Please tell me how to let go of the pain of being abandoned by my parents.

I think your parents must have abandoned you for some inevitable reason. It's normal for you to feel pain inside. After all, that's the person closest to you in the world. You must hate them when you know that you have been abandoned by them. You resent the two closest people for doing such things that hurt you, and you may even give up on yourself. You think that the two closest people in this world have given up on you, so no one in this world will care about and love you. On the one hand, you hope to never see them again in this life, because they abandoned you, but on the other hand, you are eager to find them, because they are your closest relatives in this world.

The word blood is thicker than water is used to describe relatives. No matter where you are and what kind of life you live in this life, their blood stays in your body. They are all the people who brought you into this world. Without them, there would be no you. Maybe they left you for some inevitable reasons, but they have to do it. Where in this world are parents who don't love their children? After all, it was a piece of meat that fell from them when I was pregnant in October. I'm sure they must have been living with guilt for so many years after they left you. Every time they wake up in the middle of the night, what they see is what you looked like when you were a child. Your heart is painful, and their heart is more painful than yours.

If you think so, you may have less resentment towards them. There is not so much hate in my heart, nor so much pain. After you were abandoned by your parents, you didn't starve to death on the street because of their abandonment. On the contrary, you grew up and grew up healthily. Your parents raised you. Although you were abandoned by your biological parents, you met the best parents in the world. They don't care that you are a picked-up child, take good care of you, raise you in a frugal way, and give you a complete fatherly love and maternal love in the world. They put all their efforts into you. They want to see you grow up happily. If they see your inner pain, it will be particularly painful.

If you feel pain in your heart, think more about the love of your adoptive parents. They didn't abandon you as an abandoned child and gave you the best thing in the world. You have loving parents and a happy family. Do you have any reason to feel the pain inside? Your children are no less than other children.