What is the psychology of people you don't like in your circle of friends?

Every time I send a message and update my circle of friends, I hope someone will come to see it and praise it. After you have posted it for a while, you can't wait to see the number of likes. If it is a single digit, you will be disappointed. If it's double digits, you'll be surprised. Of course, I don't have many friends in my circle, and I never have three digits.

I always cook something delicious, so I like to send photos and write my thoughts. After I sent it, my heart was full of expectations, and my friends came to praise me. Well done! However, only a few fixed people came to watch, while others turned a blind eye.

First of all, I want to say that I once read an article saying that in today's society, it is unhealthy for friends to send a message and wait for praise. Our circle can't be so free any more. There are too many people in our circle. We have friends from all kinds of channels. Sometimes I even forget what I am willing to add.

The circle is no longer our real life. I'm sure, at least I can't speak freely in the circle, and I can't express my position and spit casually, because the circle is too big, there are too many people, colleagues, friends, relatives, people I met once, teachers, parents and friends of children, personnel of training institutions, intermediaries, business couriers and so on. And I can't just talk and forward information. So I classify people in communication, such as colleagues, neighbors, friends, classmates, parents of children, staff of foreign educational institutions, sales agents, intermediaries and so on. Then I send news selectively. I have never made a single click without making any choice, and I have never been so open-minded that I have to choose a part that I can't stand. Ordinary colleagues and sales agents can't stand it. My neighbors and parents usually praise me. These are parallel people, and there will be no conflict of interest.

I often cook and send out some delicious food, so I did an experiment. Every time I choose not to let my colleagues and intermediaries see it, the number I like is more than a dozen, which makes me very satisfied, because there are so few people I like. Then I tried to expand the circle and once or twice showed it to my colleagues. The result was amazing! Do you know what the result is? Do you know what has changed in the number of likes?

In other words, although I have expanded the number of views of more than 30 people, people still don't like me. Who praises me at ordinary times? There is no increase at all. So I came to a conclusion that in my circle, those colleagues can basically block it, that is, I basically don't have to let them see what I sent, and my life can't be exposed to them, because they don't like me at all!

Don't you like the simple circle of friends with horizontal lines? Or do I only open my circle of friends for three days? Our circle has long been a disguise, meaningless and fun, and even more unreal.

First of all, these people blocked me, just don't want to see my circle, maybe because I always cook, nothing new. They are bored, so they block me, so I can't get their praise, not for a thousand years! Haha, this situation is easy to understand.

The second is that I saw the delicious food you were drying. I know you cooked delicious food again, which is not bad. It looks appetizing and nutritious, but what you often cook is delicious, that is, cooking, that is, cakes and double skin milk. That's all your circle. It's really boring I can't see the scenery and people, and I can't see the children and play, only the food. It's really monotonous. So I saw what you did, and then I drifted over without leaving any trace.

Third, I know in my heart that you cook well, and the delicious food is really attractive. I really want to be your neighbor! So I am looking forward to waiting for you to update your circle of friends every day. Ah, you finally updated it. It was a delicious meal. I'm going to feast my eyes. After the appraisal, it was quite good, and then I flew over without leaving a trace, but I am still waiting to see your circle tomorrow, because I only have a few hobbies, that is, curiosity. I just want to see it, and it's over after reading it, that's all.

The fourth is envy, jealousy and hatred, which should be shared by many people. These people may cook by themselves, or they may know nothing. Whether I envy you, envy you or hate you in my heart, I am the same invisible man, but I don't exist in my circle. Because after I posted it, I knew you might see it, but you just didn't give me a compliment. But when one of our colleagues is drying food, you will give others a general compliment! I thought you were on the water!

Another reason is that people with height and weight must have several leaders in our circle. How can such a big leader always praise your meal? Isn't that just lowering your social status? Although they may also like food and admire my cooking, once they like it, others who are friends will find it. If you like it, don't your friends know? So these leaders must be deep divers, just watching and knowing. They never praise them, at least I won't.

Many people in my circle delete it regularly. Because of work, sometimes I just stay together for a while, and then I go my separate ways. I don't have to pay attention to each other anymore, so I delete it, so as not to make my circle too big and out of control.

I am not a man eager for praise. I am not a person who insists on your praise. I am not a person who lives by praise. Your praise doesn't mean anything, nor does it affect my life. I just want to objectively analyze the psychology of these people.

Because sometimes I don't like to praise others when I am reading their updates. Generally, it depends on my mood, whether I am my friend or not, and the nature of the messages he sends, so it is really beyond my power to dislike them.

In the information age, our way of communication has been completely subverted. We don't need to call, write or email. We just use WeChat and QQ social tools to accomplish many things in life. Our communication is getting faster and faster, more efficient, more unfamiliar and more perfunctory.

We don't like it because we are strangers, we don't care, we don't care, we don't care about you. Praise is a kind of recognition, a kind of praise, an envy and affirmation, or a faint sentence, a simple sense of existence, and so on. This society is progressing so fast that each of us has no time to adapt, so we will be forced to adapt.

You don't have to worry about why someone doesn't like me. There are many complicated reasons. Maybe he didn't see it at all, maybe he didn't want to manage money, he didn't like it, maybe he was jealous, maybe he ignored your existence, maybe he thought your post was meaningless and boring, and there may be many other reasons, many of which are complicated.

Life is in your own hands, happy and relaxed, even if you don't make a circle. If you have a hard time, even if you go around, even if you like it countless times, you can't relieve your anxiety and difficulties at all.

Life is for yourself, not for others. I do dynamic hair bands because I am happy, I am willing. I don't care about your praise. I just want to make a record and make a footnote to my life. That's enough.

Don't ask for trouble and boredom, and don't be unhappy all day just because others don't like it. Originally, we made circles to entertain ourselves and record our lives. Whether others like it or not is someone else's behavior, which is someone else's business and should not affect your mood. Do you think I'm right?

Next, I will still be happy and print photos at will. I will still block colleagues and intermediaries from watching. Because not letting you watch it won't affect my praise. I won't show it to you. That's my number. I show it to you, and you are indifferent. My likes have not increased. You are a group of indifferent beings in my circle.

Why do you still "exist" is very strange, because as soon as I ask you something and then tell you alone, you reply, haha, you do exist! I just don't want to praise me.

And sometimes, we meet and say a few words of greetings, and then you say how good my cooking is, how appetizing I look, and why I'm not fat when I cook every day! Don't you think this is proof that you see my dynamics? Isn't this proof that you see me delicious? Yes, you know my daily updates, but I just don't like them! I also understand your psychology.