How to communicate with colleagues at work?

In the second week of employment, I had to take the high-speed train to Jiangxi on business with three unfamiliar colleagues because of work reasons, which stumped me.

At that time, as a newcomer in the workplace, I was very anxious and couldn't sleep at night. How to communicate with colleagues along the way has become a problem that I have to face.

I believe that in the eyes of many newcomers in the workplace, everything in the company is unfamiliar when they first join the company. In the face of colleagues who will get along with each other in their future work, some people deliberately lower their posture and choose to cater to and "blend in" with some small groups. Some people are so arrogant that they always have him if they don't agree with each other. Some people will only bury themselves in hard work and ponder their own problems, and are afraid to consult experienced colleagues.

In other words, how to communicate effectively with colleagues at work has become a skill that everyone in the workplace must learn and master.

Here, we need to pay attention to five points of communication with colleagues:

See if the other person is free at the moment.

(Suitable for colleagues to ask questions)

At that time, on the high-speed rail, as a newcomer in the workplace, I wanted to take the opportunity of traveling together and ask an experienced colleague. Colleague brother Liang was on the phone with the project leader at that time. I rushed up and said the question I wanted to ask directly, ignoring that he was on the phone.

It is conceivable that Brother Liang's face changed on the spot, and he hung up the phone and stopped communicating with me. I still can't forget the way he looked at me.

If you give me another chance, I think I will do this:

Seeing my colleague on the phone means that I am busy now. If I am knowledgeable, I will stand aside and wait for my colleague to hang up before consulting.

(This refers to the need for empathy when communicating with colleagues in the workplace. Imagine that when you are busy, a new colleague comes to ask questions. You don't know each other well. Will you talk to him? You can tell me the answer in the comments section. )

(2) Before asking questions, think about it yourself and ask colleagues with ideas.

On the one hand, it is to see whether colleagues' views are in line with their own, on the other hand, it is to exercise their independent thinking ability. )

There are still 1 hour before we get off the bus, but my problem has not been solved.

At this time, I asked myself, can this problem really be solved? Have I thought about other solutions? My colleagues don't accompany me on a business trip today. What should I do if I encounter these problems on a business trip alone?

Colleagues can't help me all the time, so they have to bite the bullet and think of several corresponding solutions to the problem. In fact, after thinking, I can get the answer myself, just need a clear voice to affirm me. At this time, you can ask experienced colleagues with your own ideas.

(3) Pay attention to the tone of communication and ask questions with an open mind, instead of a condescending boss greeting employees.

At work, colleagues are not obliged to answer your questions, so it is very important to have your own attitude in order to get answers. )

After getting off the high-speed train, I was anxious to know the solution to the problem, so I grabbed my colleague who was ahead and asked him why he didn't answer my question just now. My colleague looked at me and smiled helplessly.

One of my colleagues can't take it anymore. He said to me, "Smile, you are asking questions to others, not questions. Do you think your tone and attitude just now are like the boss? "

Thanks to his reminder, I realized that I was asking for help, and I needed to put on a straight posture. My colleagues are not obliged to answer these questions.

(4) When there are different opinions in communication, it is necessary to talk about the matter, not the person.

It is disgraceful to quarrel with colleagues because of disagreement. )

My colleagues and I didn't eat on the high-speed train for several hours, so as soon as we arrived at the station, we went to the nearest restaurant for dinner. At dinner, I threw the question out again and expressed my opinion.

My colleague Brother Liang directly rejected my idea. He said that according to your thinking, you can't finish the data.

I hit back angrily: "How do you know this won't work? You haven't tried. Hehe, I don't think you have a chance to try. After all, I am in charge of this project now. "

The elderly colleague sitting next to me reminded me: "Smile, we are discussing the feasibility of the solution now. It's normal to have different opinions, but don't attack personally. I know brother Liang called just now, and you are still ignoring your business. "

This suddenly saw through my inner career.

After you calm down, think about what you just said. It's really not safe I have no advantage in the conversation and lost my dignity, which left a bad impression on my colleagues. After a while, my colleagues at work will acquiesce that I am emotional, rather than doing things in a professional manner.

Therefore, when the workplace is budding, we must remember to communicate with colleagues at work, "talk about things, don't talk about people", and engrave this purpose in our lungs.

⑤ Remember to look at each other sincerely and say "Thank you ~" after consultation.

Who can refuse a polite and open-minded person? )

During the business trip, several of our colleagues stayed in Jiangxi for four days. After the meeting every day, I ask my colleagues with a bunch of questions. Everyone has been familiar with it from the beginning. Every time my colleagues see me coming with a notebook and pen, they start to say, "Why are there 100,000 people here again?"

At the end of every question, I will sincerely thank my colleagues who have helped me. A "thank you" is the most basic courtesy.

I overheard a chat between my colleagues about me.

The older colleague said, "You see people are laughing. I haven't been in the company long. Every time you ask a bunch of questions, you will know how to say thank you. The little girl is very polite. It's much better than the new one, and it will become a full member next month. I guess I must have turned positive before laughing. "

This can make me very happy. In fact, it is a very casual detail, which can be recognized by colleagues in the office and set up a better image among colleagues.

Newcomers in the workplace join the work, which means they don't know how to ask more questions. No matter what the relationship is, you should keep basic manners, which will be more conducive to your career development.

Secondly, we need to understand that the essence of work is to get paid.

Then colleagues exist because the company's business is not completed by the boss alone, so employees are needed.

I am an employee recruited by my boss. I have an employment relationship with my boss and a cooperative relationship with my colleagues.

Knowing this, it will be easier to communicate with colleagues at work. We all start with cooperation.

If you have any questions you don't understand at work, you can ask your colleagues. (Experienced colleagues, I mean study more! )

Forming good communication habits with colleagues is more conducive to work. The workplace is originally a place for promotion and salary increase, and it is lucky to make like-minded friends. If not, don't be disappointed, because it is lucky to have a group of colleagues fighting side by side.