My husband is always partial to his family. What should I do?

Husband is always partial to his family, because he treats you too much as one of his own, so he wants his wife to pay for his family indefinitely. This kind of family concept is incorrect, because he has no empathy at all, and really considers his wife's feelings, which will make her feel chilling in the long run. As a wife, it is necessary for her husband to understand that the relationship between husband and wife is higher than anyone else, no matter parents, brothers and sisters, or even children, they can't shake or override this relationship.

It must be uncomfortable for a wife to meet such a husband who is always partial to her family. However, there is nothing that can be done. Rome was not built in a day, so we must be wise and patient. I have a say in this matter, because my husband is always partial to his family, and I was once disheartened and felt that there was no sense of existence. Living with him is a waste of feelings and life. In his eyes, my children's (biological) status is far inferior to his family's, so I am very puzzled. I have discussed this topic with him more than once: Who are you closest to? Isn't his wife and children the first choice? Why is there something delicious and fun, and you will think of your sister's children at the first time, regardless of our girls' feelings?

If you don't feel wronged in silence, a new turn will break out in silence. Because once, because of the trivial matters between children and the eccentricity of her husband, a son under six years old shouted at his father for the first time: "Whose father are you?" I don't know you, go be someone else's father ... "The little guy locked himself in his room for a day and a night, and finally coaxed him to open the door, but he didn't talk to anyone with a cold face. At that time, I was really annoyed, United with my son and resolutely ignored the heartless man. I solemnly proposed to my husband: let's separate, you go back to your own home, you don't have to live and die with my son.

Some people think that everything they do is fair and just, unless they really experience something, they can touch that self-righteous heart. After this incident, my husband suffered a great blow, and then he slowly lost his temper. I am also very pleased. This awakening is really not easy.