"Don't interrupt adults, children", five sentences that hurt children, most parents have said.

In the world of many children, everything is simple and beautiful, because they have never been exposed to the complexity of the world before they were born, just like a blank sheet of paper.

However, a large part of children's future personality and cognition has a lot to do with their own perception and contact with things.

In this process of understanding the world, the role of parents is very important and incomparable to others.

This is because in the initial stage of children's growth, they don't understand the world without cognitive ability. The biggest factors that affect you are naturally family environment and parents, so it is easy to learn to imitate parents' actions and ways of speaking.

For children, if they want to imitate, the best target is their parents.

It is necessary for parents to give their children healthy education and correct guidance, so parents must pay attention to their words and deeds.

In any case, there are no 100% parents in this world, but please don't have a bad influence on children's minds and hinder their life growth.

To tell the truth, parenting is not an easy task, nor can it be successful by talking about it. I believe this is something that all parents feel the same way.

It can be said that parents who raise children in this world really worry too much. Only when children and parents learn from each other and make progress together can they grow into excellent children and parents.

If parents wholeheartedly hope that their children can become the best people in the process of cultivating their children, they should have a positive attitude, which will help to cultivate healthy and excellent children.

In the process of cultivating children, not only time and energy, but also ways and means, parents should also learn to cultivate children scientifically.

On the premise of educating children, parents should also pay attention to their own cultivation. Only when they are good enough can they influence children and guide them to become better.

It is difficult for a parent who is not strict with himself to educate his children well, and what kind of person a child will become when he grows up is not only related to his own efforts, but also inseparable from his parents' education and guidance.

Parents are requested not to tell these pet phrases to their children, which will affect them and encourage them to develop bad habits, which is not conducive to their healthy growth.

It is not difficult to find that since becoming parents, some parents will involuntarily give birth to authority consciousness, which will be more obvious in front of their children.

For example, when parents are discussing something with others, once the children are chattering around, they will never stop. At this time, they will not only be taken care of by their parents.

Moreover, it is easy to hear parents say to their children, "Adults talk, children should not interrupt", which really hurts children, and the relationship between children and parents will become very bad after a long time.

Children need encouragement in the process of growing up. Many parents often say "nothing as simple as this can be done well" when watching their children do badly or learn slowly.

After a long time, children's self-confidence will also be hit hard and they will become more inferior. No matter what you do, you will deny yourself first and find no confidence.

Once the child is disobedient, parents will not guide the child correctly, but often say to the child, "I don't care about you, just do what you like."

Educating children in this threatening way will make them feel afraid of their parents. Over time, the relationship between parents and children is easy to alienate, which is not conducive to the growth of children.

There are many ways for parents to reject their children, but many parents will reject their children directly.

For example, a child likes a toy or a gift. If his parents don't agree, he will often say to the child, "I can't do it if I say no!" "

In fact, this practice will hurt children, and there are other ways to solve it, such as mom forgetting to bring money. , can be solved. There is no need to say this directly to children, which may do great harm to children's minds.

Some parents look at their children and don't like learning. At this time, instead of guiding children to study hard, they often say to their children, "You just play and fall asleep when you talk about learning." I don't know if this will dampen their enthusiasm for learning and even make them tired of learning.

Therefore, once it is found that children don't like learning, they can communicate calmly, which not only helps parents to understand the reasons why children don't like learning, but also helps parents to make their children interested in learning and gradually fall in love with learning.

In short, educating children is an arduous task, and I believe many people have deep feelings.

If parents can pay attention to their own way of doing things and learn to establish good communication with their children, then their children will grow up healthily.

Before you learn to teach children, please learn to correct your attitude, so that you can find a good way to cultivate children.

I'm Mama Alpaca. I can answer your questions about children's psychology, education and personality. I hope my suggestions can help everyone and make every baby grow up healthily.

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