Talking about eliminating three evils

The first time I saw this sentence was in the first issue of Battle of Love. The specific details have been blurred, probably because the male and female guests love each other and kill each other, and their shortcomings have stunned the audience.

Thinking, this scene is deja vu, a pair of hysterical and evenly matched men and women. So I decided that when I entered the last golden sixty seconds and they closed the revolving door respectively, Lao Tu would definitely persuade them not to come out. After all, the guests who had had similar experiences before did not listen to Lao Tu's persuasion, and both came out and let Lao Tu leave angrily. This love mentor has always been known for his sharp and true nature.

However, the ending was unexpected. Teacher Tu said that you must be together, love each other and do harm for the people. Remember, you have to come out.

A couple went out, and Mr. Tu leaned back on the sofa with satisfaction, with a little smile on his mouth.

At that time, I thought superficially that these two people were abandoned by their love mentor, and they were born so badly, so why harm others?

However, with the growth of age and some painful lessons, I finally understand that the so-called "love each other and kill each other" is just a synonym for loving and being with the right person.

Born as a man, it is impossible to be perfect, and all love stories without defects are just wishful thinking. Love is not suitable for a perfect fit. Only after running-in and tolerance can two people live together for a lifetime.

All relationships start with you and me. After that, the passion receded, the shortcomings were exposed, and the real test was just beginning. Life is long. Love is the prerequisite for two people to be together, but it is not the only factor. Living environment, behavior habits, life attitude, values, too many natural factors will lead to various conflicts in the future. People who succeed in running-in are happy, and those who fail in running-in are all nine Niu Yi hairs.

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There are often such scenes. I saw an ugly girl next to a handsome guy in the street, and I muttered, how could he value her? Or witnessed the shortcomings of the little sister's boyfriend, feel unbearable, but so happy. Just like Princess Kate and Prince William, you are not him, so you can't see the light of Cinderella.

The gravel here is the jade there. We should never comment on other people's love, because it is really a matter of self-knowledge. Appreciate each other's benefits and accept the bad ones, so as to last forever.

Morphy once mentioned a classic case in the program. There was once a Beijinger, let's just call him Mr. K. The "meanness" of the whole capital on Mr. K is estimated to be unacceptable to most girls.

Let's talk about Mr. K's living habits first.

1. I have to go to the toilet at work every day when I wake up-in order to save water at home.

He bought a handcart, and every time he refueled, he added 20 yuan. Moreover, he never goes out because of one thing, and he has to save five or six things to drive satisfactorily. After calculating the mileage of the route, 20 yuan is enough. This car has been in operation for five years without adding 200 yuan of gas. After resale, I got 7 thousand yuan and lost a Beijing license plate. His family lives between the Third Ring Road and the Fourth Ring Road in Beijing, and the activity area has never exceeded the Fifth Ring Road.

3. Open seven or eight web pages when surfing the Internet, and bam-the network is disconnected, so you can't charge the traffic fee. Then take your time. If there is still traffic left at the end of the month, you must hang up the Internet and use up the traffic.

4. His mobile phone, tablet computer and three charging treasures are charged by the unit every day to save electricity at home.

When a friend visited, he looked up and saw a five-watt light bulb. He couldn't help sighing. He quickly took out his flashlight. The friend asked: doesn't the flashlight need electricity? Answer: the flashlight is charged by the unit!

Are you willing to accept such a man?

Would you say that such a good man is doomed to die alone?

No, no,no. Mr. K has a car, a house, a wife and children in Beijing. His life may be narrow, but it is still complete. His wife admits that she spends less than 1000 yuan a year, but she has no complaints. It's not that one family doesn't enter one family. Perhaps the principled shortcomings in your eyes are only virtues in the eyes of his lover. At least, it is something worthy of being tolerated.

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For a time, I was crazy about Dou Liang's novels, and one of them, Liang Jian, which was remake into a TV series, was a household name. Li Yunlong visited the emotional infidelity while studying in the military academy. Although he has a wife, it makes sense that he will be attracted to Zhang Bailu. Li Yunlong was born a mud leg. She doesn't have the gentlemanly manners and self-restraint that a general should have, but she is very tolerant. She didn't dislike his meanness, and she didn't mind him swearing loudly when he was drunk. She respected him and loved him, so Li Yunlong was ecstatic.

His wife Tian Yu is a petty-bourgeois intellectual. Her favorite paintings and pianos were dismissed by him as petty-bourgeois sentiment, and his rudeness also made her hysterical.

Of course they have love. He recognized her as his wife when he opened his eyes after a serious injury.

But time will often let you see the true and cruel side of love. He has changed! A lot of people might say that. People naturally change, and times have changed, which is understandable. Maybe the other person hasn't changed, but you didn't see his face clearly at first. Look carefully, and time gradually makes the impression complete.

A person's personality has two sides, so advantages and disadvantages can easily be transformed into each other. At first, Tian was attracted by the rough tough guy spirit, and later all this became vulgar and outrageous. At first, he also loved her good taste, but later they all became corrupt and vain. Although Zhang Bailu is just an episode, Li Tian and his wife are not happy, or the contradiction is greater than happiness.

The love between birds and fish only exists in the lyrics, and even writers know that it was an accident.

Whenever a friend says that he can't stand a shortcoming of his partner and asks me if he promises to change it, do you think I should believe him?

I know that she has given herself room to look forward to, and what I'm talking about is always that, and I can't stand it any longer. I never agree with the saying "it is better to tear down the temple than to tear down the marriage". What's the point in name only? It's better to fall apart than to torture each other.

My friend Miss Z confided to me that she was thinking of breaking up with her boyfriend who had been away for ten years. Of course, her feelings are there. She said that details beat love, and life is much more complicated than love.

Morphy once asked the audience, which couple did you see get married because I love you too much? The reason why two people go to the end is not only because of love, but also because they are used to each other and fit each other.

A big tree is just a pile. At the right time, we will eventually meet the right person. On that day, when he says hello to you, please tell him with the warmest hug that you are here. Let's love each other and do harm for the people.