Will you talk to your partner about your troubles in life?

I choose not to talk. You just define talking as a kind of venting. You can find comfort by talking to your friends, and those grievances will dissipate a little. Talking too much is a pressure on both sides. I love a person and will not give him too much negative energy. Even if I want to throw up, I will say it happily, because I love him and myself.

However, to no avail. In fact, this is only to solve your temporary pressure and grievances, and it is useless for the source of problems that make you feel stressed. In case you were wronged or wronged at that time, constantly talking to your friends will make you dependent, and talking for a long time will be regarded as negative energy emission, and your relationship will be in jeopardy. Everyone is busy, so don't always complain. Humans need to talk and vent, but they should learn to be strong and independent slowly, so as to be happier and more peaceful.

It's useless to tell anyone unhappy things. The most important thing is never to say them when you are in the fullest mood, because there are many words that will have stronger psychological hints, and it will not make you feel better if you say them, which will only make you feel worse. So my idea is that if you encounter unhappy things, it will be better to digest them slowly. I think everyone should learn to find their own way to digest them.

Old Mr. Wang Guowei has a saying: Don't tell all the lies, and don't tell all the truth. It's always good to leave some privacy. Besides, no one wants to listen to a grouch every day! Reading will calm you down. Different people have different ideas. If I were you, I would choose a stranger to talk to. Maybe too many complaints are unacceptable to others. Only in this way can I find it easier to talk to strangers, because I don't want to bring bad feelings to the people I love. I admit that this idea is wrong, but I will still choose this way.