiao Jing is no longer satisfied with being a working girl. She saw many stalls selling snacks outside many factories, and business was booming.

Xiaojing secretly saved a little money and set up a breakfast stall. The girl from the countryside is hardworking and considerate. Xiaojing's breakfast stall business is extremely hot. In the year when my younger brother was admitted to the second school, Xiao Jing had gained a firm foothold in the city. Like many people who went to the city, she invested money in the first house.

Of course, Xiao Jing is not satisfied with such a life. She began to make breakfast business bigger and bigger, and began to deliver goods to many breakfast stalls. She supplies most of the stalls in this city, and the business is getting bigger and bigger, so busy that she doesn't have time to go home to see her parents, but mom and dad seem to care little about what this daughter is doing in the city. They just want their daughter to send money home by the hour, and don't forget to give Xiao Fei living expenses.

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When Xiao Fei University graduated, Xiao Jing had bought a second house. After all, he is his brother. When Xiao Fei, who graduated from college, couldn't find a foothold, Xiao Jing generously gave Xiao Fei a set of keys as his temporary foothold. Xiao Fei despises Xiaojing's business and finds an ordinary office job, working from nine to five, with moonlight every month. If it weren't for her sister's house, Xiao Fei couldn't even pay the rent.

Xiao Fei has a college girlfriend. They have been dating for some time. The other party suggested that if you want to get married, you must buy a house in the city, otherwise it is impossible. However, Xiao Fei's parents have been in the countryside all their lives, facing the loess and facing the sky, let alone buying a house. It is difficult for them to come up with tens of thousands of dollars for the wedding. But my parents are not fools. They soon learned that Xiao Jing had been doing well in the city in recent years and had two houses. Moreover, the house that Xiaofei lives in now was bought by Xiao Jing first, and even the mortgage has been paid off.

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Parents soon got the idea of Xiao Jing's family, and the old couple went to town with some local products. The first time they took the initiative to find Xiao Jing, they were anxious about her private affairs. Finally, they couldn't help telling her their true intentions. Mother said, "Daughter, you have two houses, one for your brother, and his lifelong happiness can only depend on you. We two old people are useless now ... ". It seems that when Xiaojing refused, she was sorry for her mother.

Xiaojing also cried, but she was complaining. She said, "Since childhood, what did my brother want from you? In order to buy a good school for my brother, you won't give me high school. All you do is ask me for money. Have you ever cared about how much I have suffered over the years? I have given my brother and family money for so many years, at least 654.38+ 10,000. I don't think I owe you anything anymore. I can't give the house to my brother. After graduating from junior high school, I can earn two suites, and my brother studied undergraduate. Do you want me to give the house? I hope mom is not partial. My brother has grown up. If you are still eccentric, he will only keep you worried. "

The conversation broke up in discord, and mom and dad left directly, swearing. When they left, they didn't forget to send the local products they brought to Xiao Fei. When I returned to my hometown, I began to say that I had a baiwenhang like Xiaojing, which didn't help my brother's marriage at all. I also said that if Xiao Fei couldn't marry a daughter-in-law in the future, it was this sister who caused it. Even Xiao Fei was angry with Xiao Jing and even threatened to move out of her sister's house. Xiaojing is still busy with what she should do. In her opinion, she did nothing wrong. The house is your own, even if it is your parents', what about your brother?

Summary:

The biggest tragedy of a patriarchal family is that the son is a descendant and the daughter is only a labor force at best. She never cares about her daughter's life and death, but only asks her for it. Xiaofei is going to study, and Xiao Jing is with her. Xiaofei needs to borrow money, and Xiao Jing must sacrifice herself. Even when Xiao Fei was in college, Xiao Jing had to act as an ATM for his younger brother's study.

Xiaojing earned real estate by her own efforts, and her parents hope to turn it into her brother's wedding room. They can only say that the patriarchal family and the ungrateful brother make Xiao Jing feel no warmth of family. Fortunately, Xiao Jing saw through the essence of things, car-scrapping once, and firmly held the house in his own hands. Because in her opinion, the house is much more precious than the so-called family.