Daughter, your husband's family is rich. What do you think of giving your brother more bride price?

Whether to give a bride price has always been a concern of both men and women.

Some women think that the bride price depends on the man's attitude, and how much bride price is given is directly related to whether the man respects or loves.

Some men think that the bride price can be given, and it is fairer for women to bring it back when they get married.

Indeed, a man should show sincerity when he marries a daughter-in-law, which can be expressed by bride price. However, what can a woman use to repay a man's sincerity when she gets married?

Wang Yuan's parents prefer boys to girls. My brother saw a fight in high school and was dismissed by the school. His parents tried their best to get him to repeat his studies, but he wandered the streets all day, spent all his money without saying a word, and made many gangsters as friends. Finally, his parents had no choice but to let him work outside to make money.

Parents think this can prevent their younger brother from learning badly. Every month, they get a phone call from my brother asking for money. He didn't mean to buy a mobile phone, he meant to buy a computer and spend all his savings at home.

Children who are not loved and recognized by their parents are often the most sensible.

Wang Yuan studies well, but her parents don't like her, saying that raising her is a loss and she doesn't want to waste money on her. She was admitted to the university, but her parents let her go out to work, saying that there was no money for her to study at home.

She has always been an obedient child. After studying, she helped her parents do housework and praised her, but she never got a good word.

My mother always said in front of her that when my brother reaches marriageable age, he can't marry a daughter-in-law if he has no money at home, and then being single will make them look down.

Wang Yuan went to work, leaving only a few hundred yuan of living expenses every month, and sending the rest home. Every time my mother calls, she asks if she has a raise. She never cares whether she is tired from work or not. What she talks about most is her brother's marriage.

She couldn't listen to her mother's sigh, so she worked overtime as much as possible to earn more money and send it home. When others are playing, she looks for hourly workers to make money, gets the money and sends it back.

Wang Yuan worked harder, but her education limited her chances of promotion. Of course, she will envy those who are not as advanced as her in promotion and salary increase. The supervisor kindly advised her to take an academic degree or skill certificate while she was young and earn more money in the future.

She thought it was a very good idea, so she went to an adult university and got a junior college diploma to earn more money.

My mother knows that she spends money indiscriminately, so it is better to send the money home with the tuition so that she can keep it as a dowry in the future. During this period, Wang Yuan's brother got married and had a son, and her parents were very happy. She thinks she can relax. When she can live for herself, her sister-in-law can't stand her brother's idleness and idleness all day. In addition to the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, she insisted on divorce and wanted to take her son away. Finally, her sister-in-law left home cleanly, because their family had no money except the small two-story building that her parents built for her.

Mother asked her to send more money home all day so that she could marry a daughter-in-law for her brother. In recent years, Wang Yuan has clearly seen her position in the family. She wants money, and the rest seems to have nothing to do with her. Her parents don't care about her, they only care about how much money she earns and how much money she can send home.

It seems to be a marriage between men and women.

In order to match up Wang Yuan's brother, his parents didn't ask someone to introduce him, but others were unhappy when they heard that he was divorced and had a son.

When Wang Yuan's mother found out, she complained that Wang Yuan didn't help her brother, but she had money to study and no money to take home.

Wang Yuan met her boyfriend in the study class. His family conditions are good. He has several suites in third-tier cities. His parents are small businesses and are very kind to her. He said that the girl who appreciates her efforts thinks she will make a good wife.

In order not to be known by her parents that she has found a rich husband's family, Wang Yuan has never told her mother, only that she has found a boyfriend, and the family conditions are average. She did this because her family introduced her to an object before, and her mother asked the man for a bride price of 200 thousand. This person directly said that Wang Yuan's mother was selling her daughter, and it was unpleasant to be laughed at and looked down upon. She doesn't want to suffer any more.

However, when Wang Yuan and her boyfriend were traveling abroad, her mother saw on the news that her boyfriend bought her a big-name gift, and decided that her boyfriend was rich, so she tried her best to inquire about his family background.

Wang Yuan knew what her mother thought, but she didn't want to be told that these things were for sale. She didn't tell her much.

When they got married, their parents met. As soon as Wang Yuan's mother saw her boyfriend's mother's style, she knew at once that she had found a rich husband-in-law and got along well.

After returning home, mother said to Wang Yuan: Daughter, your husband's family is very rich, so you should give more bride price to your brother's wife.

Wang Xuan remembered the last time he was ridiculed by others for selling his daughter, and said without thinking, no way.

She didn't want the bride price to ruin her happiness. Her boyfriend said he would give her a hundred thousand bride price, and she didn't intend to take it back. In recent years, she has saved more than 80,000 private money, so just give it to her family.

It is not easy for her parents to raise her. The bride price should be offered by the man. If he doesn't bring back the bride price, he will inevitably be looked down upon.

Wang Yuan's mother wants her to pay more bride price to support her family. It seems understandable to marry her son with her daughter's bride price, but it is unfair for Wang Yuan to base her son's happiness on squeezing her daughter's happiness.

Bride price should not be a stumbling block to marriage. Out of love and respect, the man can give the bride price on his own initiative. The woman has the right to ask for a bride price, but should she give the corresponding dowry as a bride price?

Whether the bride price is more or less is not a windfall, nor is it used by the woman's parents to paste her son. Doing so will make it difficult for her daughter to be a person in her husband's family and be looked down upon by her husband's family.

Some girls want to be filial to their parents, but they can't show their filial piety and become tools to kidnap men. If they want filial piety, they should be filial.

Some parents should not regard their daughters' bride price as the principal of their sons' marrying daughters-in-law, and everyone should settle the accounts. They also have a saying in their hearts, don't trample on the man's sincerity and affect their daughter's marriage and happiness.

Any relationship is mutual. When you ask someone, see what you can respond to them. Don't break the heart of the person who loves you. It's only a matter of time before you leave.