Friends circle asks for a vote? Selection without strength is hooliganism!

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My tolerance for friends circle is actually quite high. I can tolerate swiping the screen of WeChat business, collecting praises, basking in the sun, loving, giving delicious food in the middle of the night and pretending to be a workaholic. ...

But there's one thing I can't stand-the circle of friends asking for a vote.

In fact, it is not intolerable, but more, it is incomprehensible.

For example, if a circle of friends asks for praise, I will be happy to help, gently, the task is completed, my friends are happy, and I have no troubles. Although I feel that people who ask for praise are greedy for free or discounted petty gains, on the whole, it is harmless, and you are willing.

However, voting in a circle of friends is often complicated. It is not a little effort, but it is "very troublesome" to choose to pay attention to the official account of WeChat before voting. Originally, I wanted to help you vote with one click, but I clicked in and went out. I found that I needed to pay attention first.

that this is not the important question.

The point is that most activities that require online voting are all kinds of selections.

For example, what is the best Meng Bao held by an organization, what is the star of a unit, and what is the teenager of a school? ..............................................................................................................................................

So I especially don't understand: what is the significance of such a selection?

The only meaning is probably to increase the attention of the organizers and refresh the number of fans. Because you need to pay attention to the official account of the organizer WeChat before voting!

Whether those cute babies are cute, whether employees are the best, and whether teenagers are the best ... has nothing to do with strength.

In view of this, I hardly "vote" for any friends, no matter what kind of relationship. It is not that I am heartless, but that I saw the "truth" at a glance. Voting is not to help you, but to encourage the bad atmosphere of "playing empty"!

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I saw a friend this morning and sent a circle of friends to ask for tickets. I hope everyone will vote for his son, because his son participated in the juvenile selection of the school.

I take a closer look, yes, it is a very formal school, not a profit-making organization.

I suddenly felt very sad, and instantly understood the feelings of those who knew that everyone would be annoyed, but still had to bite the bullet and ask for a vote in the circle of friends.

I think, if one day, my child meets such an activity at school and everyone participates, can I ask him not to participate? After attending, parents are busy canvassing votes for their children and striving for popularity. Can I ignore them?

Can I confidently say to children, "Don't take part in these bullshit voting activities that don't fight for strength and popularity, even if you win the first place, there is nothing to be proud of"?

Can you tell your child with a look of indifference that "I will never send these vulgar and annoying things in my circle of friends to spoil my friends' eyes again"?

Can I ask my child to refuse all such group activities and tell him plausibly that "these are all too empty, we are playing with strength"?

I can't. But I will try my best not to let this happen!

Thinking of this, I suddenly felt a little guilty about my deep contempt for the behavior of my circle of friends asking for a vote.

I think people who ask for a vote may not know that they are annoyed and may not be willing to ask for a vote. However, for the sake of children and family, people may only choose to forward, shout and ask for a vote.

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Well, I understand the difficulties and feelings of friends who ask for tickets in a circle of friends. I will try to look at such a circle of friends with an understanding heart in the future. Of course, I still won't vote. Because I am lazy, if the voting system is as simple and convenient as Zan, I can help.

Ok, let's not talk about friends in the circle of friends. Let's talk about these institutions, businesses and even formal units that initiated the online voting system.

Looks smart. In the name of the selection activity, it is really a good deal to increase the popularity of your official WeChat account and attract the attention of your organization or enterprise. The effect may be better than spending a lot of money on advertising in traditional media.

A friend sent his children to one of the most famous and expensive English training institutions in the city to learn English. If you organize activities, whoever wins the top ten in the WeChat voting activity can reduce or waive part or all of the tuition fees for the next semester.

My friends are not demanding, so I just need the tenth place, because the tenth place can halve the tuition. She started a crazy circle of friends bombing, sending voting links over and over again every day. Everyone can't wait to grab someone else's mobile phone to vote in person, send a group of WeChat to friends to remind everyone to vote every day, and encourage all friends who can be encouraged to help her forward the voting link.

After half a month of almost "crazy" voting, she gave up two days before the deadline.

Asked about the reason, she said gloomily, no matter how hard I try, even trying to spend money to brush a few tickets, it's useless. I've been excluded from the fiftieth place, and I'm sure I can't catch up with the tenth place in two days. Look at the current figure 10, the number of votes is almost twice that of me. How do I spell it? I don't know how these people are so awesome and how they got so many votes.

I can't talk. I feel sorry for her impulsive and childish behavior, but I also understand her feelings of going to great pains to save high tuition fees. It is even more shameful for merchants to be smart and take parents' "fun" for advertising effect.

Who knows what kind of existence those people who enter the top ten with high votes are? What is the relationship with training institutions? How many people know that in this so-called selection, they not only consumed their circle of friends, but also became a stepping stone for training institutions.

That's all.

Because I have a good relationship with this friend, although I didn't want to, I voted for her several times, but after voting, I immediately canceled my attention to the official account and organization of WeChat. I believe that like me, I voted for my friends, but most people voted immediately.

These institutions believe that voting can quickly gather fans, and the final effect will certainly not be as they wish.

People who want to pay attention will naturally try their best to understand relevant information and take the initiative to pay attention. People who don't want to pay attention, let you have all kinds of tricks, whether it's getting clearance or getting clearance.

It is better to spend some money honestly, make an advertisement and have an eyeball bombing. At the very least, it can make people remember their names and get acquainted.

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Even if I say that I can understand the feelings of friends who ask for tickets in my circle of friends, I still have to say more.

The behavior of asking for a vote in a circle of friends is helpless and moderate.

After all, not everyone can understand you

After all, people who actively vote may scold you behind your back: low pressure.

After all, strength is the last word.

After all, a game that is not measured by strength is ultimately equivalent to hooliganism.