My wife said that when I came back from work, I only knew how to play games and didn't help with housework. I said I was tired all day, and women were too dissatisfied, right?

If you feel tired, so will your wife. Maybe people have been busy outside all day, and even full-time wives do housework by themselves, and they don't leave it entirely to the servants, so I think your idea is incorrect. However, there are two sides to this story. If you do your best, she still does, or your wife just doesn't like you playing games and uses housework as an excuse, it's not a problem of fatigue. If that's the case, I think you should think about this problem with different ideas and talk to her, because it's not limited to you, and it may hurt your children. In the future, you have no intention of leaving. You've lived this life. Don't let your children be polluted by unhappy childhood before independence.