What should the daughter-in-law's mother-in-law do? What is the basis?

As the saying goes, in the first 30 years, I will look at my mother-in-law, and in the last 30 years, I will look at how my mother-in-law treats her daughter-in-law, so the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be treated equally in the next 30 years. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a big problem that is difficult to solve, especially during the confinement of daughter-in-law. As a mother-in-law, we must do a few things to make the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law more harmonious.

Some people have high emotional intelligence, and they know that if they please their mother-in-law, the family's life will be very harmonious, so my bag is not so worry-free, which leads to smog all day. Childbirth is a very important period for women. If you don't have a good rest, there will be many roots in the future. In the meantime, if your mother-in-law takes care of her daughter-in-law, it's best to be caring and attentive, listen to her as much as possible and don't tell her what to do. Of course, you can also communicate with her wife in a more comfortable way.

During the confinement period, the parturient needs to make up all the vitality consumed by the body, so she can't do heavy work during this period. At this time, she can only tire her mother-in-law. This kind of kindness, as a daughter-in-law, will definitely be remembered, such as washing clothes, cooking and taking care of the baby.

As a mother-in-law, don't be opinionated and think that everything you say is right. Sometimes, you should also consider what your daughter-in-law thinks. For example, on the issue of eating, you can think more about what you like to eat as a child and pay attention to vegetarian nutrition.

To sum up, during confinement, let the daughter-in-law have a good rest, eat well, listen to her opinions more, and let the other party feel respected. Some mothers-in-law especially like to use the experience of the older generation to make decisions for their daughters-in-law, but now the thoughts of the two generations have long been different. When things happen, you need to communicate more and don't make decisions without authorization. After all, confinement is also a scientific confinement. Every mother-in-law spends her time with her daughter-in-law, so she should be able to experience her feelings. If she treats it carefully, she will always be treated accordingly.