How to chase a girl who doesn’t post in Moments?

Have the courage to keep pursuing her even if you are rejected.

1. Braveness

Not posting in news and Moments shows that they are at least somewhat introverted and sensitive. As boys and suitors, bravery is an indispensable trait. Go talk to her bravely, but remember not to make her uncomfortable and don't ask her too many personal questions. Girls who don’t post status may also hate others prying too much into their privacy.

Remember to praise her more to make her confident and let her understand her uniqueness. Remember to listen to her feelings more. You can also talk about your own feelings. Few girls will reject delicate boys.

2. Offline

Many boys would rather believe in their circle of friends than start with reality. The reason is not difficult to understand: it’s just for convenience. It is clear to everyone in the circle of friends, and it can also avoid the tension and embarrassment of face-to-face communication. This is a typical impetuous mentality. The rewards and risks in love are always directly proportional. If you don't take the risk of losing her, you will never gain her favor.

In addition to the circle of friends, there are actually many ways for you to choose. The most common and most effective method is of course to strike up a conversation directly. Compared with those in the same school, there will always be opportunities for contact in the library and cafeteria. At this time, you have to pay more attention and make certain judgments based on her dress, behavior, habits, her preferences, taste, and lifestyle. These are the topics and entry points for your future chats.

In fact, striking up a conversation does not need to be so deliberate. The more effective ones are the "asking for help method" and the "rescue method", that is, starting the topic by asking for help or rescuing the situation, step by step: "What a coincidence, you are here too." It's the library - Hey, do you have a red pen? Can you lend it to me? " "Thank you - I knew you were so attentive and would definitely bring it - By the way, what book are you picking out?"

"You are looking for a book by Marquez - coincidentally, I also like his books, especially "Love in the Time of Cholera". Which one are you looking for?" ""One Hundred Years of Solitude" "Ah, it's a pity that our library only has the Huang translation. This translation is a bit old and the language is from thirty years ago. I wonder if you can accept it?"

"You don't like it? I know where I can get the latest one?" Translation, that bookstore is hard to find, but the environment is quite good, suitable for sitting down and reading quietly - let’s go there together on the weekend, I just want to pick up a few books.”

Rely on her. It is also advisable to use your best friend/roommate to gain her likes, but remember to control the number of people you ask for help, otherwise it will be known to everyone that you want to pursue her before you have a chance to talk to the girl, and you will be The girl will leave a bad impression of being rough and cause unnecessary trouble in your pursuit.