Long-distance love, talked for two months, I feel that my boyfriend says those words every day, a little speechless, and I don't know how to answer! ! ! Just good morning and good evening!

What can I do to make my boyfriend love himself more? Men value righteousness, while women love righteousness.

Of course, in love, it is better to combine rationality and sensibility. Only when rationality and sensibility exist can we talk about a perfect love.

However, sensibility is something that follows one's own mood, especially in love, which is the result of hormone secretion.

If two people are more emotional than rational when they are in love, they often have more fantasies and expectations about love or each other, which will beautify each other and this relationship. This is the so-called "beauty is in the eye of the beholder".

If a girl is only emotional and seriously irrational in a relationship, it is actually very unfavorable to herself.

So, how do girls stay rational in love?

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First, don't be impulsive.

As the saying goes, "Impulse is the devil", which is true.

In the process of two people falling in love, many girls will be willful and centered on their own ideas.

I always feel that I am the most special and important one and will not be hurt. Therefore, in love, they even get angry with boys intentionally or unintentionally, and sometimes some girls will unscrupulously expose the emotional pain points of boys.

This is absolutely impossible. In emotional relationships, impulse is often the easiest to hurt feelings. If a girl does something impulsive or unreasonable when she is angry, it will hurt her lover's heart.

Over time, a man's heart is broken by a woman, and the worst thing is that it will bring you the ending of breaking up.

Therefore, women in love should not always be impulsive and angry if they want to remain rational.

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Second, forbid your curiosity to explode.

I have a friend named Liu Min. Liu Min and her boyfriend Zhang Lu have been in love for a year. Both of them have good conditions, and they are very suitable and suitable.

Liu Min is a very sensitive girl. She is sensitive to everything that happens around her in life. After getting along with her boyfriend for a long time, Liu Min's sensitivity turned into curiosity and attacked her boyfriend Zhang Lu.

This is actually a very dangerous thing, but Liu Min, who lost her mind in love, didn't realize it at all.

Curious about her boyfriend's previous relationships, Liu Min often asks Wang Lu hysterically about his previous relationships. Wang Lu said, "It didn't matter to you before, but now I just love you."

However, Liu Min, who was carried away by love, never changed his mind and repeatedly asked to satisfy his curiosity.

Finally, one day, Wang Lu was forced to be anxious and annoyed, and they broke up.

Liu Min's irrationality buried his love, and he regretted it.

In fact, if it is in work and life, it is not a bad thing to have a certain degree of curiosity, but it can make work and life progress. But if you are in love and are curious about your boyfriend's past feelings or some private things, the result is often not good.

Therefore, in the process of two people falling in love, girls must restrain their curiosity and not let it develop.

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Third, be rational when you are sad.

For sadness, we have different ways to vent, some girls will choose to cry and let go, and some people choose to go shopping, which is nothing.

However, after quarreling with their boyfriends, some girls will have some other ways to vent, such as going to a hotel to drink, singing and dancing, or even having sex with others to annoy their boyfriends.

Yang Xiaoming is a courier and his girlfriend's name is Nana.

Because Yang Xiaoming often works overtime and sometimes comes home late, Nana always suspects Yang Xiaoming. She often secretly checks her boyfriend's mobile phone when he is taking a shower. When she can't find any valuable information, she starts to get to the bottom of it, insisting on knowing how much rice Yang Xiaoming delivered today, where she went, who can prove it, and so on.

Yang Xiaoming is a man with great dignity. Because she loves Nana, she has never done anything wrong to her. But Nana is often hysterical, and no man can stand it.

Finally, one day, Yang Xiaoming was so upset by Nana's noise that he quarreled with her.

The argument was terrible. Nana thinks that Yang Xiaoming is sorry for herself, so in order to get back at Yang Xiaoming, she had sex with her first love after drinking in a hotel.

Murder will out. Two weeks after it happened, Yang Xiaoming and Nana broke up.

It was not until the moment of breaking up that Nana regretted that she had done something wrong. She cheated on her first. Yang Xiaoming insisted on breaking up with her, and there was nothing anyone could do. Nana lost a boyfriend who really cared about herself.

Therefore, girls must be rational when they are in love and sad. Don't do such a stupid thing as Nana, she will regret it in the end.

In fact, it is normal for two people to bump into each other in love. If there is a problem, two people should sit together and solve it. There is no need to be suspicious, and you can't hurt yourself and each other's feelings like Nana.