How to treat "ordinary people, it is best not to go to the north to develop, life is short and life is very important"?

Young people don't go to the north to develop? I don't agree with this view. Tell me about myself. I was born in a town born after 90. I have been in Shanghai for ten years and have an account. I bought a house and settled down. I am very grateful to this city for giving me more opportunities as a girl from an ordinary background. Then I think young people in Beijing have two advantages-Guangzhou.

If I were in my hometown, I would definitely get married and have children at the right time, and there might be various relationships. If I can't do this, I can't do it. Comments alone can make people panic. But Shanghai won't be like this. I can do what I want. I can have more freedom to stay away from comments and accusations.

In Shanghai, it may not matter if you don't get married at the age of 30, but you must call yourself an old girl in your hometown. Many people in my hometown were forced to get married, but I have the right to choose, and finally I let my parents check. This kind of freedom only exists when the city is open. Then the more developed the city, the more open-minded it is, so young people are suitable for going north to Guangzhou.

I want to do something in my hometown. I always ask someone to help me cook. But in Shanghai, there is absolutely no need to rush administrative efficiency, because once it is not done well, you can complain. Thanks to the perfect supervision mechanism in big cities, I don't need to rely on relationships to do things. At the same time, e-government is also the fastest, and it is often used as a pilot.

For young people, there are more opportunities in big cities, not to mention relationships. The same is true for finding a job. There are countless Fortune 500 companies in Shanghai. You can get in as long as you work hard. Recruitment is relatively fair and there are many jobs.

For ordinary people, I am satisfied with this relative fairness. This is the key reason why I insist on staying here.

Finally, I think young people should go to big cities more. I also listed two benefits I felt in big cities. Of course, big cities also have disadvantages, such as high housing prices, but there is always hope when there is opportunity. I like the way that hard work pays off.

Above, blessing.

As an ordinary person from the countryside, he has been wandering in Beijing for several years. "Ordinary people, it is very important not to go to Beishangguang to develop their lives" misled "ordinary people" from the heart. It is impossible to understand "life" without going to live in Beishangguang for a few years.

I am a child from a small county in the mountainous area of the 18th Northwest Line. I left the county for the first time after the college entrance examination. The university spent four years in a city in the province. Internship in Beijing before graduation. After staying in Beijing for several years, I have a little understanding of the gap between Beishangguang and Northwest China. This gap is not only reflected in income, but also in ideas, education, social services, job opportunities and so on.

When I was a child, I thought to myself, I want to be a teacher and a policeman. I never thought that I would become a technician engaged in research and development in an Internet company. The work scenes and opportunities that often appear in those TV dramas are in front of your eyes. All this can only be realized when you see it. Are you ready for "ordinary people"?

There are many opportunities in Beishangguang.

What can Beishangguang give you? From the 18th county to Beijing, I know that a person's life choices are not only doctors, teachers, civil servants, but also craftsmen, bar owners, local companies, Baidu, Ali, Netease and various entrepreneurs. It is here that you gradually know who you are. What kind of job is suitable for? Here are the best resources for you to be yourself.

Beishangguang can realize his dream.

A friend once asked me, what kind of work is suitable for girls? I casually said that there are many jobs in operation, new media and human resources. My friend said it was the first time I heard that new media was suitable for girls, and my mother always said that teachers and doctors were the most suitable.

Beishangguang has new media operations, product research and development, and even has the opportunity to contact the products of hundreds of millions of users to change an industry and realize their dreams.

Cheng Wei of Didi is lucky, starting a business once, with assets of tens of billions in just a few years from 0 to today. This is his dream-to change the way people travel and solve the problem of difficulty in taking a taxi and going out.

This is the case in Beishangguang. He brings you not only a few hundred dollars a day, but also makes you believe that the world can get what you want as long as you have dreams and dare to work hard. There is a saying that "Beishangguang does not believe in tears", but Beishangguang believes in strength.

I learned the word "frog in the well" when I was a child, and I didn't understand the meaning of this word more and more until I lived in Beijing for several years.

I used to feel very powerful when I was at school. I rank in the top three in my major and get a scholarship every year. When I came to Beijing, I gradually felt as small as dust.

Some friends work in companies such as BAT. When chatting, I learned that most of them graduated from well-known universities, and friends of the same age who were born in 1990s now earn 2W+ a month, excluding quarterly bonuses and stock options with mid-year dividends. This is what is called: people who are better than you often work harder than you.

After the college entrance examination, a student will return to his hometown in the provincial capital and work in state organs or other places after graduation. We can judge that he will never leave this place or touch new industries in his life.

Ordinary people, don't go to the north to develop, life is short, life is the most important! How does a person know that the life he wants is the present life until I see the outside world? If a person doesn't try more choices, how can he know which one suits him best? Zhang Ailing once said: Be famous before it's too late. Let me say that you should go out early. So, ordinary people, come on!

And "life is important". I am happy to see these five words.

The leader of my last company left less than a week after joining the company. Why? The family forced him to go back to be a teacher! His family lives in a small county in Guizhou, and his parents, uncles and aunts are both teachers, so they have been strongly opposed to his travel to Guangzhou, because they just feel that Peking University is under great pressure and teachers are good.

This has been nagging for years. My leader had been fighting hard, but his father was seriously ill that year. My father's greatest wish is that my leader can be around, and he still thinks that being a teacher is the best for him.

My leader is a filial man, and finally he made up his mind to go back to his hometown to be an ordinary teacher and enjoy an ordinary life. I didn't really understand it at that time. He also told me: "It's really tiring to work hard in Guangzhou in recent years and work overtime every day. I think it's good to go home and have a rest. "

So I left after a week's employment, with my daughter-in-law. At that time, they got married soon. Because the leader has given instructions before, I occasionally contact the leader. Their family has many connections in the local school, so the leader easily entered a middle school as a teacher with a monthly salary of about 3500.

By the way, the leader is a brand manager in Guangzhou, with a monthly salary of about 20 thousand.

Almost half a year, the leader suddenly told me that he planned to go back to Guangzhou.

I quickly asked what was wrong.

"In the past six months, I have borrowed one or two thousand just to borrow money, and I really can't live."

It turns out that in my hometown, although my life is leisurely, my salary is too low. Their families are all teachers, with low salaries and little savings. He spends more than 3000 yuan a month. According to him, a bad cold will cost more than half of the salt water in a few days.

His daughter-in-law is pregnant again, and all kinds of inspections and shopping are simply stressful. Besides, his father's illness also needs a lot of money to support.

In the past six months, their families have also begun to realize this problem and agreed to let him go back to Guangzhou.

As a result, there is a "life" in small places. The price of this kind of life is that you can't get sick, you can't have higher consumption, you can't invite people to dinner casually, and you can't take a trip. ...

Do you think this is called "survival" or "life"?

Why not go to Beishangguang? Even ordinary people should go out and see how big the world is, life is very important and life is short. How do you know how high your ceiling is without spelling?

When I was in high school, I had a classmate who always got good grades in school and got very good exam results, and entered a famous school in Beijing. When he graduated, his family managed to get him into one of the four state-owned banks. His salary and treatment are good and he is taken care of by his family. Coupled with his major and academic qualifications, his promotion, salary increase and career prospects are very optimistic.

However, my classmate is very stubborn, resolutely refused the arrangement at home and stayed in Beijing to work in an unknown foreign company. After several years of hard work, he got along well in the enterprise where he worked, and now he has become the top of the enterprise, and obtained a large proportion of performance shares. His annual dividend and salary are several times higher than those of the presidents of local and municipal banks.

At the same time, with an economic mind to see the rise and fall of housing prices, I invested in real estate in Beijing, completed the initial capital accumulation and realized economic freedom after several starts and changes.

Beishangguang is a gathering place for talents and elites. Anyone who works hard in Beishangguang will face greater difficulties and the cost of living will be very high. But corresponding to the difficulties, there are also many opportunities to choose. This is the * * * knowledge of people who work hard in Beishangguang. If you are discouraged from going to Beijing and Guangzhou because of the high cost of living and fierce competition, what is your courage for life? How to win opportunities?

Go to Beishangguang, feel the pace of life, work and competitive environment in big cities, challenge your upper limit of ability, try to touch your "ceiling" and have a brave journey without regrets. If you just listen to others and flinch, you will flinch before fighting. This spirit is not desirable. Not giving yourself a definition of "ordinary people" and not trying is a sign of being responsible to the Ministry of Life.

What are ordinary people? Low education? There are many people with low academic qualifications, but they are famous. Insufficient ability? How do you know if your ability can be stronger without some exercise? Haven't you seen the world? I have seen the world when I arrived in Beishangguang. Don't you have any special skills Start from the basics, start from the grassroots, cultivate your own strengths step by step, and let yourself grow rapidly. Beishangguang is a big stage for cultivating people. After working hard here, ordinary people may become "unusual", while those who are full of fear and retreat to Beishangguang can only be "ordinary people" all their lives.

Life is hard and important, but everyone is fighting for their own value and making life better. If you don't fight for it, you can live a life of "ordinary people" who can see your head at a glance. I believe no one wants to do this. Therefore, my point is: fearless, go to fight, going to the north is not terrible, what is terrible is that you have no courage.

Ordinary people don't go to big cities to develop, is it to make the three generations ordinary? Ordinary people should go to big cities to develop.

I have a brother in my hometown. His family is poor. Both parents are farmers, and they have never got ahead. He said, I must work hard outside for several years. After graduating from college, he went to Beijing alone.

I have been wandering in Beijing for several years, and I heard that the years he worked hard were really difficult. Every year, the hard seat ticket to go home is broken. It takes 20 hours from Beijing to his home. He will go home in a hurry during the New Year, buy something for his parents, and then go back to the cabin he rented in Beijing.

Although these years have been hard, they have had a great influence on him.

Now he finally has his own house in Beijing. It's not big, but at least I have a small home with peace of mind. But also married a wife, gave birth to a child, and the child also fell into a Beijing hukou.

This is a case of ordinary people's counterattack. Although his life is very hard, his children have access to the best educational resources and can enjoy a better environment. The growing environment will affect a person's life.

Moreover, in recent years, working hard outside and broadening your horizons is a test of personal spirit and will.

So I think ordinary people should go to big cities more.

As for the subject, life is short and life is very important. Is life all about entertainment and relaxation? Everyone says that sometimes work can lead to no personal life.

Then I want to ask, isn't work a part of your life?

If everyone looks at work and life separately, the two will never be balanced. In fact, your job is a part of life, and we should combine it into one.

Whether you choose to go to Beishangguang or stay in your hometown, there will be hardships and gains. Just think it over before making a decision. Don't regret it.

The above is my opinion, hoping to help the subject.

Ordinary people had better not go to Beishangguang. This sentence still has some constructive suggestions for those who start to work hard when they are old. For example, after working in a small city for a lifetime, I want to go to Beishangguang when I am old. I advise you to save it Life is short, and living is really important. Because you haven't experienced the subway in the morning rush hour in a big city, you don't know that there is another "squeeze to death" S method. The subway in Beijing is almost packed in the morning, and it's not "you" every day. I rush to work with this quarrel almost every day.

Of course, the pace of work is also very fast. I have seen a friend get out of the subway in the morning in order not to be late for punching in, just to punch in a normal card. Sometimes I really feel tired in a big city when I see this scene. Why not go back to your hometown and find a stable job to support yourself?

But for young people, it is still problematic to have this idea of being content with the status quo early. As the subject said, life is short, and it is precisely because life is short that you have to live a colorful and interesting life. There are many things in big cities that you can't imagine staying in your hometown.

Students are basically teachers in their hometown, with a monthly salary of 4000. After working for a year, they began to teach while taking care of the baby. Before they get married, they think not only about life in front of them, but also about poetry and distance. After marriage, I found that life was only in front of me, so I took a few broken poems that everyone recited every day in my textbook and taught them again and again year after year. They have to take care of children and old people, and they can't go anywhere. After graduating from the same major, you recorded the teaching video of excel, realizing self-media. He can't use the shortcut key of copy and paste. He saw your video and laughed at you like an S-bag, doing nothing every day. Then you explained that you are from the media. As a result, he asked you what is self-media and explained it for a long time. The more he listens, the more he thinks you are doing C sales.

So the difference between living in a big city and a small city lies not only in the level of income, but also in the limitation and narrowness of thinking, because the people and things you contact are different, and how much money you earn is often positively related to the expansion of your thinking and the distance you can see!

If I say what I regret most so far, I will say that I chose Beipiao. If I say what is the most meaningful thing in my life at present, I will still say that I chose to drift north, because there are opportunities and challenges everywhere, just like a customs clearance game in life, which makes you feel difficult but enjoy it.

As a person who has worked hard in Beijing, I really feel that life is short and important, so I should work hard to develop in Beishangguang. Because everyone who has been in Beishangguang knows what the outside world is like.

My university is in Tianjin. After working in Tianjin for five years after graduation, I suddenly felt that "the world is so big, I want to see it". So I resolutely quit my job in a public institution and chose to go to Beijing for development. Because I don't want to come out to make a living, and I don't want to see my future at a glance. Although lucky enough to enter the simple mode, life is not so colorful and boring.

Of course, I also admit that there were not so many interesting things at that time. I was bent on going to Beijing to play, and I left my original unit, which may be wrong. But I never regret the choice of going to Beijing, because Beijing really opened a different door for me, full of colorful choices.

Even if foreign classical operas and musicals come to China to perform, they usually only go to Beishangguang. Classic plays are also mostly in the north and south. In addition, there are some second-tier cities, but there are few classic dramas, let alone small cities on the 18th line.

Concert? Of course, it is also the most in Beishangguang. In other words, Beishangguang has concentrated more than 80% of the country's cultural and entertainment resources. When Victoria's Secret Show came to China, wasn't it also held in Shanghai?

Even smaller underground bands and indie bands are abundant in the north and Guangzhou, not to mention Live House, a place where people watch performances.

I don't need to elaborate on this. Why else do so many people drift north? There are many opportunities for political, economic and cultural centers. Resumes are all well-known companies, and there are many more opportunities in Tianjin than before.

Work may be hard, but life can also be wonderful. When I was working in Beijing, I went to a top 500 foreign company. On the first day of work, I get off work at six. Nothing has changed in the whole office. Nobody gets off work. I am busy with what I am doing. It's already eight o'clock. Yes, I am a newcomer, and the workload on the first day of employment is the workload of working until eight o'clock at night.

But I think life is still very beautiful. Usually work a little harder, and the weekend will be full of blood for two days. My friend and I bought an annual ticket to the park, went to the park once a week, took a bus to Xiangshan if we wanted to climb the mountain, and it was my record to reach the top in 45 minutes. There are many places in Beijing that want to eat delicious food. Beijing offices in various regions can be selected at will.

Therefore, as long as you are willing to work hard, life will not be too bad, and it will get better and better!

In fact, this view should be reversed. According to my cognition, "ordinary people should go to Beishangguang for development. After all, life is short and worth fighting for. "

My home is in the county town of 18 line, and I grew up in the county town. Later, I traveled to Shenzhen and Guangzhou for work reasons and lived in a big city. I found that it is really different from the county.

There are several things that big cities can't compare with small cities!

Take Internet work as an example. Many small cities don't even have Internet-related jobs, and even if they do, they don't have much room for development unless they start their own businesses and toss about some Internet projects.

Some of my technical friends have fewer opportunities to work in the town.

Therefore, the same personal ability, in different cities, the space to play is completely different.

A big supermarket opened in our county last month, and it was crowded with people as soon as it opened. No wonder most people have to entrust others or cross counties to buy things. Then after the county is opened, don't bother. Food, clothing, housing and transportation is a one-stop solution for large supermarkets, and you can buy anything directly.

Living in a big city is very convenient, with three meals a day and all kinds of takeout. Fresh vegetables are placed directly every day, and each platform delivers them to your door for half an hour.

The convenience of life can greatly improve efficiency, especially for some hard-working young people. It's a good deal to have so much time left.

When you stay in a big city, you want to study in your spare time on weekends. You have dozens of weekends a year to have such learning opportunities.

Now there are various communities and circles, and all kinds of offline salons will be organized on weekends to brainstorm offline.

Whether it is for the purpose of learning or meeting people, you can gain a lot.

In small cities, this kind of learning opportunity is very rare.

My personal opinion is that ordinary people should go to big cities more. Compared with small cities, big cities have far better advantages than small cities in addition to high rents and high consumption levels. There is a saying that if you don't work hard in big cities, your children will still work hard in big cities in the future. Instead of this, it is better to spell some achievements first and give children a higher starting point!

Well, that's my opinion on this issue, and I hope it will inspire you.

Ordinary people want to live an extraordinary life. It is recommended to go to Beishangguang for development. Because in a big city, you just have to work hard, but in a small place, you can only rely on the internet. This is my opinion all along, so I can't agree with the topic.

Now I will use my own experience to talk about the benefits of going to Beishangguang.

In the early 1990s, I came to work in Shanghai. At that time, most rural families were in a state of poverty. At that time, the rural youth either realized the ideal of "jumping out of the farm gate" by entering higher schools and universities, or chose to learn a craft, travel all over the countryside and support their families by craft. Working in Shanghai at that time was only the choice of a few people.

When a person comes to a strange city, he will be discriminated and rejected at first. At that time, the "xenophobia" in Shanghai was still very serious. It is not only reflected in the attitude of local people towards foreigners, but also in the policy level. Migrant workers are sent home as "blind refugees".

But because I saw the gap between my hometown and Shanghai, I secretly made up my mind to find a way to stand in this city. As long as there is this belief, there will be a kind of power to inspire people.

At the beginning, it was purely to make money and improve life, but this city will constantly change people. Here you can meet many successful people, come into contact with many new things and learn a lot of useful knowledge. There always seems to be a mysterious force pushing you forward. These are intangible resources that ordinary small places cannot enjoy. I have been thinking, if I leave Shanghai, where can I find such a resource-rich city?

In fact, in retrospect, I feel that the city of Shanghai has changed ordinary people like me. Although they are not successful people, they are more involved in wine tables and cards than their peers who work in their hometown. They lack the Shanghai spirit that we are willing to struggle and learn.

One of the students with the best grades in those years worked as a civil servant in his hometown, but when he came into contact with him, it was difficult to talk to him except for his amazing amount of alcohol. He himself said that his life would not be complete until he retired and landed safely. In my hometown, a hardworking schoolmaster will become a very ordinary person. Here, we must thank Shanghai!

I recently opened a physical store in my hometown. After operating for half a year, I feel the gap between my hometown and Shanghai even more. Many prices in my hometown exceed those in Shanghai, but the income gap with Shanghai is still very large. And no matter what you do, you can't do without finding someone to eat, giving gifts and asking for help. There is really no way to compare administrative efficiency with a city like Shanghai.

To sum up, if I meet a young man, if he just wants to suffer for a while and doesn't want to be so mediocre all his life, I will definitely persuade him to go to Beishangguang for development. After all, the stage in first-tier cities is bigger there.

I am a tailor, I hope my sharing can help you!

Young people, it is best not to go to the north to develop, and I don't agree with this concept.

I also stayed in my hometown city for a long time. During my working life, I began to engage in real estate sales. At first, it was good. Later, there were no items to sell, so I went to find them again. As a result, things are not as good as people think, so I can only rely on relationships and knowledge. Finally, when I was desperate, I chose to leave the city.

At that time, I had not traveled far by myself, and I was still catching a cold. I told my family that I didn't agree to go to Shanghai, that Shanghai was expensive and the house price was high, and that a girl was not at ease to go. Finally, I insisted on going and wanted to go out before getting married. Being alone in Shanghai, I was a little unaccustomed at first, but I gradually got used to it. When I was engaged in real estate sales, I gradually learned to read and distinguish authenticity. I have gradually gained a foothold in this city. In this huge city, I can learn a lot besides making money. Will not run around because of food and clothing, and get along well with colleagues. I am full of confidence in life, and my mentality is getting better and better in the competition with customers. I won't bend over for five buckets of rice, and no one will look down on anyone. Everyone is too busy to point fingers.

Sometimes, when I have time, I go to the book bar to read. I am familiar with the southeast and northwest of Shanghai. I go out alone, and I can go wherever I want. Here I gradually understand how important economic independence is!

The pace of life in this city is very fast, and the competitive pressure is great. At the same time, it will also face many opportunities. In the days of wandering away from home, only material and spiritual life can bring you a sense of security. Here, money comes to you, not you.

There are three advantages to going to Beishangguang:

First, stay away from pointing fingers around and change your food and clothing problem.

Second, you can live well without any relationship background.

Third, there are many opportunities, which will also enrich your horizons and be full of hope.

When you are young, you'd better go to Beishangguang for a trip, as big as your heart is. This platform is fair. As long as you are good enough, people will naturally value you, so that you can learn to compete with the enemy, gradually integrate, and go further in social undertakings.