What behaviors of parents are unreliable?

While looking at the child in the mouth, holding a mobile phone to brush the sense of existence in the circle of friends; When playing with children, I secretly turn on the computer to watch League of Legends ... If I want to test how unreliable my unreliable parents are, I just need to keep him/her and my baby indoors for half a day, and I can draw a conclusion. Look at these behaviors. Are you there?

Unreliable practice 1: shake the child hard.

Phenomenon statement: Most of them happen to the father and his baby who are in a daze. Once they have children, their excitement has nowhere to go. When they see that the baby is happy, they will shake it until it becomes a horrible "big-headed baby". Harm and reason: "Big-headed baby" has a medical term called: baby shake syndrome. This is a kind of infant brain injury caused by violent shaking, which can lead to cerebral hemorrhage in severe cases. The baby has a big head but weak neck muscles. So when you shake him, his head and neck muscles can't support his head, and his head will move back and forth, causing internal injuries, cerebral hemorrhage or nerve fiber damage. According to the data of American Academy of Pediatrics, about 20% of the infants who died were injured by "rocking baby syndrome", 1/3 infants died immediately after being violently shaken, and the surviving infants also suffered permanent brain damage.

Suggested method: Parents should know the acceptable level of children of a certain age. The correct way is to hold your baby's head and neck with your palm and shake it gently. Try not to advocate this way of sleeping. It is best to let the child lie flat on the cot and learn to fall asleep slowly.

Unreliable practice 2: throwing children.

Phenomenon: Most parents who leave their children are bear fathers who can't control their emotions. When children giggle happily, parents will naturally be affected. Father should learn self-control while being simple and happy. Don't think that throwing a child into the air once will catch it next time! Harm and reason: falling out of control from a height quickly, no matter which part of the body falls, will cause irreparable losses. Because the baby's skeletal muscle is in a very immature state of development, the falling intensity of free fall is very strong. If you don't catch it, the consequences will be tragic. Even if caught, the impact of the child's fall can easily cause dislocation or subluxation of the cervical spine.

Suggested method: refuse to do the action of throwing and picking up children. You can do it in another way. It can not only ensure that children fully appreciate the fun of hanging, but also satisfy their parents' wishes. Try to play this game, parents participate together: use a sheet, hold both ends of the sheet respectively, parents stand on both sides, and put the children in. Then the parents slowly echoed the baby in one direction. Remember to slow down the frequency, like gently shaking the hammock. This game is not only safe, but also brings good memories to the baby, such as rippling in the mother's womb. Time control in 1 minute, not long.

Unreliable practice 3: smoking in front of children

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Phenomenon statement: It seems to be talking about Papa Bear again. Smoking in front of the children? If you smoke in front of a baby under 3 years old, you are looking for a father bear. If you are still afraid to smoke in front of a three-year-old child, you should remember that you may have to taste the bitter fruit alone in the future. Because every teenager who loves smoking when he grows up has memories of being smoked by his father in his childhood. Harm and reason: smoking is harmful to health, even the truth written on the cigarette case is applicable to adults and children. The most common diseases are respiratory diseases, cardiovascular diseases, digestive tract diseases, and even known carcinogenicity as proved by the World Health Organization. It has a greater impact on children. Because children's physiological system and organs are immature, their resistance is weaker than that of adults, and they are easy to absorb harmful poisons in tobacco. In particular, it has an impact on the cranial nerves, resulting in mental retardation. Nicotine in tobacco is a neurotoxin, which can harm people's nervous system.

Suggested method: Smokers must stay away from babies unconditionally! If children want to be healthy all their lives, in fact, as early as when their families are pregnant, they should be psychologically prepared and take effective self-restraint measures. As soon as the child is born, it is necessary to ensure a smoke-free and safe environment at home. If you can't do it, you should also leave it to the family bottom line: smoking in open places such as balconies. Never smoke in front of the children! Because it is not only the health problems caused by passive smoking, but also the action of igniting, which is likely to be the beginning of children imitating dangerous actions, and the consequences will be endless.

Unreliable practice 4: Holding the child to play computer and watch TV.

Phenomenon statement: In the Internet age, playing computer, watching mobile phone and watching TV with children in their arms is a familiar lifestyle. But from a health point of view, have you ever thought about the effects of radiation and inexplicable light and noise on the baby's physiological function? From the perspective of raising children, isn't good living habits imperceptibly affecting the baby from the beginning? Too many parents complain all day that their children don't concentrate on their studies, but concentrate on playing computer or watching TV. I seldom reflect on whether my living habits have long been deeply rooted in my child's subconscious lifestyle. Reflection, reflection, reflection again! Harm and reason: the development of living habits is by no means overnight. Children live between two adults, and it is up to adults to create good living habits and set an example to drive children to develop together. Playing computer, watching mobile phone, watching TV and holding the baby can't satisfy the interaction between parents and children; It can't help them grow and train their various functions in caressing communication. In the long run, the light perception of the screen and the noise of the sound will cause irreversible damage to the baby's vision and hearing, causing distraction and affecting intellectual development.

Suggestion: Care for children should be concentrated. Face-to-face parent-child interaction and communication is too important for Xiaobaobao. They perceive the world through touch. At first, my eyesight developed slowly, but my hearing was good. Therefore, more physical caress, voice communication and eye care with your baby are the most desirable parent-child experiences for your baby.