How to communicate with children in separate beds

Make sure the children are separated from each other before they are separated from each other. If there is no bed before, jump directly to the room. Personally, I think it is not desirable. Because this is a step-by-step process, if it is not done well in the early stage, then the child will feel insecure at the beginning, such as not being able to sleep at night and having nightmares. Second, it will make children feel that their parents don't love him.

Therefore, in addition to separating beds, we should also communicate with children before preparing to separate beds, such as "When you grow up, you need to separate rooms with your parents" or "Our little baby will have her own independent space when she grows up" and so on. Such signals can be repeated frequently in his ears, so that he can be psychologically prepared and lay the foundation for independent sleep in the future.

How to sleep in separate rooms with children?

How should children communicate before sharing a room? What should children pay attention to when sleeping in separate rooms?

Be prepared: give children psychological construction and help them overcome their fears.

If you plan to share a room with your child when he is 3 years old, at least after the child is 2 and a half years old, you should start to help TA with psychological construction. Many children are afraid to sleep by themselves because they are afraid of the dark. They can take TA with them to read picture books that help overcome the fear of darkness, such as Long Night of Little Mice and Grandma Xi who hates darkness. You can also take TA to watch cartoons or children's dramas in Europe and America. The children in the film have their own rooms and camp beds, and sleep independently every night.

When a child sees this, he will naturally feel that "sleeping by himself" is a normal thing, a sign of growing up and will make him very proud. Gradually realize sleeping in separate rooms

(1) The slave bed does not divide rooms.

If a child who is used to sleeping in a bed with his mother is anxious to let the child sleep alone, TA may feel insecure and prone to fear. At the beginning, the mother can separate the bed from the room and let the children adapt and transition slowly.

(2) When children are separated, adults should not lock the door.

How should children communicate before sharing a room? What should children pay attention to when sleeping in separate rooms?

If possible, the mother can open the door when she sleeps, so that the child can be within her sight, so as to observe the child's situation at any time. Even if you can't do this, don't lock the door when the mother is sleeping, so that the child can't come in at any time in the middle of the night and let the child sleep more at ease.

③ Carefully decorate the baby's room and put toys and bedding familiar to TA on the bed.

Stick a cartoon image that children like in the room, or ask their opinions on wallpaper color or toy ornaments, so that TA can't wait to live in the room. Mother can arrange the toys that children usually play in the room and lay the bedding that children usually use. Being accompanied by familiar things can eliminate loneliness and help children fall asleep.