At the age of 34, he went on a blind date. As soon as the man heard that he wanted a bride price of 200,000, he left. Am I wrong?

You are not wrong, what is wrong is this era.

In this era when love is already a luxury, marriage seems to be a material-based transaction. It is not someone's fault that girls want a car, a house and a bride price when they get married. It is an illusion brought to us by the times.

Marriage has never been a business, but many people in life regard marriage as a business. There is a boy in our village. When getting married, the family asked for a bride price of188,000. The boy's parents are hardly angry. After all, at that time, our local bride price was about 30 thousand to 50 thousand.

However, for the sake of children's life happiness, the family still has enough money. However, this marriage was covered with material color from the beginning, and the married life was really unhappy.

Needless to say, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, and the relationship between husband and wife is not necessarily good. Two people's lives are more like business partners, rather than real life partners.

In fact, there are many such marriages in life. Two people joined the marriage because of love, but in the end it seems that they came together because of money.

There is nothing wrong with you asking for a bride price, and there is nothing wrong with the man choosing to leave. What is wrong is this era. 0.2 million/200 thousand bride price is astronomical for most ordinary families, especially since you are 34 years old. At this age, most boys can't accept such colorful gifts.

More importantly, there is no emotional foundation between you two. It's just a blind date. I haven't decided whether I can talk about marriage or not.

If you ask for 200 thousand bride price directly every blind date, then I think you may never reach the end of the blind date road.

In the real world, your behavior is certainly not wrong. Maybe many people around you demand such a high bride price. But there is nothing wrong with the boy leaving, because he can't bear the bride price, and neither of them will have an ending.

This may be because the times have given women too many illusions, making women think that men are willing to give everything to marry a person and go home. But this is really not life, life may be more nonsense, but you should not have such an opportunity.

In this era, no matter what happens, we already feel normal. With the rapid development of the material world and the desolation of the spiritual world, we have put a material color on everything.

There is no right or wrong feeling, but happiness is never based on pure material.