How to let go of troublesome things?

1, there must always be dreams in life, and there must always be pursuits in years; Cherish a feeling and have a dream, which is the greatest gain.

2. People need to face many choices in their life and know how to choose. I don't have many friends, but I get along better. It is better to have a common goal than to follow suit. Associate with people with positive energy, even if you lower your posture; Have a sincere heart when dealing with people with excellent character.

3, the more indifferent, the happier life. Indifferent, the wedding will not get carried away, and once the song is over, people will not be depressed; Don't get carried away when you succeed, and don't lose heart when you fail. Indifference can precipitate impetuousness in the heart and filter impurities in the heart. Indifference is a kind of accomplishment, a realm, a distance full of connotation, which can make people feel at ease, happy and calm in life.

4. We always like to give ourselves many reasons to explain our cowardice, always deceive ourselves to believe those beautiful lies, always hide our inner fears, and always avoid the crimes we have committed. But the fact is, one day, we have to face those sins frankly and redeem ourselves.

5, happiness is not ethereal, but the feeling in the heart; Love is not far away, but the tacit understanding between two hearts. There is only one heart, don't pretend too much; There is only one life, so don't be too tired and don't chase it.

6. The person who has been obsessed with it is only a name later; What I thought I couldn't get through was just the story of the future. Dear friend, may you never be afraid of time and heal yourself.

7. You can't change yesterday, but if you worry too much about tomorrow, you will ruin today.

8, the heart is only a moment of surprise, rice, oil and salt is a lifelong lifestyle.

9. All problems are ultimately a matter of time. All troubles are actually asking for trouble.

10, there are some things that you might better keep in your heart. After a long time, looking back will become a story.

1 1. There has never been good or love for no reason. Don't step on other people's efforts. No one should.

12, look down on the troubles in the world and only look for coolness in your heart. The more desires a person has, the narrower his mind becomes; The less desire he has, the wider his mind becomes. People's mentality, more desire is busy, less desire is idle. People's minds and desires are too risky and too few are dull.

13, good luck is not prayed for, but watered with sweat. No matter where fate throws itself, we must take it calmly; No matter how cruel the reality is, we should face it calmly.

14. Meet the person you want to meet among thousands of people. In thousands of years, in the boundless wilderness of time, neither earlier nor later, you happened to catch up. There is nothing else to say, but gently ask, "Oh, are you there?"

15, people are hard to understand, and people know their faces but don't know their hearts; Meeting is too beautiful, falling in love is easier than getting along; Some people walk into their hearts like old friends; Some people, when walking, fade out of sight and have difficulty communicating with each other; Therefore, the encounter between people depends on fate, and the heart-to-heart knowledge depends on sincerity; If you have two or three friends in life, you will be lucky if you talk about everything and never leave.

Talk about asking for trouble

Talk about asking for trouble

First, if you expect an artist, focus on daily necessities; Let a businessman focus more on literature and art; Let a nine-to-five person experience the comfortable life in Dali with you; Letting a bohemian prodigal son go to work in the system is asking for trouble. When you have a lifelong pursuit, you can have a stable source of loneliness, and then you can find someone to walk with you and live with respect and appreciation.

Two contrasting facts, what others see is untrue and not necessarily right, so what they say may be hurtful. Just something I didn't realize. I learned another lesson in life. Really tired, but I have to face it. Psychological suggestion, don't care, only good, others are looking for trouble, difficult to do, but work hard.

Third, the human brain is like a computer. It needs to deal with cache and garbage regularly to run faster! So watch less, talk less and do less in the future to avoid taking up too much memory and asking for trouble.

Fourth, sometimes I can't help caring about people I shouldn't care about, which makes me worry about myself and hate being unable to support myself.

5. Often when life is too comfortable, it is too much for people to find excitement or ask for trouble to add some fun.

6. There is no need to care too much about the intentional or unintentional slander of others, and there is no need to dwell on it. Turn around and smile. It's no big deal. If you get hurt, you are shooting yourself in the foot. Just like trouble, no one bothers you, just asking for trouble. Think on the bright side, think clearly, no worries, no pain.

Seven, life is not easy, and cherish. There are always stumbling blocks, and there are always different people. There are too many people who don't like fake ugliness. Similarly, there are always people who don't like you. Nobody is perfect, and you are no exception. Don't care too much, don't bother yourself, just do your best. If you see through it, don't say it, don't say it, practice independently and move on.

Read more books when you are free, and maybe you won't have so many troubles to worry about. Instead of pouring out all your troubles and worries to others and longing for a word or two of comfort that others can't feel, it is better to find inner peace and the answers you want in the book!

Nine, the mood is like clothes. If it is dirty, take it to wash and bask in the sun. The sunshine is so good, why bother yourself? Ten thousand bright futures are not worth a warm gift. .

Ten, all problems are a matter of time, and all troubles are self-inflicted. -there is no dust in the heart, and the heart is at ease. Trouble comes from the heart. The same thing, if you think less, you will have no trouble, and if you think more, you will ask for trouble; The same problem, seeing the bright side is happy, and seeing the gloomy side is worrying. The joys and sorrows of life lie not in how many things happen to you, but in how many things are in your heart.

Eleven, in fact, many things are already very clear in my heart, but I can't help but think about it, so I ask for trouble.

The first thing to reflect on yourself at night is to forget your duty. Sometimes fame and fortune are fleeting, unimportant, self-cultivation, self-cultivation and self-improvement. You don't have to argue with others for the second point to control yourself. Don't care so much about what other people think. I am sincere to you, but you may not be sincere to me. Then I don't have to waste my sincerity on you for my first regular meeting today. I want to be good for others, but others think I'm asking for trouble.

Thirteen, once you like someone, you will find, oh, there are some things in life that money can't solve. One of the sorrows of ordinary people, such as me, is that we have so many problems that money can't solve, and we have to bother to do things that will bring problems that money can't solve. To like others is a kind of self-humiliation to some extent, but there is no such thing as happiness. Remember to have a good drink, be sure to remember.

Fourteen, the green stone steps in front of the Buddha asked the Buddha statue, which is also a stone. Why are you worshipped by ten thousand people and I trampled by ten thousand people? Buddha said, you ate 400 knives and I ate 1000 knives. People worship my suffering, which is hard to find. The difficult thing is how to find trouble when life is already very comfortable.

15. Always remind yourself not to think about those useless things. He has let go of his drizzle. Why bother yourself? Let it go! I just feel a little worthless. It turned out that it was just me going all out. This experience came a little late for me. I didn't understand until I was this age. How did I get through these years? Come on, fool! I have always believed that fools are blessed! Come on!

16. It is enough to work hard and have a clear conscience. Don't waver in your decision for others. Stick to your original dream. Take a good step by step, lower your posture, calm your mind, accept all happiness, and accept and realize your small goals. There are too many unfair things. Why bother yourself. Even if I have a chance at least one day, I will continue to make all the preparations. A loyal wife will one day.

17. You never know. I never thought there would be a connection between the two. If I can't find a clean place, it's not a dilemma, it's asking for trouble. If I could be more chic, I wouldn't have any troubles at all. It's annoying that all kinds of bitter water can only be digested by yourself.

If the heart is full of sunshine, even if it rains, life will be as warm as spring rain. Life is impermanent, things are unpredictable, and there is no need to be too persistent when things happen. Many times we are asking for trouble. The so-called trouble bothers you, that is, you absorb too much negative energy. We should go to sunny places like sunflowers. If the heart is full of sunshine, even if it rains, life will be as warm as spring rain.

19. It's hard to believe that you are skeptical about many things. When an idealist is skeptical, he is always understood by the world as asking for trouble, and the truth is often scrutinized repeatedly. People have ulterior motives, even if I know you love me, I dare not rest easy.

Twenty, some people do one thing in a short time, and some people need a long time. At least, I got it with my heart. Although I can't compare with it, I know that I'm not competent enough, and I know that I'm always looking for trouble, being melodramatic and being suspicious. How long will it take? I think it will continue. Thank you and I appreciate it. I should be able to understand. Finally. Hug ~

Twenty-one, the sun rises every day, which is a new mood. Life, there are not many days to waste, cherish what you can cherish, live every inch of your time well and be worthy of yourself. Life, living well is poetry, and living badly is asking for trouble. In fact, there are many things in life that you can't pass. You can let go, let go. Every day is accompanied by the most beautiful scenery. . .

Twenty-two, through the northwest, stepping on Mingsha Mountain, seeing the mirror of the sky, and crossing the Qaidam Basin, so tell yourself that the future may not be easy, but don't bother yourself, leave your feet on the road, don't disappoint yourself, and don't care too much about other people's eyes.

Twenty-three, a word of advice: girl, you love the wrong person, to be exact, it should be worship, don't bother yourself, that person doesn't belong to you, it's still time to pull back from the cliff.

24. If life is water, then work, money and status are cups. They are just tools we use to hold the water of life. The quality of cups cannot affect the quality of water. If you spend all your thoughts on the cup, how can you taste the bitterness and sweetness of water? Isn't that asking for trouble?

Twenty-five, it's autumn, not too early. People next door seldom get up at four o'clock, remove the screen window, carry the kettle and walk from the second floor to the first floor in slippers. Indifferently, I didn't sleep well before four o'clock recently, and life is not too hasty, or most of them are still asking for trouble. Get up early and listen to music ~ it's blue every day.

I don't like design! But I have to design! Life is short, but it is always spent in troubles!

Twenty-seven, every time I am in a bad state, I want to hide and escape from this world. Every time I am in a good state, I feel I have the courage to call you. How lovely the latter should always be. Unfortunately, people who trouble themselves will never live a quiet life. What can I expect when doing whatever I want becomes a luxury? This is my most unconfident, deadly and frightening weakness. You don't understand, huh?

Twenty-eight, it's really none of my business, okay? ! Ask for trouble, natural and man-made disasters can't escape, go to sleep ~ ~ ~ The sky will continue to clear up tomorrow.

Twenty-nine, many things have been settled, and it's no use bothering myself and trying to think again! This is the way it's supposed to be. I should try to deal with it, solve it and face it! Everyone has his own life, and he is resigned to his fate. These words are light or heavy when comforting themselves, but they still have their real meaning. After living for 30 years, I gradually understand that God is watching our every move, treating everything around us with kindness and accumulating kindness into virtue!

I can't get over it, maybe it's because I care too much. Paying too much attention will make me unhappy. Maybe I shouldn't think so much, or even anything at all. Just let nature take its course. I shouldn't bother myself. Don't think about anything, just live and let nature take its course, and everything else is superfluous.

No matter how you live, there will always be people gossiping, no matter what you do, there will always be people telling you what to do. You talk too much, you say you lack connotation, you are silent, you pretend to be deep, you care, you ask for trouble, you are indifferent, and you are unreasonable. You are serious, saying that you make a fuss, that you are free and easy, and that you stay out of it. No matter how well you do, some people say that you are not good, and no matter how right you do, some people always say that you are wrong. There is no one who is not commented, no one who is not discussed. If you think it's worth it, cherish it. If you feel happy, just wait. If it makes you happy, you like it. Moved, attached. It's not easy to be a man, it's difficult to win the hearts of thousands of people, and it's difficult to say that it's not difficult to be a man. Cultivate a conscience and be a good person.

I just want to go back to England as soon as possible, and I don't want to stay at home for another minute. It's inexplicable and unreasonable. See each other late, why bother yourself. Ironically, you have to help me when I can do everything by myself, and finally you have to start scolding me for doing nothing.

Just be quiet, why bother yourself.

First, life should be like this: get something in the first half of your life, and then lose it one by one in the second half.

Second, thinking that with wings, it will become a bird; I thought that after I became a bird, I could be free. Now, with the wings of expectation, I can only fly in a narrow space and lose my freedom. -How many meters?

There used to be a smile in my life, but it finally dissipated like a fog. That smile has become a swift river deeply buried in my heart, and I can't swim across it. The sound of that river became my desperate song day and night.

Fourth, life is a regretless experience, telling us that there is no need to regret, no need to regret. Many times we are disappointed, resentful and hurt because we often regret it. Facing the past, people in the past can't forget, give up and let go. In fact, the past is over, and regret is useless, and regret is also unfavorable. Why torture today's heart with the past? It's easy to put you down, and it's quiet to give you up.

Five, people are quiet and then secure, secure and secure, secure and intelligent, intelligent and enlightened, and enlightened and gained.

Six, just be quiet, why bother.

When you are high, your friends know who you are; when you are low, you know who your friends are. Friends may not be suitable, but we must be in the same boat. You don't have to be inseparable, but you must cherish each other. It doesn't have to be icing on the cake, but it must be timely. The most rare thing about friendship is that after parting, we will always remember each other. In fact, friends are like this, you don't need to think about them, because you will never forget them!

Eight, if you laugh, someone will laugh with you, but it is not necessarily true, just laugh; If you cry, if someone cries with you, it is naturally true feelings and should be engraved in your heart. Our mistakes are: treating laughter as happiness, crying as sadness, accepting laughter gladly, refusing to cry rashly, and finally intoxicated with laughter and lost in crying. Keep a clear head when you laugh, have a wise heart when you cry, look down at the world when you laugh, and examine your soul when you cry.

Nine, any romantic movie, the deepest moment of love, is the end of the play. Next, it is inevitable that two pots of hot water will slowly cool down. Therefore, always keep a step away from each other, which actually leaves a little way out for yourself. When one day the other person is not as sweet to you as when he first met you, the disappointment will not be so deep. The smaller the gap between hope and disappointment, the longer this relationship can last.

10. No matter how beautiful it is, it is a thing of the past, and it has long been dusty. No matter how good it is, it has become a cloud. You don't need to recall the dusty past, and you don't need to care about vicissitudes. The original story is like a kite. It's just a broken thread that falls in the palm of your hand, telling the changes of time.

Eleven, when a person has negative emotions, all the pressure will be amplified, the unknown will become negative fear, and the mood will be good or bad and he will not talk. Read books, listen to songs, talk to someone, take a deep breath and find your own way to vent. Life is not so good, but it's not so bad. People can't be defeated by their imaginary fears, nor can they be afraid of what you don't know. Only by mastering all the known can we move towards the unknown in the future.

Twelve, life is like a road, be patient. More satisfaction, less complaints; More sincerity and less hypocrisy; More happiness, less bitterness; More understanding, less confusion. Life is actually very simple, I figured it out, every day is sunny; Happiness is not far away, so cherish it. It is right beside you.

Thirteen, stubbornness means that we will know the truth, know the answer and know the result at some point. However, I am desperately looking for excuses and loopholes in my heart, even hoping for an illusory opportunity and unwilling to accept the reality. In this sense, everyone is stubborn sometimes, and the people and things that make you stubborn are the most important to you.

14. Growth means that even if you are heartbroken and dying, you still go to class as usual the next day and go to work as usual. No one knows what happened to you, and no one cares what happened to you. Only you know your future. Since the explanation is not clear, I won't explain it. No one cares about your youth, and don't let others affect your youth.

Qq Space Healing Talk: The sunshine is so good, why bother yourself?

1. Living in this world, you will inevitably encounter unpleasant things. The road you have traveled and the scenery you met along the way, you can't stay or look back. Brother Lu, along the way, has happiness, regret and loss. When you are alone, you will find that the world is really quiet. Many times, you need to face it alone. Life is a long way, so it's better to rely on yourself.

2. Anger is to punish yourself with other people's mistakes; Worry is torturing yourself with your own mistakes; Regret is destroying yourself with helpless past events; Worry is to scare yourself with virtual risks; Loneliness is to imprison yourself with a self-made cell; Inferiority is destroying yourself with the strengths of others. Give up these, maybe you can be happier!

Don't cry for the past, the past has passed. Don't worry about the future, it hasn't arrived yet. Live in the present and live beautifully.

There are no eternal friends and enemies in the world, only eternal interests. The essence of interpersonal communication is actually the exchange of interests. If you don't understand the principle of interest exchange, you can enjoy prosperity today and suffer the consequences tomorrow, even if your amazing talent can only be reduced to useless white paper!

5, we always like to take "let nature take its course" to perfunctory the thorns and bumps on the road of life, but rarely admit that the real let nature take its course is actually not importune after doing its best, not inaction.

6. There are so many people, how many people can walk into the atrium; Years are long and few people can kill time. People come and go, who will stay, who will come and who will worry; Flowers bloom and fall, who misses, who is lonely, and the fallen flowers flow intentionally. How many missed, regret life can't say; How many farewells can't keep you at a loss. I used to care for each other, but now I forget the rivers and lakes; There was nothing to say before, but now there is nothing to do.

7. You don't have to be worldly and hypocritical to be a man. There are chips of kindness and sincerity. The world is everywhere. If a person is sincere to you, he will take out his whole heart. A love that values you is worthy of your sincerity. Whether living in poverty or wealth, a person's true feelings are the most expensive; No matter the appearance is ordinary or outstanding, a kind heart is the most beautiful; Don't let the round mirror break, don't let the clear water muddy, it is really hard to get, please don't waste it; The truth is out of stock, please don't squander it!

8. It's really not easy to walk on the road of life. Everyone must work hard to reap the fruits of life growth. As the saying goes, only if you really work hard, you won't regret it, life will be more likely, and you can find your true value.

9. Don't take everything too seriously. Everything goes with the heart, the depth of feelings gathers, and shallowness goes with it. Look down on everything, let nature take its course, no gain, no loss. Life, how much you underestimate, how much pain is far away from you ... for loneliness, sometimes it is an inner choice; It is often the responsibility of a person. The only way of life, the compulsory course of life, that is, only experience will understand.

10, a person's mood, life, not rely on the care of others, but manage their own hearts, put their hopes on others, it is inevitable that they will be disappointed, it is better to gamble on their own dreams, maybe they can be more practical. You are your own sun, you don't need others to illuminate you, don't think too highly of yourself, the world can leave anyone; Don't look down on yourself, you are unique in this world, and everyone has their own mission in life.

1 1, our greatest sorrow is that we are lost on the road and can't see the hope ahead; Our worst habit is to live in the present and not know the direction of tomorrow. Sometimes our failure has nothing to do with quality, but the lack of adaptability in difficulties, and persistence has become our longest shortcoming. However, all successful people are not outstanding, but they believe that diligence can make up for their own shortcomings. As long as they endure and persist, success will reveal the truth sooner or later.

12, promise, sometimes, is what liars say to fools. Don't break your heart for the wrong person. Whether anyone loves me or not, I will try to be a lovely person. Don't blame anyone, don't laugh at anyone, don't envy anyone.

13, every day seems to be a cycle, but it is actually a new beginning. It's the same today, not the shadow of yesterday. Repetition means numbness or death. We have to read new books, learn new languages, create new spiritual space and experience new life feelings every day. Only in this way can we remember or forget yesterday, and let today's trek slowly approach tomorrow's dream. Although today is short, achievements will last forever.

14. Some troubles are imaginary, but we regard them as real. Thinking too much will only ruin you, make you uneasy, and make things that are actually good worse. The sunshine is so good, why bother yourself?

15. Time is a wonderful thing. Some people say that time is magical, and no matter how many injuries and unforgettable memories, they can be slowly healed with the passage of time, and time will take away all the good and bad; Others say that time is poison, many memories, many injuries, trapped in the circle of time, deepening your injuries and making you more miserable. In fact, time has been quietly passing, and it has always been a human heart.