What is the psychological reason why men say that I support you?

I think most men say that I raise you out of vanity, but these words can't be taken seriously.

It's not that men can't afford women. In fact, most men can support their other half, but those who can say these words are relatively immature young people. They have no ability to support a woman. People who really support women will not say these childish things easily.

When I first liked girls, it was frivolous to pursue a girl and say that I could support her in the future, but I didn't have a stable job at that time, and I didn't even know how much income I could earn in the future. It is actually very immature to say such a thing rashly.

There is another kind of person, perhaps not immature, but because of vanity. For example, when he is with his girlfriend, his girlfriend's girlfriend is also there, and her boyfriend is the kind of successful person who likes to say this. In fact, it may not matter whether a girl has such a promise, as long as you are kind to her, but it will make her feel bad to say such things often at this time.

On the other hand, as a woman, we should learn to live independently and have our own circle and career, so that when two people have emotional problems, they will not choose to compromise because they don't have any income.

My aunt is a woman raised by her uncle. Although she is a housewife, she only cares about her family. For decades, she didn't have her own social circle. At the same time, she has no choice but to live independently. She couldn't give up drinking several times, resulting in conflicts. She was embarrassed to divorce herself. Because she has no courage, she doesn't know whether she can support herself after leaving the construction site. Therefore, as a woman, you must not let a man support you, which will make her life monotonous.