Thank you for appearing in my youth

From junior high school to university, we have known each other for ten years and have known each other for nine years. On the road of youth, we help each other, miss each other, and understand each other. Thank you for appearing in my youth!

Friends are a kind of acquaintance

"The world is full of dust. Among all living beings, in the vast sea of ??people, friends can meet each other, can come together, know each other, and understand each other , it is really fate that we can meet, get together, and reunite with each other in the journey of life where people come and go, gather and separate, on their different life trajectories, and in the sea of ????hearts with different experiences. Such luck. Fate does not happen all the time, and we should cherish the hard-earned fate.”

We have been classmates since the first grade of junior high school, but we had no intersection at the beginning. I did poorly in the first midterm exam in junior high school and was called to the office by my head teacher for a talk. She told me that in the exam from primary school to junior high school, me, you, and ZT were among the top three in the class. That was the first time I heard your name, but other than that name, I still know nothing about you.

I transferred to another school in the first semester of junior high school, and then transferred back to TQ in the first semester of junior high school. But TQ seems to be closer to XXT. At that time, the girls happened to be at the age when they first started to fall in love, and the two of them were more interested in falling in love. The reason why I transferred back again was because my father was injured at work and could not afford my education in the county, so I had no choice but to transfer back. My tuition and living expenses are all subsidized, and all the schools that can waive my tuition and miscellaneous fees have also waived them for me. No matter how distracted I was at the time, I was too embarrassed to take the scholarship to fall in love. Gradually, they and I no longer had the same topics to talk about, and our friendship gradually drifted away. I devoted myself to studying so that I would not feel lonely. It was at this time that you appeared.

I really can’t remember how I met you in the first place. I guess you saw me standing in line to eat alone. It was quite pitiful to eat alone, so you pulled me into your group. . At that time, you still had WR, WH, and WJP on your team. Later I found out that WH and WJP were originally closer to each other in your team, but you were closer to WR at the time. So if you think about it carefully, I can be regarded as the "mistress on top"!

Later, I lined up with you to get food, ate together, studied together, and played together. Maybe this is how we met!

Thank you for letting us know each other!

Friends are a kind of companionship

“Friends are the ones who support, support, accompany and help each other on the long road of life. She is the continuous words of advice or words that you send when you are bored. Yelling, singing, laughing or showing affection when you are lonely, being intoxicated or dripping with joy when you are happy, feeling the deep affection of your friends in talking and listening, and constantly shaking hands in communication and contact. and grateful."

My dad was injured at home during the first semester of the second grade of junior high school, so I went to school as a day student. Before that semester ended, my dad went out to find a job. After that, I didn’t go home after studying in the evening for a while, and went to live in the dormitory with you. In the second semester of the second grade of junior high school, I officially lived on campus, and we began to live together in the same bed and pillow. At that time, you were the dormitory manager, and you had to go back to the dormitory to check the hygiene after breakfast every day, and you had to rework every time. At that time, I often organized with you, and I was very obsessive and insisted on arranging more than a dozen people's cups neatly. The toothpaste and toothbrushes had to be placed in the same direction.

When you were in the third year of junior high school, you told your class teacher that you wanted to live alone with me in a small dormitory at the turn of the stairs in the dormitory building. The head teacher agreed, but when the semester started, the head teacher told us that we would add two more people, TM and ZJ. You were not very happy at the time and felt that it was disturbing our world, but later we got along well.

I remember one weekend, the four of us planned to go to an Internet cafe to surf the Internet all night long. That time I lied to my grandma and said I was staying at my own house, and told her family that I was staying at a classmate's house. ZJ and you both live alone. We went to ZJ’s house first, but unexpectedly her grandmother brought her brother and asked her to take care of him for one night. We had to wait until her brother fell asleep before going out.

It was already eight or nine o'clock, and the four of us walked towards the Internet cafe. I stayed up all night at the Internet cafe, just listened to music and watched dramas, and didn't do much else. At about five o'clock the next morning, ZJ said that she wanted to leave first because she was afraid that her brother would wake up and be alone. Fortunately, nothing happened afterwards, and we completed the plan without any danger. After that, the four of us never went together again, but the two of us would go there occasionally.

The time in the third grade of junior high school passed by in the vast book, and in a blink of an eye we ushered in the high school entrance examination. We were taking the entrance exam for the fourth high school, so all of us in the grade stayed in the hotel together. The two of us lived in one room. Originally there were TM and ZJ, but they seemed to have switched rooms with WR later. That's probably what I remember. But I don’t have much memory of what was tested in the high school entrance examination. I only remember that we watched two movies in the hotel on those two nights, "Alice in Wonderland" and "The Secret Code."

After the high school entrance examination, I stayed at your house for a while until the day when the high school entrance examination results came out. I didn't dare to call myself at that time, so you checked it for me. We both did well in the exams and got into No. 1 Middle School.

We are in the same school but in different classes in high school. Your classroom is on the first floor and my classroom is on the fifth floor. Our dormitories are also far apart. In the first year of high school, we didn’t have much contact. We only see each other occasionally on Sunday afternoons when there is no class, or we take the bus home together on the monthly holiday.

There is a printing shop next to No. 1 Middle School, which is Sister Zhang’s shop. It was one day in the first semester of high school. We went to check in and post cards together. You and Sister Zhang chatted and learned that her store was recruiting people. She would work for half a day on Sunday afternoon, so you went to work in Sister Zhang's store. Not long after, another student in the store didn’t want to work, so you recommended me to Sister Zhang. Later, we went to work in Sister Zhang’s shop together every Sunday afternoon. I also stayed in her shop to work during the summer vacation. You signed up for a dance class and were learning to dance, so you stayed with me for a while. We continued to work in the store after school started. You worked for a few weeks and quit when you didn't want to do it. I worked until the second semester of my second year of high school.

In the second year of high school, arts and sciences were divided into classes. You chose liberal arts and I chose science. It is even more impossible for us to be in the same class. Fortunately, your class is on the second floor and my class is on the third floor. We are at least much closer than we were in the first year of high school. In the winter of my sophomore year in high school, it was quite cold. I only had a thin quilt, and the cotton clothes I took off when sleeping covered the quilt. After you saw it, you hugged your quilt and came up to sleep with me. That winter, I never felt cold again.

In your senior year of high school, you felt that you were very impetuous in your studies. You said that you wanted to get back to the state of studying with me in junior high school, so we planned to move to live off campus. Let's look for a house together. Maybe good things will happen when we are with you. We were lucky enough to find a house that we are planning to rent near the school. The house is spacious and clean, the rent is not expensive, and the landlord is a very nice family. The furniture in the house was usable and we were provided with hot water.

That year we both had our own separate den. We cleaned the den cleanly and arranged it according to our own preferences. That year was the most anxious year in high school, but we left many warm memories in this small room.

I get up and go to school before six o'clock every morning. It's just dawn and the moon is still hanging in the west. Sometimes we go for a morning run on the track before the morning exercises at school have started. During the day we went to our respective classrooms, and occasionally we met on the playground or in the restaurant and talked. Every day after evening self-study, you would wait in your classroom for me to go find you and go back together. Every time we go back, the sky is already filled with stars. We often buy some fried potatoes, fried leeks, enoki mushrooms and the like from the food stall at the school gate. You take a bite and I take a bite, and while eating, we return to our little nest under the moonlight. After hurriedly washing up, I wrote a set of test questions at the desk.

In your senior year of high school, your former neighbor invited you to her house for dinner, and you insisted on dragging me along. I didn’t even know her, so I was embarrassed to go. You said that you had agreed with others that you would bring a friend with you. Everyone agreed and cooked an extra serving of rice. I had no choice but to show up shamelessly, and when people heard my name, they said they knew me. It turns out that they are relatives of my second uncle’s family and also my relatives. I didn’t expect it to be such a coincidence.

Another time, your friend invited you to have dinner at his house. Because all the boys were there and you were the only girl, you felt it would be very embarrassing and you had to drag me along.

I don’t know any of your friends, so it would be more embarrassing if I went there! But you said that your friend is cooking by himself, and you don’t want to let down your friend’s kindness. You really want to go, but you’re afraid of embarrassment. Later, I couldn't resist you, so you forced me to do it. But fortunately, your friends are very nice, so the meal was not as embarrassing as I thought.

For your birthday in your senior year of high school, you received a lot of gifts, but you couldn’t take them back, so you had to get some of them for you. I didn't give you a gift that year. We had agreed before that no one would have to give a gift to anyone in our senior year of high school. Your mother specially rushed back before your birthday and brought you a birthday cake that night. We celebrated your eighteenth birthday in that rented house. That was also the first time I met your mother. I thought your mother was very nice and well-informed. Unlike my mother, I haven’t lived to understand it yet! After a while, your mother would bring some soups and meals she made every Sunday. I ate a lot of free food in your light.

Later we ushered in the college entrance examination. We are not in the same examination area yet. You are in No. 1 Middle School and I am in Jinci. On the night after the college entrance examination, there was a teacher appreciation party, and I went to our class. I forgot whether you went to your class at that time. You were not very willing to go. You were still in the room when I left. That day I just felt that the questions were difficult and I didn't do well in the exam, but when I thought that everyone was the same, I didn't care so much. What really made us feel uncomfortable was when we bought a pair of college entrance examination answers the next day and found that it was even worse than we expected. We were both very depressed that day. We sat on the balcony and talked to each other about the pain in our hearts. I think if we knew how to drink, it would have been two decadent drunkards drinking to drown their sorrows. At that time, we felt that all our efforts were in vain and all our efforts were in vain; we felt that we had failed the college entrance examination and our entire lives were ruined.

Later, when we packed up and prepared to go home, the landlord said he would take us home in a tricycle. The two of us filled a cart full of books, quilts, basins, buckets and the like. The tricycle was loaded with things. When it arrived at your house, it unloaded half of your things and continued driving. I sat in the car and looked at the other half of my things. At that time, I knew that our days together were over with the separation of half of your things and half of mine.

We stayed together in junior high school, ate together, slept together, studied together and played together. We were together in high school, sharing a job and a small nest. Throughout our high school years, we spent more time with each other than we did with our respective relatives.

Thank you for making my youth not lonely!

Friends are a kind of help

"In the stormy life, friends can protect you from the cold, share your sorrows, and relieve you of pain and difficulties. Friends will always extend friendship Hand, she is an escalator when you climb high, and a small boat when you are injured; she is the most precious and real thing that can not be bought with money or given by orders. Only sincerity can buy it. ”

After the college entrance examination, our life paths staggered. I came to University Town, and you went to Chengnan Gaobao.

I have become accustomed to spending time with you. When I go on the road alone for the first time, I feel confused, scared and uneasy. When I was with you before, no matter what happened, I would always feel at ease. Without your company, I am alone in a strange city, a strange person, a strange university, and everything strange, and I always feel scared. I was very reluctant to face all this, but I had to force myself to face it. At that time, I couldn't do anything well and made mistakes in everything I did. I was very confused at that time. I didn’t know what all the efforts I had put in were for. I also began to doubt my abilities and felt that I was worthless. I can only write letters and call you for help. I know that you need to calm down and prepare for the college entrance examination, so I try to control myself not to disturb you. But besides you, I don’t know who to turn to for help. So I write to you and call you every once in a while. I complained to you in letters and on the phone, complaining about the bad school, bad majors, bad weather in Guangzhou, bad food... At that time, I felt that nothing was going as I wanted. I was alone at that time. Although I joined the student union and the hometown association, I seemed to be separated from the crowd and felt extremely lonely.

You wrote to me and said that tutoring for the college entrance examination is just standing still, but the most important thing is to improve your mood, attitude towards grades, and performance in the face of failure... At that time, you had a calm mind and gave me a lot of help. You sent me a postcard at that time and copied a sentence: "As long as you have a scene in your heart, there will be no path full of flowers." This sentence touched me greatly. Since then, I have gradually adjusted my mentality. When my mentality changed, I gradually realized that it wasn't that bad here, and it also had its benefits. Now that I have gradually adapted to everything here, I have begun to like this place.

In the second year, you entered college. I really hoped that you could come to Guangzhou to study at university, but in the end I failed to do so. You stayed in the province. In college, you joined the student union, joined another organization, and ran for the class committee. Later, you changed your major and minored in a second major. You said you wanted to keep yourself busy and enrich yourself quickly. You said you wanted to catch up with our friends who entered college a year earlier than you. But you also told me that this makes you feel very tired, and sometimes your efforts do not get the results you want, and you feel very frustrated. I copied a sentence for you, "Late-blooming flowers still bring fragrance and brightness to the land." You said you liked this sentence very much. I don't know if this sentence will wake you up as much as the sentence you wrote to me.

I used to think it was a pity that our life paths were staggered. Later I realized that precisely because we were staggered, when one of us was confused, the other happened to be sober, and we could complement each other and help each other. So maybe it's a blessing that we go separate ways.

Thank you for helping me get through my period of confusion!

Friends are a kind of longing

“Friends are each other’s concern, each other’s longing, each other’s care, and each other’s reliance. Longing is like an endless river, like a The gentle flowing clouds are like a fragrant flower stamen, like the lingering sound of a flute. Sometimes she is also a faint memory, a touch of tea, and a touch of music. ”

For a while in high school, we didn’t have much contact because we were not in the same class. At that time we started to miss him. But at least we were still on the same campus at that time, so we could see each other if we wanted to. But when flowers bloom, they must fall, and when there are gatherings, there must be separation. Even if we work hard to be together in the senior year of high school, after that, we have to accept a longer and farther separation.

In the days we are apart, we miss each other. Fortunately, we have letters, telephones, computers, etc., so we can still keep in touch. While you were rereading, we wrote letters, sent postcards, and occasionally made phone calls. After you went to college, we talked on video again. From time to time, I use QQ and WeChat to send messages and chat. But even with such a convenient way, even though I can hear your voice and see your face, I still can't resist my deep longing. When I encounter something happy, I will think about how wonderful it would be if you were also there; when I eat something delicious, I will also think about how wonderful it would be if you could eat it too; when I run the inner loop alone, I will I thought if you were in the university town we could run together. I always think of you because of little things. I don’t need to recall them in particular, I always think of you inadvertently.

I used to think that friends must accompany each other and help each other, play together, make trouble together, learn together, and grow together. But now I gradually understand that if we don’t miss each other, the so-called friends are just playmates and classmates. Such friendships will disappear in the long river of time. Only when we start to miss each other, our friendship will not be worn away by time and space. Although I don’t contact you often, I always think of you. Life is extremely enjoyable when you have a confidant.

Thank you for giving me someone to miss!

Friends are a kind of acquaintance

"Getting along with friends is a process of mutual recognition, mutual admiration, mutual appreciation, and mutual perception. The advantages, strengths, highlights, and beauty of each other will all be reflected. Reflected in your mind, you can see everything. Even a little bit of preciousness in your friends will become the motivation and source of your lifelong benefit. Your friends’ wisdom, knowledge, ability, and passion are the magnets and forces that attract you. Everything is also known and perceived by friends. ”

You always feel that you are not good, and you always say how good I am.

But do you know that many of my advantages come from you? Excellent, enthusiastic, independent... many, many, I gradually became who I am now while getting along with you. There was once a saying that you can judge a person by the friends he makes. So part of what you see of me is yourself.

I remember when I was in junior high school, the head teacher praised your beautiful handwriting in front of me and asked me to learn more from you. I wasn't interested in it at the time. When we were in the first year of high school, we went together to apply for a CCB card and fill in the application information. After filling it out, the staff took your application materials and praised them, saying that this was written by a high school student. I didn't even want to give him the information I filled out. Later I saw that your handwriting looked so beautiful, but you still insisted on practicing calligraphy and collected beautiful handwriting practice everywhere. At that time, I made up my mind to practice calligraphy well. Now whenever someone compliments me on my handwriting, I always think of you and always say: "My best friend's handwriting is much prettier than mine."

The pens I bought before were all It's colorful, and the book I bought is also colorful inside, but the writing is ugly. No matter how beautiful the book is, it will be ruined as soon as I write. But I see that the notebook you bought has the simplest black lines in it, and the pen you bought is also single black. But as soon as I opened your notebook, my eyes were blinded by your good handwriting. At that time, I deeply understood the sentence "The most attractive thing is not the flowers, but the fragrance of flowers in the dark night."

In the past, I was very introverted and indifferent. I had a nonchalant attitude towards many things and would stand by and watch many things happen. In the past, I was very selfish and did not know how to give, but only knew how to ask for love. But I don’t know how to love others; in the past, I didn’t care about others, didn’t know how to consider others, and only cared about my own feelings. But under your influence, I gradually changed.

The most impressive time for me was in my senior year of high school. One morning, on the way to school, we met a small vendor who scattered all his fruits in the middle of the road. I was walking in front of you, and I He walked over carefully on tiptoes, trying not to step on her fruit. When I walked over and looked back, I found you squatting on the ground helping to pick up the scattered fruits on the ground. So I also bent down to help pick it up. Another time when we went back at night, there was also a vendor, riding her tricycle with difficulty. We were walking behind her while talking and laughing. When you saw it, you stepped forward and stretched out your hand to help push, and I followed you to help push.

Now I often take the initiative to lend a helping hand to passers-by. Every time I receive a "thank you", I always smile slightly and then think of you...

Thank you for making me better and better!

Friends are a kind of mutual understanding

"Friends are a kind of spiritual connection between each other, a tacit understanding. Your every gesture, every frown, every word and every deed , even if it is a look, an action, a back view, or a look back, friends will understand each other, no need for each other's explanation, no need for words, no need for publicity, they will be in a heart-to-heart relationship, which is the gentlest, most comfortable and most enjoyable. The artistic conception. ”

There is a saying in psychology that people’s childhood experiences have an impact on their personality. We both had unhappy childhoods, so we have many similarities in personality, including low self-esteem, lack of self-confidence, desire for attention, etc. We often coincide with each other, and our ideas, concepts, and preferences are also similar. Because we know and understand each other, we are in harmony and understand each other tacitly. It is a wonderful feeling to be able to understand without having to express it in words.

In college, I met many people, but I always felt that we couldn’t go together. I don’t agree with what they say, and they don’t understand what I say. I don’t want to hear what they say, and they aren’t interested in what I say. At that time, I felt that I was communicating normally only when I was on the phone or video chatting with you. At that time, I deeply realized what it meant: "Some people are far away in the horizon, but they feel close in front of you; some people are close in front of you, but they feel far away in the horizon."

Some people lamented: One day in life. A confidant is enough! A confidant is hard to find, and precisely because it is so hard to find, it is so precious. So later I no longer prayed for anyone to understand me and understand me like you do.

If anyone can do the same as you, then what's so great about our friendship?

Thank you for understanding me!

Friends are a kind of mutual radiance

“Friends are like the stars and the moon in the night sky, illuminating each other, radiating each other, encouraging each other, and looking at each other. Friends are embedded in In silent love, we don’t necessarily need to see each other every day, but what lasts is heart-to-heart communication; friends don’t have to flatter each other in vain, and they may understand each other with a nod, which is a joy. ”

What I liked most about you was you in high school. At that time, you were full of confidence and had your own aura. Attracting the attention of the opposite sex, I am also attracted to you.

I remember in the sports day of our freshman year of high school, we were asked to write radio scripts, and we were also judged to see which classes read more radio scripts. You happened to be at the radio station at that time. I remember that day you wore a white dress and a high ponytail and passed by our class. I stopped you and you asked me what happened. I just asked you to help our class read the broadcast script! You were so disgusted with me at that time that you didn't expect me to do such a thing. You said that you had been asked to "help" by many acquaintances that day, and you said that I disappointed you so much. I just said haha ??at that time. Of course you're not really angry with me because of this. Maybe you also know that I didn't want your help much at that time. If I really wanted you to help me, I would have gone to find you a long time ago. Do I need to wait until you pass in front of our class and stop you temporarily? In fact, when I called you, I just wanted to have a word with you. It doesn’t matter what you say. I just want my classmates to know that you are my good friend. It's all a matter of vanity. Stopping you and talking to you seems to be saying to the classmates in my class: Did you see that? Such an outstanding person is a good friend of mine!

I am very proud to be your friend. Since then, I have also worked hard to make myself better and make you feel that being friends with me is something that makes you proud.

I said, one day you will make me jealous. You said: I hope one day we will make each other jealous. I'm sure we'll make each other jealous. One day, we will radiate our own light and complement each other.

Thank you for making me feel proud to be your friend!

Thank you for appearing in my youth. You are enough for my youth!

Happy birthday to my dearest you. Today is our birthday in the same year, the same month and the same day, and we reincarnate once every nineteen years. This article is just to commemorate our past. Our story has not yet been completed. We look forward to the next nineteen years we will write together...

2017.4.13