Poor grandma often scolds her granddaughter. What should I do if she scolds her badly?

I can understand 60% of what you said, because I had the same experience as you when I was young. This kind of injury also comes from close relatives. Now I can understand this kind of injury and regard it as a gift from heaven. I try my best not to let these injuries really break my heart. Doing so is a high requirement for you at your age now. I can only talk about my opinion from my experience. Your grandmother may be psychologically stimulated, or she may be paranoid. Such people don't need any reason to call names. They are negative about everything in the world and never look for problems from themselves. There is too much pain in her heart that cannot be released. People with this personality have little or no social support, so your grandmother is more miserable than you. If her education level is not high, her understanding of world affairs will become a constraint and encourage her to be more paranoid. In the final analysis, her wishes and basic requirements, that is, her desire for recognition, love and concern from others, are only expressed in another extreme way; These basic wishes can't be met, and the character is even worse. Family members, because they are family members, are the chains of blood. They can't abandon or give up, but they can only be sad, disappointed and miserable. The family's reaction confirmed the old man's expectation: I am the most important, and I can manipulate the joys and sorrows of my family, so I am a great person and a person who can be ignored. I understand grandma's motivation and know that she is more painful than the people she hurts, so there is no need to hate her. Because you are young, have studies, have your own goals, and have no time to compete with grandmothers. Because you are her relative, your mother loves you and knows that your mother will be hurt by her grandmother, it is even more unnecessary to care about her grandmother, love her more and communicate with her more. It's hard to say, her misunderstanding of you may be a helpless move under the pressure of her grandmother. Mother's heart needs your comfort, and her own heart needs combing more. Grandma is old and her days are much less than those of young people. All hardships are wealth and valuable experience on the road to growth. I can understand your inner fatigue and distress. Those who don't understand you will say, "If your family doesn't love you, who else can you love?" Try to adjust yourself quickly. Thank grandma for giving you such a special life experience. Being with someone like grandma, what is your personality that you can't grasp? Because life is not easy to find a worse character. Challenge yourself bravely. If you have the courage and perseverance to tell your grandmother, you will refuel and adjust yourself, right? Come on!